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I might well be unreasonable but here goes.....

262 replies

cocktailclub · 18/12/2022 21:20

It seems that a lot of the working age population now are snowflakes or incompetent or just don't care enough to do a good job. It's rare to manage people who actually work reliably the hours they are paid to.
I just wonder what would happen to the economy in general if
A) employees turned up and worked hard for the hours they were paid
B) employees only took sick leave when they were really unwell
C) employees did not regard the usual ups and downs of life as 'mental health' but reserved that for people with actual mental illness like clinical depression, schizophrenia etc
D) employees just genuinely cared about doing a good job and tried hard

Also would the NHS thrive if we weren't all so dependent on referrals for minor issues and just took a bit of ownership and responsibility for staying well.

If people stopped blaming social workers for child abuse and looked at the parents.

Sorry a bit of a rant but I'm disillusioned

OP posts:
MyGhastIsFlabbered · 18/12/2022 22:59

Iam4eels · 18/12/2022 21:28

Anyone who uses the word "snowflakes" automatically has nothing to say that is worth listening to.

This...also "woke"

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 22:59

I'm just saying that things are grinding to a halt

and you think it's because workers aren't working properly?

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 22:59

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 22:58

Had you read an article on why the Country is in a mess I wouldn't have needed to show you how useless your suggestions are.

🤔So, yes, you're confused?

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:00

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 22:59

🤔So, yes, you're confused?

No you're just out of touch

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 23:01

there has been an unexpected exodus of workers over 50 mainly due to sickness which is impacting on the labour market & of course we have an ageing population

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:03

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:00

No you're just out of touch

Says the person who is quite literally no longer in the labour market and so couldn't be less in touch with it. You're, by your own admission, out of touch. Your ignorance (and unbelievable rudeness) is absurd. I'm done with this debate, you've admitted you have experience of what you're debating (the current labour market) so my experienced (and accurate) insight is wasted on you.

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:03

*have no experience

Lalliella · 18/12/2022 23:03

GF

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:05

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:03

Says the person who is quite literally no longer in the labour market and so couldn't be less in touch with it. You're, by your own admission, out of touch. Your ignorance (and unbelievable rudeness) is absurd. I'm done with this debate, you've admitted you have experience of what you're debating (the current labour market) so my experienced (and accurate) insight is wasted on you.

Well no, my new job now is protecting my wealth. So I have to be in touch with what's going on.

Note how both the people out of touch made this a personal attack. Don't question me I'm a great manager bla bla

ThisGirlNever · 18/12/2022 23:06

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 22:57

Overtime for good table waiting staff eh. Perhaps they can continue when the restaurant is closed.

Next suggestion.

If you'd ever worked in a restaurant, you'd know that the opening hours are in excess of 37.5 hours. There is plenty of scope for overtime.

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:06

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:05

Well no, my new job now is protecting my wealth. So I have to be in touch with what's going on.

Note how both the people out of touch made this a personal attack. Don't question me I'm a great manager bla bla

On repeat:

"Your ignorance (and unbelievable rudeness) is absurd. I'm done with this debate, you've admitted you have no experience of what you're debating (the current labour market) so my experienced (and accurate) insight is wasted on you."

AuntieEntity · 18/12/2022 23:08

Iam4eels · 18/12/2022 21:28

Anyone who uses the word "snowflakes" automatically has nothing to say that is worth listening to.

👏👏👏

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:08

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:06

On repeat:

"Your ignorance (and unbelievable rudeness) is absurd. I'm done with this debate, you've admitted you have no experience of what you're debating (the current labour market) so my experienced (and accurate) insight is wasted on you."

Don't question me I'm a great manager bla bla

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:08

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:08

Don't question me I'm a great manager bla bla

On repeat:

"Your ignorance (and unbelievable rudeness) is absurd. I'm done with this debate, you've admitted you have no experience of what you're debating (the current labour market) so my experienced (and accurate) insight is wasted on you."

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:11

ThisGirlNever · 18/12/2022 23:06

If you'd ever worked in a restaurant, you'd know that the opening hours are in excess of 37.5 hours. There is plenty of scope for overtime.

I guess the 60% increase in the number of restaurants going out of business is because they haven't worked in a restaurant, then, nothing to do with staffing problems..

justsayso · 18/12/2022 23:11

MiniTheMinx · 18/12/2022 21:35

I wonder what life would be like if we had true equality. If people had a fair share of the profit from their labour, if people had free education at degree and post grad level, if children had happy unstressed parents and we had fully funded fully functioning social welfare, infrastructure and an NHS that kept us all healthy and productive.

More than anything I wonder what life would be like if we had leaders who represented both the will and welfare of the people, instead of representatives of the elite and the capitalist pig dog exploiting fuckers that are destroying our planet, our lives, and our future.

Beautifully written.

somethingwittynotshitty · 18/12/2022 23:13

ThisGirlNever · 18/12/2022 22:09

A combination of weak management, unions and employment laws.

I previously worked a shift job in IT. Due to the shift pattern, I had a full week off every five weeks. When I returned, I would regularly find that my shift 'buddy' hadn't done a single thing in a week - and I mean absolutely nothing, nadda.

I once took a five week summer holiday and returned to a work queue of sixty fault tickets (there were usually 7 or 8). Done hadn't been updated in weeks. On my first nightshift, I closed down 40 tickets just by conducting basic system checks.

We were all hired together and were all on exactly the same money. Why was that, when any statistical analysis would show that I was carrying a team of five?

I left and now earn twice what I did in that job.

There are far too many people that are content to do nothing and be carried and there are too many managers and workplaces that allow them to do it.

Your management was bad

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:13

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:11

I guess the 60% increase in the number of restaurants going out of business is because they haven't worked in a restaurant, then, nothing to do with staffing problems..

...they're going out of business from too few customers, not too few staff...

Sure, if those lazy oiks would work for free then the restaurants might be more profitable but it's just common sense - people will pay for a product/service that's good value. If it's poor value then that's on the management to resolve.

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 23:14

An appropriate wage for the market.

Which your company can't afford in an inflated tight labour market

If one isn't prepared to pay appropriately what's the solution? particularly in a tight labour market. This is all only get worse because we have a shrinking working population & no investment in public services. People could handle the depressed salaries because their house went up in value & credit was cheap. Now that we have inflation the illusion has been stripped away.

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:15

RunnerBum · 18/12/2022 23:13

...they're going out of business from too few customers, not too few staff...

Sure, if those lazy oiks would work for free then the restaurants might be more profitable but it's just common sense - people will pay for a product/service that's good value. If it's poor value then that's on the management to resolve.

Another one that knows better

www.independent.co.uk/news/business/worker-shortage-restaurants-pubs-b1956713.html

GimmeBiscuits · 18/12/2022 23:15

Pixiedust1234 · 18/12/2022 21:28

I wonder what would happen if employers paid decent wages with fixed hours contracts. You might actually find motivated employees! Mind blowing, eh?

Excellent idea!
I completely agree that paying a decent wage and treating employees with respect would go a very long way to help.

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 23:16

I guess the 60% increase in the number of restaurants going out of business is because they haven't worked in a restaurant, then, nothing to do with staffing problems..

Or because they aren't getting the footfall. Why work in a restaurant when you can get paid more in a supermarket?

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:17

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 23:16

I guess the 60% increase in the number of restaurants going out of business is because they haven't worked in a restaurant, then, nothing to do with staffing problems..

Or because they aren't getting the footfall. Why work in a restaurant when you can get paid more in a supermarket?

www.independent.co.uk/news/business/worker-shortage-restaurants-pubs-b1956713.html

Why are people coming up with their own imaginary explanations?

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 23:18

hospitality often pays shit & relied on foreign workers. As the article says we aren't so attractive anymore & we will see more of our young people leaving eg doctors going to Oz because quite frankly they want a better quality of life.

HotChoxs · 18/12/2022 23:19

sinkyt · 18/12/2022 23:18

hospitality often pays shit & relied on foreign workers. As the article says we aren't so attractive anymore & we will see more of our young people leaving eg doctors going to Oz because quite frankly they want a better quality of life.

well, yes.

not sure why this is a management problem as people have been trying to explain to me.

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