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That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

881 replies

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

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Zaliea · 18/02/2023 17:24

Meh. Most men I've been with have never mentioned it, but my current partner loves doing it and receiving it. Swings and roundabouts. I'm not into licking feet, some people are.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 18/02/2023 17:31

Surplus2requirements · 18/02/2023 13:07

@GoingOnce I'm less concerned for them and don't really think of alcohol as any more than a pathetic excuse but I do agree it should never have been posted online.

The fallout for the children must horrendous. How is a 14 year old girl supposed to face her friends let alone the world after everyone has seen her Dad do that?

A new videos come out now of them in the alley having sex. I feel really sorry for the kids and partners, not the two cheats. Looks like they were seen a few times and didn't think to stop.

Christmaspyjamas · 18/02/2023 17:36

Hence his defence to his wife he had no memory of the night...he knew there was more to come out

MrWhippersnapper · 18/02/2023 18:02

Looks like a well lit alley right off a main road on the second vid, with several people walking past

musingsinmidlife · 18/02/2023 18:06

It is just such an odd sex act for two people to be doing publicly in a not so private alley. It feels more like something one might do if on drugs and right out of their mind versus drunk. As mid 30s, they have had lots of time to understand how alcohol impacts them and as an athlete - he knows about public image.

Ayeitsme · 18/02/2023 18:37

Dear god, I wonder is the second video before or after the first incident??

KattyKattyKatz · 18/02/2023 19:24

Ayeitsme · 18/02/2023 18:37

Dear god, I wonder is the second video before or after the first incident??

Is it definitely them ? Can't imagine they would risk it for a second time unless as previous poster has said they were completely smashed .

MrWhippersnapper · 18/02/2023 19:39

If it is then they were clearly not concerned about being seen

Arrrrrrragghhh · 18/02/2023 19:40

Is it not the same incident, different person videoing? I mean it was a an all afternoon drinking session.Drinking is not conducive to discretion. I imagine the people filming were there too and probably smashed.

GetOffMyDoorJack · 18/02/2023 19:51

I suspect the new video was taken first as although he looked at the camera it was further away and he probably didn’t really notice it. Also, I suspect the erm, lack of performance may have lead to the circumstances of the former.
🤢

Hobbi · 18/02/2023 19:54

Floppyelf · 15/02/2023 21:14

Considering the amount of men who won’t even consider going down on their partners, in a weird, surreal, comical way, i find him a little endearing. However, any wag of a professional sportsplayer is in it for more than love.

They've been together long before he was even locally famous. That's a mean thing to say.

eighteenthirteen1 · 18/02/2023 19:59

MrWhippersnapper · 18/02/2023 18:02

Looks like a well lit alley right off a main road on the second vid, with several people walking past

What second vid?

MrWhippersnapper · 18/02/2023 20:22

Different one doing the rounds

EmmaGrundyForPM · 18/02/2023 21:36

I have deliberately refrained from watching the rimming video.
However, unprompted, a video has come up on Twitter of him and (presumably) her attempting to have sex in the same alleyway. Totally gross. And no rimming, so a different video?

hempenhomespun · 18/02/2023 21:53

Yes there are two videos now.

BadNomad · 18/02/2023 21:56

I wonder if the woman knew someone was going to be filming. She conveniently kept her face down and out of view both times. Even after the "surprise" appearance of the camera man.

Aquamarine1029 · 18/02/2023 21:56

hempenhomespun · 18/02/2023 21:53

Yes there are two videos now.

His poor kids. I feel so fucking awful for them.

MrWhippersnapper · 18/02/2023 22:07

They’re in full view of anyone walking past in that second vid

ZellyFitzgerald · 18/02/2023 22:55

On a lighter note....is anyone else getting this ad pop up on this thread? 😁It's given me a laugh after a long tough day!

That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!
billy1966 · 18/02/2023 23:03

Aquamarine1029 · 18/02/2023 21:56

His poor kids. I feel so fucking awful for them.

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I do too.

His poor teen daughter. So awful

His poor ex wife must be beside herself with worry about the impact of this on her children.

I would be very frightened for them long term.

Will any of them ever be able to put it behind them.

He truly must be thick as shit.
The smiling picture of him and his poor children trying to deal with this.

Selfish bastard.

Dontfeedtheseagulls · 18/02/2023 23:26

@ZellyFitzgerald priceless!!!

Florenz · 18/02/2023 23:36

Have his team played a game today? What was the crowd reaction?

Moonmelodies · 18/02/2023 23:54

What are they up to in their new video?

Christmaspyjamas · 19/02/2023 00:03

She's in the same position. He's trying to have sex with her but looks like he's never done it before...looks utterly unable to understand the mechanics and a bit daunted. Both of them utter states and they're practically on the street.

user1465390476 · 19/02/2023 03:48

@Floppyelf What a disgusting thing to say. In any event nobody marries a rugby league player for their money.