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Do I show woman pictures of her husband on tinder?

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Northwestsouth · 21/01/2023 12:00

I matched with a guy and found him on tinder. I changed my pictures to his from Facebook (it was 1am lol) and let it unfold…

he denied it was him lol. He said he’s been single since 4 years and also when I mentioned his wife’s name, he claimed he didn’t know her. They have the same surname… been together since teens.

we didn’t meet up so I don’t know if I should let it be….

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Northwestsouth · 21/01/2023 23:34

QueSyrahSyrah · 21/01/2023 19:55

How does them being selfies prove it's him? I don't follow.

You lifted his pictures off Facebook and used them yourself, why couldn't someone else have done the same?

Because his Facebook pictures are a 3/10 at best. His tinder are 6/7 (he’s a big guy so not all women would like that). they wouldn’t life a fat man’s photos to put on tinder….

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Northwestsouth · 21/01/2023 23:36

Awk · 21/01/2023 23:05

I mean I think it was pretty genuis after listening to his lies, he must have absolutely shit himself. He will be worried sick now that it was actually someone who knows him and be worrying every time his wife's phone beeps with a message 🤣🤣

But to get involved to the point of telling the wife, I'd say its not your place they are complete strangers. But if you did tell the wife he would deserve it like!

Yes lol…

I don’t think I would tell her but lol what a loser. Had he just been honest and said “recently separated” but nope, apparently separated four years and also the two kids are different genders to what he said they are… plus he doesn’t wear glasses (when he clearly does).
lol

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Desertbarncat · 21/01/2023 23:42

You are being unreasonable. You have never met this man and his life is not any of your business. You aren’t being a hero by stalking a man you’ve never met, you don’t know what he would have said had you gone on a date, and you sound unhinged. Probably shouldn’t be on a tinder if you can’t be an adult about it. Maybe it’s different where you live, but here Tinder is well known as mainly a hookup site, not a serious dating one.

QueSyrahSyrah · 22/01/2023 11:31

Because his Facebook pictures are a 3/10 at best. His tinder are 6/7 (he’s a big guy so not all women would like that). they wouldn’t life a fat man’s photos to put on tinder….

Why not? You matched with him so we can assume others did...

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