Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Eating an entire 500g tub of sweets

234 replies

DanglyThings · 09/11/2022 12:31

Is that just weird? A man in his 50s, getting through a whole box of (really sickly) jelly sweets in one go? I had one sweet on Halloween night and couldn't even manage that, it was so sickly. The kids had a couple each and didn't go back to them, so they've been just left in the cupboard. Got up to find an empty box this morning, asked dh where he'd put them, thinking possibly he'd moved them to a different container... "I ate them," he said. What would you think? I mean, it's not the world's biggest problem, but I just think it's strange...

OP posts:
DanglyThings · 09/11/2022 13:55

Yes, the sweets make me feel sick as opposed to full. I could eat a Sunday dinner for breakfast dinner and tea every day.

For more context, he was asking me to get him paracetamol for his toothache just at the weekend. He's also lost a couple of teeth over the past few years. Also, more importantly, he's been told to eat more healthily following a dvt a few years ago.

Thank you everyone, I am really enjoying your answers! A quick ask around the office is very much 50/50 on this.

OP posts:
Wheredoallthepensgo · 09/11/2022 13:57

DanglyThings · 09/11/2022 12:52

Honestly, if I eat one sweet, I feel like I couldn't eat for the rest of the day. They make me feel ill. Even the smell of them. Maybe I've just got some kind of intolerance....

Jumped the shark a bit there OP.

SleeplessinSouthwold · 09/11/2022 13:57

It's completely normal to me.
That's why I never buy anything like that anymore. if there's anything 'nice' somewhere in the house and I get upset/annoyed by something, I remember it and will hunt it and kill it in one seating. Then I will wow; Never Again! Rinse and repeat. I'm just a pig. 🐷

Wheredoallthepensgo · 09/11/2022 14:01

APurpleSquirrel · 09/11/2022 13:35

@Cigarettesaftersex1 this is what she said:

Honestly, if I eat one sweet, I feel like I couldn't eat for the rest of the day.

That could be due to nausea or losing her appetite rather than "feeling full"

Herejustforthisone · 09/11/2022 14:02

Gross. His poo will be gelatinous.

ItwasinJeremyHuntsoffice · 09/11/2022 14:03

Is he your child?

Maybebabyno2 · 09/11/2022 14:05

I couldn't in jelly sweets but could probably smash a tin of roses in one go. But i don't like jellies except fizzy bubblegum bottles.

Actually scratch that, I could eat 500g of fizzy bubble gum bottles 🤣

MyRiverThee · 09/11/2022 14:06

SmallPrawnEnergy · 09/11/2022 13:48

Why do people cherry pick posts?

Honestly, if I eat one sweet, I feel like I couldn't eat for the rest of the day. They make me feel ill.

It makes you look like you don’t have any basic comprehension skills, or are grasping at straws to pile on to OP.

It’s not cherry picking. I don’t eat sweets, as most seem to contain gelatine, but I do realise that not being able to eat for the rest of the day because of having one small piece of any food isn’t common or in any way normal. If one sweet makes you feel so sick that you can’t eat god the rest of the day, you should really find out what the issue is.

MyRiverThee · 09/11/2022 14:06

for

DanglyThings · 09/11/2022 14:08

At the time of eating the sweet, I feel sick almost straight away, and therefore really don't want any more. But once the feeling has gone, I'm fine, and I can get right back to the fish and chips, the sunday dinner, the sausage egg and beans, and maybe half a salad at a push 🤗

OP posts:
TomTraubertsBlues · 09/11/2022 14:10

It's obviously a binge. Not sure why you think it's impossible?

It's not uncommon, lots of people binge-eat, but it's not healthy either.

GnomeDePlume · 09/11/2022 14:10

Chesterdrawsseriously · 09/11/2022 13:17

I don’t understand many things on here. The massive salad urban legend being one. I have had my share of massive salads and when you add things like meat Ie chicken, bacon, then things like avocado, sauces, coleslaw , croutons, hard boiled eggs it can be a huge meal.

the mythical chicken is another, where people can get a weeks worth of meals from one chicken for a family of four and argue it’s decent portions of the meat.

i also don’t understand the whole toilet brush issue. And am imagining lots of minging folks shoving their hands down there wiping up skid marks with wet loo roll.

but this is the first time I’ve seen someone think it’s abnormal to eat more than one sweet.

On the loo brush one; I had a MN discussion with someone who proclaimed how awful a loo brush was and that a loo brush should not be necessary. Through the conversation we worked out that she was in a soft water area and I was in a very hard water area.

In a soft water area a loo brush may not be necessary because the porcelain remains shiny smooth. In a hard water area the water leaves a deposit making the porcelain less shiny smooth so loo brush may well be necessary.

It made me feel better about keeping a loo brush!

Cigarettesaftersex1 · 09/11/2022 14:19

luxxlisbon · 09/11/2022 13:41

I have thanks.

Are you the OP? You’re weirdly defensive of her.

No I'm not the OP

Tubs11 · 09/11/2022 14:20

substitute sweets with chocolate and I'm there!

OldFan · 09/11/2022 14:27

Does he tend to binge eat sometimes @DanglyThings ? Has he been like it with other things? Or does he restrict what he eats and then sometimes have a food bender?

You don't know how long exactly it took him to eat 500g? I could eat that in 10 days or whatever very easily. I could probably polish them off in 2 days/sittings IDK.

But I have an eating disorder diagnosis.

1stTimeMama · 09/11/2022 14:30

This is such a non issue I don't understand why you posted it. Man likes sweets, man eats sweets nobody else seems to want. Woman doesn't have sweet tooth and is baffled by those that do.
People like different things. Shocking.

OldFan · 09/11/2022 14:30

That's why I never buy anything like that anymore. if there's anything 'nice' somewhere in the house and I get upset/annoyed by something, I remember it and will hunt it and kill it in one seating.

@SleeplessinSouthwold Yep, my best friend has to try and keep weight on due to health problems. So he has a lot of treats in the house. We have a locked 'trough box' for them which I don't have the key to. But I do manage to get at stuff quite often if I get something out for him. 😂

oakleaffy · 09/11/2022 14:32

Bintymcbintface · 09/11/2022 12:33

"I didn't like the sweets so the fact that someone else ate the lot makes them a weirdo"

I could probably smash 500grammes of sweets at one sitting, no problem - And then be on a mammoth sugar rush
😂

oakleaffy · 09/11/2022 14:36

Aged 11 a friend’s parents used tobe gifted large boxesof luxury chocolates.
We were allowed free access.
After the first 5, they became less enjoyable.
We pigged ourselves almost sick on them.
It was horrible.
We both lay groaning, heads in arms, nauseated to hell.

needthiswilderness · 09/11/2022 14:40

all this thread has done is make me want some sweets

LadyTwinkle · 09/11/2022 14:41

No, no, I could definitely scoff a whole tub of haribos in one sitting.

Johntoewba · 09/11/2022 14:43

Is this actually for real?????

Thefajita · 09/11/2022 14:44

Well I misread the trending posts and thought OP was asking if she should call the police about him eating the sweets- probably a slight overreaction!

OldFan · 09/11/2022 14:44

After the first 5, they became less enjoyable.

I wish I was this way.

No, no, I could definitely scoff a whole tub of haribos in one sitting.

The cherries in Tangfastics are my fav. Yep, definitely fancy some now. Grin

Shiningstarr · 09/11/2022 14:45

I've got an intolerance to artificial sweeteners, so I often feel unwell after eating certain sweets and 'diet' drinks. I can eat haribo and pick and mix sweets, but often feel unwell after.

To answer your question, I think your DH sounds a bit greedy, did he know that the kids weren't keen on them? What if someone else wanted some?