So common theme here but my dc is born a few days before xmas.
We visited family this week doing the pre Xmas visits and present exchange. Some close family have given both my dc a Xmas present but no extra bday present or card, another gave both dc a Xmas present and a seperate birthday card but no seperate bday present.
Appreciate bday is next week but post strikes etc surely you would give both at same time??
I feel upset for my dc I know they are only 1 but it's setting a precedent isn't it.
AIBU unreasonable to say something? How would you word it.
AIBU?
To say something about dc's present
Frostysnowlady · 14/12/2022 11:14
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLFrostysnowlady · 14/12/2022 11:35
@KitchiHuritAngeni we always make an effort for bday and Xmas for their small children. Do you think we should stop buying their dc a card and present on their birthday too
YellowTreeHouse · 14/12/2022 11:45
YANBU. I would absolutely say something, this isn’t on.
A child cannot help when their birthday is and should not be left out if other children in the family are given birthday and Christmas presents by these people.
I have a Christmastime child too and I’ve always been very clear they are two separate events. No birthday presents in Christmas wrapping paper etc etc. It’s lazy and thoughtless.
MrsSkylerWhite · 15/12/2022 05:57
Maybe they’ve spent more on one gift than they have for others, as a joint gift?
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Greensleevevssnotnose · 14/12/2022 11:22
My brother's bday is Jan 2nd and the never got presents as a child I always thought that was mean. My friend has 25 Dec birthday and until he had kids the day was his until 2pm then Christmas began, he has no birthday now
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