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OldKingCole · 02/01/2023 19:02

Inspired by another thread … I was surprised by the level of atheism professed … as I always though I was in a tiny, tiny minority.
would be interested to see the MN response.

IABU - there is a god
IANBU - there is no god

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pointythings · 05/01/2023 14:59

@BarkAscending anyone would think you consider gender ideology the most important thing going on in the entire world, given that you haven't responded to any of the other issues raised. You've just assumed atheists all swallow gender ideology whole - spoiler: we don't. We just don't believe in a god.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 15:23

My cousin is a theologian, teaches at university and while a christian herself, she is fascinated by world religions, myths etc and doesn't believe the bible literally.
She says her 20 odd years of teaching has convinced her that the homophobes and zealots who do take the bible, and other 'holy' texts ( my commas, not hers), as literal tend to fall into 2 camps - repressed or depressed.
Always looking to judge or blame someone else - gays, Jewish people, Muslims, 'fornicators, catholics or prods, or whoever - to make themselves feel better.

So as in the rest of life unhappy, miserable people are unkind, judgmental, cruel to make them feel better about their own unhappy life.

pointythings · 05/01/2023 15:30

@Herroyal all the Christians I know are like your cousin. They wouldn't be my friends otherwise. They are also the kind of Christians who do not view themselves as the only 'real' Christians.

Biblical literalism is an ugly look.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 15:37

TBF most christians I know are like my cousin too. Judge not lest ye be judged and all that. We had the same upbringing, we both studied theology, she believes in god, I believe there's more to this world than we can ever comprehend, but I don't believe in god.
She's straight, I'm gay. We're both married, both have children and get on as well now as we did as kids.
Our very different lives and beliefs have had no effect on that.

Abhannmor · 05/01/2023 15:41

pointythings · 05/01/2023 15:30

@Herroyal all the Christians I know are like your cousin. They wouldn't be my friends otherwise. They are also the kind of Christians who do not view themselves as the only 'real' Christians.

Biblical literalism is an ugly look.

A pretty recent phenomenon too isn't it?
Dating all the way back to 1920 when a pamphlet called The Fundamentals was published, following an Evangelical conference in Chicago.

Hardly any Christian has ever believed in the literal truth of the bible.

Letitrainletitrainletitrain · 05/01/2023 15:57

it's not even like they believe everything literally just the bits that suit them

No one is there complaining that people are wearing mixed fibres on S&B

No is complaining to the people using the pull out method of contraception even though that's spoken against in the bible

No one is on the property form telling people they shouldn't take out a mortgage because the banks take interest.

No one is telling women they shouldn't wear gold, even though we are are not supposed to wear it, or braid our hair.

The main things that seem to be taken literally are gay people and abortion.

Interestingly complaining and arguing is also not allowed as per the bible, but some people who apparently take the bible literally on this thread apparently also choose to ignore that one.

PrincessConstance · 05/01/2023 16:29

BarkAscending · 05/01/2023 14:35

I’ve actually been thinking about this. I really think the humanists and Skeptics are a salutary lesson to us all as to what happens when all your attentions are focused on criticizing another group rather than yourself and your own ideas.

I’ve spent a lot of time in Christian and a humanist and Skeptic groups in my life. And honestly, the Humanist and Skeptic ones were just about laughing at and scorning others, rather than critically examining their own beliefs. The Christian groups actually did spend time questioning their own beliefs.

So although on the surface it is astonishing that humanists and skeptics adopted gender identity ideology, it isn’t. Because they never were critical thinkers or rationalists. They never spent time developing those skills. They never spent time in critical self- reflection; why bother when the entire identity of you and your group is tied up with being right and clever, so of course you are never wrong. So they were actually, subconsciously training themselves to be ready to fall for the next big faith based scam.

I once read that the people who fall for financial scams are often well educated. They fall for them because they think they are too clever to be scammed.

I think the same happened with the Humanists and Skeptics.

Its a real lesson for all of us to keep applying critical analysis to our own thinking.

Critical self-reflection; why bother when the entire identity of you and your group is tied up with being right and clever, so, of course, you are never wrong?

This is why people then revert to anecdotes about themselves or straw-manning.
Inventing scenarios or thinking, an exception (Themselves) is the rule.

pointythings · 05/01/2023 16:47

This is why people then revert to anecdotes about themselves or straw-manning.

This is a bit rich from the person who came up with the biggest straw man on this thread, i.e. the 'what if swathes of the population suddenly turned gay'?

Matthew 7 verses 1 through 5 might be relevant reading here.

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 16:49

'what if swathes of the population suddenly turned gay'?'

not sure the world is ready for that level of fabulousness, TBH...

Herroyal · 05/01/2023 20:06

But also, not very likely

pikiwop54 · 06/01/2023 14:20

PrincessConstance · 05/01/2023 16:29

Critical self-reflection; why bother when the entire identity of you and your group is tied up with being right and clever, so, of course, you are never wrong?

This is why people then revert to anecdotes about themselves or straw-manning.
Inventing scenarios or thinking, an exception (Themselves) is the rule.

Inventing scenarios like everyone magically turning gay?

Herroyal · 06/01/2023 14:44

Inventing scenarios like everyone magically turning gay? 😂

yup

Arseulaundress · 06/01/2023 19:26

Notice how in a debate about the existence of God, all that has been discussed for pages is homosexuality. You'd think we'd have moved on, but no. Terror of same sex attraction trumps - I dunno - the trashing of the planet, war or greed.

pointythings · 06/01/2023 19:52

@Arseulaundress agreed, the whole fixation of religion on who does what in bed with whom is ridiculous when we have so many bigger problems to deal with. If there were a god, wouldn't he/she be knocking some believer heads together and going 'Oi! Focus!'?

Abhannmor · 06/01/2023 20:32

@Arseulaundress what I notice is that no discussion ostensibly about God / no God ever stays on topic at all.

It soon becomes about religion and especially Christianity in its various forms.Maybe that's the comfort zone for both sides though.

pointythings · 06/01/2023 20:39

@Abhannmor it's what people in the UK know most about, but I suspect there's also a fear element there. Personally I have the same issues with the extremes of all religions, Abrahamic or otherwise. Because if you look at them across the piece, they all do the same things: obsess about sexuality and control people, especially women.

Herroyal · 06/01/2023 21:30

‘Notice how in a debate about the existence of God, all that has been discussed for pages is homosexuality. You'd think we'd have moved on, but no. Terror of same sex attraction trumps - I dunno - the trashing of the planet, war or greed‘

i’m gay so it’s not a surprise unfortunately, We get told this ALL the time by religious believers.

Abhannmor · 06/01/2023 21:49

The believers are not a great advert for most religion alas. But this is meat and drink to atheists as well.

They'd much rather laugh at some bonkers text from Leviticus than address ontological issues. And who can blame them? But it's a bit disappointing too. The God Delusion is a poor book because Dawkins can't be arsed to do any research or make an argument. It's just a screed of abuse.

Whereas I read the Selfish Gene in two sittings .It's hard to find a good, accessible, book from the other side either. Karen Armstrong is good . An ex nun so not especially orthodox Christian.

UWhatNow · 06/01/2023 21:51

Herroyal · 06/01/2023 21:30

‘Notice how in a debate about the existence of God, all that has been discussed for pages is homosexuality. You'd think we'd have moved on, but no. Terror of same sex attraction trumps - I dunno - the trashing of the planet, war or greed‘

i’m gay so it’s not a surprise unfortunately, We get told this ALL the time by religious believers.

This makes me sad. I’m a Christian but gay rights are really important to me. Jesus told followers to treat their neighbour as themselves. True followers of Christ see the grace of God in gay people and gay relationships.

The problem is some people adopt a religion just to treat as an armour plate against all their personal bigotry and hate. Not all religious believers are horrible. Lots of the people at my church spend their time being kind and volunteering in every way imaginable to serve others. Servanthood and humility is what marks out the genuine ones although they are hard to spot sometimes!

pointythings · 06/01/2023 22:30

@UWhatNow I agree with you. I have many friends who are Christians who are exactly as you describe, the lady I run the support group for relatives of people in addi bction with is one such. She likes to tease me by calling me 'A good Christian' but in fact we agree that believers and non believers have more things in common than things that set them apart, among them a striving to be the best people they can be.

Herroyal · 07/01/2023 08:33

@ValK had gone quiet. Hopefully thrown off for the constant homophobic comments.

poweredbysteam · 07/01/2023 14:37

Inspecto · 03/01/2023 15:15

But that is a church’s prerogative. Why are you angry if the church defends itself?

The faith is allowed to defend itself. In times like now, the faith must defend itself.

There are covenants between god and people. Like with any contract, breaking a covenant has consequences. Why not?

I have gathered that you like the take without the give, especially when it comes to god-related matters. It’s like having power but not wanting the responsibility that comes with the power that’s given.

The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised” (Job 1:21).

@Inspecto
Defend itself from what?

PrincessConstance · 07/01/2023 17:51

Arseulaundress · 06/01/2023 19:26

Notice how in a debate about the existence of God, all that has been discussed for pages is homosexuality. You'd think we'd have moved on, but no. Terror of same sex attraction trumps - I dunno - the trashing of the planet, war or greed.

Those protesting not only brought the gay issue to the fore, they also continued the debate.🤣🤣
Personally I quoted scripture. I haven't even given my own opinion on the matter.
There's a clear difference between what the bible says and what the various religions say.

pointythings · 07/01/2023 18:08

Personally I quoted scripture.

Which. Version. Because if you're going to be a biblical literalist, you need to make clear which version you're being literal about.

PrincessConstance · 07/01/2023 18:31

It doesn't matter which version. The scriptures are all saying the same thing.

biblehub.com/1_corinthians/6-9.htm
I didn't engage with that point when you mentioned it before.

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