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To hate any phrase containing 'cuppa'?

188 replies

closingloop · 08/11/2022 16:55

Come to mine for a 'cuppa'
Do you want a 'cuppa'
Have a 'cuppa'
While we have a 'cuppa'
Urgh

Probably unreasonable, but I just bloody hate it

OP posts:
EggFriedRice78 · 09/11/2022 15:04

I don't mind the word cuppa but my dad always says "grub" when referring to food so he never says "dinner's ready" he always says "grub's up!" or "do you want some grub" instead of are you hungry which I find irrationally irritating, so I can relate some phrases are just annoying!

hallowedweens · 09/11/2022 15:05

Do people say cuppa in real life?

I thought it was one of those things people only say on TV

Comefromaway · 09/11/2022 15:12

Of course we do.

Want2beme · 09/11/2022 15:22

EggFriedRice78 · 09/11/2022 15:04

I don't mind the word cuppa but my dad always says "grub" when referring to food so he never says "dinner's ready" he always says "grub's up!" or "do you want some grub" instead of are you hungry which I find irrationally irritating, so I can relate some phrases are just annoying!

I tell my cats that they've had enough grub from me, they won't be getting more and to go elsewhere if they feel that strongly about it!

GregoryFluff · 09/11/2022 15:52

hallowedweens · 09/11/2022 15:05

Do people say cuppa in real life?

I thought it was one of those things people only say on TV

Working class Northern lass
Course we do
We say cuppa, brew, butty, sarnie, grubs up
We feed the dicks and, contrary to the general MN opinion, if you went to the shop, took a parcel etc and didn't get called love, sweet, darling etc, you'd think something was up
It's just our dialect/accent/pattern of speaking

Comefromaway · 09/11/2022 15:55

GregoryFluff · 09/11/2022 15:52

Working class Northern lass
Course we do
We say cuppa, brew, butty, sarnie, grubs up
We feed the dicks and, contrary to the general MN opinion, if you went to the shop, took a parcel etc and didn't get called love, sweet, darling etc, you'd think something was up
It's just our dialect/accent/pattern of speaking

at orate duck?

hesbeingabitofadick · 09/11/2022 15:57

My uncle Jack always responded to "Avez vous un Cuppa?" with "Danke"
Grin
Strong (builders) with milk with 3 sugars

GregoryFluff · 09/11/2022 15:58

Comefromaway · 09/11/2022 15:55

at orate duck?

Less of a popular one here, but not unheard of

hesbeingabitofadick · 09/11/2022 15:58

@Comefromaway potter?

Cigarettesaftersex1 · 09/11/2022 16:06

Remaker · 09/11/2022 12:28

Can I just clarify that no Australian would EVER use the word ‘hollibobs’. In fact we also don’t say ‘hols’ because that belongs in an Enid Blyton novel. We just say holidays. Christmas might be called Chrissy but never Crimbo, shudder.

Spent some time in Australia this year, my DP lives over there, and he always refers to McDonalds as Macca's, I was quite surprised when I saw the signs that actually do say Macca's

MsFannySqueers · 09/11/2022 16:18

Ha ha @BlueKaftan I talk in a baby voice to my little dog. I tell him to eat up his ‘foodikins’ like a good boy for Mammy! I don’t really mind any of the aforementioned words as long as no one ever starts a sentence with ‘So’. As in asking someone ‘What is your job?’ ‘ The person replies ‘So I am a poultry wrangler’. It enrages me!

eveoha · 09/11/2022 16:23

Posh (ish) Vicars say cuppa 🙄☘️ But not ‘togs’ ‘keks’ ‘gansey’ ‘scran’ ‘arl fella’ ‘Bommie night’ ‘took a nuttter’ etcetera etcetera 👍🏿☘️

eveoha · 09/11/2022 16:24

But never ever ‘Paddy’s wigwam’ 😡👍🏿☘️

hesbeingabitofadick · 09/11/2022 16:30

eveoha · 09/11/2022 16:24

But never ever ‘Paddy’s wigwam’ 😡👍🏿☘️

Isn't that in Liverpool?

FlosCampi · 09/11/2022 16:37

A wine.
A few wines.
A few cheeky wines.

CulturePigeon · 09/11/2022 16:47

AutumnCrow ·

Greetings fellow pedant!

Yes, I think you're technically right, but I would put it like this:

A coffee sounds as though you are pretentiously selecting from a range of coffees (which I acknowledge nowadays you probably are! But not necessarily at home...

Some coffee seems to suggest that you're partaking of a small quantity of the substance, coffee.

I admit it's hard to defend my position - just a strange antipathy which makes me cringe - I really don't know why!

CulturePigeon · 09/11/2022 16:49

Nothing to do with cuppas...but someone upthread mentioned that wonderful northern (Lancashire?) word, 'keks' for trousers. A fantastic word and one I try to use as often as I can!

Comefromaway · 09/11/2022 17:19

hesbeingabitofadick · 09/11/2022 15:58

@Comefromaway potter?

Yes.

Comefromaway · 09/11/2022 17:20

We use keks for underpants

PinkButtercups · 09/11/2022 17:24

Rolypolyup · 09/11/2022 07:28

I hate these threads because these words are generally just from local areas or a regional thing and you're basically taking the mick about how someone speaks. I don't say cuppa but know people who do and it's just the way they speak.

Yep!
I say cuppa. Most people I know do.

Hobbi · 09/11/2022 17:24

RambamThankyouMam · 09/11/2022 08:18

"Having a brew" brings me out in a sweat of rage.

Brewing is for beer.

Hyperbolic use of the word 'rage' for me! In West Yorkshire, tea isn't brewed, it's mashed.

ParabolicCurve · 09/11/2022 17:28

Fizz/bubbly/bubbles
Smellies
Pack up

EndlessMagpies · 09/11/2022 17:30

'Cuppa' I can handle. Written down as 'Cuppa tea' I can't.

Liorae · 09/11/2022 17:35

lovelilies · 09/11/2022 12:30

How can anyone be offended by a toastie?! It's a perfectly acceptable and widely accepted word for a toasted sandwich. You'd just sound a bit of a pillock asking for a cheese and tomato toasted sandwich 😁

You wouldn't sound like a pillock. You would sound like someone who doesn't use cutesy abbreviations.

AutumnCrow · 09/11/2022 19:07

I am quite starchy, I think. My family would say, “Who would like a cup of tea?” We also say things like “I’m going to draw a bath” and we’re very much “May I have” not “Can I get” people

I love that, @stuntbubbles - 'I am quite starchy'. I think I may be too in RL.

Even when I'm on my own watching tv propped up on my bed with a 'tv dinner' I have caught myself eating as though I were at some sort of formal banquet, pushing a couple of peas onto the back of a fork Grin