Purely personal viewpoint here. Not trying to tell anyone else what to think.
For context, I've been raped. It was a long time ago and I have dealt with it. The perpetrator was not investigated, charged, convicted or punished. Which is shit.
Frankly, if my case had ever got to court, I doubt I'd have cared less about the accused's pronouns. I'd have moved heaven and earth simply to stand up in court, point at my rapist and say 'that person raped me'. If that meant referring to the person as she/her, I'd have done it without question.
Honestly, at the time, whether the crime had been recorded as a woman's crime or a man's crime wouldn't even have entered my consciousness. I wanted the person who attacked me inside and out, in my body and in my head, convicted and punished for the crime they committed. Simple as that.