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How can she be left like this? Take her back to A&E?

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Fearsheisdying · 23/01/2023 17:51

Posting for traffic has honestly I'm terrified something is seriously wrong with my Mum and don't know what to do so please be nice.

Last week she started with some pain that she says feels like it's right at the very bottom of her ribs and radiating round the sides. She was in agony, basically screaming with pain so I took her to A&E on the advice of 111. All obs and ECG were normal but the blood tests were abnormal. They were going to do a CT scan but then decided as her obs were ok and they didn't think there was a bleed as no fall/injury, they were not going to do a CT scan there but would refer it to the GP to arrange BUT because of the blood test results and recent weightloss, they wanted it done urgently under the "2 week rule" and from his grave tone, I highly suspect he thinks it's cancer and serious. They couldn't/wouldn't give her anymore painkillers because of the painkillers she's on for severe arthritis but these are not touching the pain.

Fast forward to today, she has been in absolute agony since Thursday and seems worse today and can barely move. She's exhausted and crying/screaming in pain. My sister called 999 today but they said as not life threatening they won't send an ambulance but had to speak to GP within an hour. GP receptionist tried to say no appointments so we couldn't speak to GP but after I explained the issue (and she could hear my Mum crying out in pain) she finally agreed to pass a message to the GP so currently waiting to see if GP will call back today or not. Mum says if I take her back to A&E we'll be sat for hours again and nothing will be done but I can't just sit here and watch her in so much pain and do nothing.

What do I do?! Do I make her let me take her to A&E? Do we wait to see if the GP will call? Just feel so helpless

OP posts:
Yb23487643 · 26/04/2023 00:33

Hospitals are 24/7. Obs and gynae is one of the most 24h specialties around. Babies can be born at any time. Ectopic and other pregnancy related emergencies are some of the most dangerous medical emergencies. It just depends on urgency.
Babies movements are monitored with CTG not a scan….

moggiek · 26/04/2023 09:10

That’s good to hear, @Fearsheisdying.

AppropriateAdult · 29/04/2023 09:19

Yb23487643 · 26/04/2023 00:33

Hospitals are 24/7. Obs and gynae is one of the most 24h specialties around. Babies can be born at any time. Ectopic and other pregnancy related emergencies are some of the most dangerous medical emergencies. It just depends on urgency.
Babies movements are monitored with CTG not a scan….

A CTG will monitor fetal heart rate, but to do a complete BioPhysical Profile on a baby who's not moving well you need a formal ultrasound scan, which may well not be available in all hospitals out of hours.

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