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To hate any phrase containing 'cuppa'?

188 replies

closingloop · 08/11/2022 16:55

Come to mine for a 'cuppa'
Do you want a 'cuppa'
Have a 'cuppa'
While we have a 'cuppa'
Urgh

Probably unreasonable, but I just bloody hate it

OP posts:
purplecorkheart · 09/11/2022 11:30

I word toastie being used instead of toasted sandwich

Buckland123 · 09/11/2022 11:40

I HATE the word cuppa. I also hate anyone who says a ‘turkey dinner’ for a Christmas meal, and I hate it even more if they add in ‘all the trimmings’ 🤮

just makes me think of people gorging themselves on piles of meat and makes me feel physically sick

FrightfullyFreezy · 09/11/2022 11:43

threegoodthings · 09/11/2022 08:27

Spag bol.

For some reason I imagine that people who shorten all these words have signs that say live laugh love

😂 we have the phrase, "Die, despair, detest," emblazoned on our living room wall 👍

QuantumWeatherButterfly · 09/11/2022 11:43

I don't mind cuppa too much, or toastie.

I absolutely cannot stand 'pinta' as in pinta milk. Thankfully you don't see it much, but red top newspaper headlines about 'increases in the cost of your daily pinta' cause much teeth-grinding.

ChickpeaPie · 09/11/2022 11:53

Don’t mind “a coffee” but I do mind “a tea”. Would you like a tea?

Hate a roast dinner being referred to as “a dinner”. As in “I think I’ll make a dinner on Sunday”

AutumnCrow · 09/11/2022 11:56

AlwaysLatte · 09/11/2022 10:35

'Meal'. Ugh
But that's a normal, proper word.

I saw this on another thread and thought 'wtf?' Confused

The poster went on to explain that in their head they associated it with animal food. (Seems a bit daft as it would then also be at the heart of 'corn meal' which millions of humans eat daily.)

Meal just means food eaten at a set time, i.e. breakfast, lunch, tea, dinner.

Namechangedforthisonetoday · 09/11/2022 11:59

My in-laws use ‘meal’ and ‘tit bits’ for snacks which just kills my soul a bit every time I hear it tbh.

CloudPop · 09/11/2022 12:07

Oh god yes - toastie 😩

TowerStork · 09/11/2022 12:10

I'm not British but even I know many of the hated phrases are associated with specific regions like Yorkshire. Sounds like a friendly place!

BrightNewLife · 09/11/2022 12:19

YANBU

With ex-MiL, at Christmas, we would typically have a brew AND a butty ALONG with picky bits (no veggies) in front of Corrie on the telly. And if it was Crimbo, we'd unwrap prezzies because it we were on our jolly holibobs.

I'd think we'd "get our jollies on" too, but I can't remember what that meant 😬

Comefromaway · 09/11/2022 12:24

QuantumWeatherButterfly · 09/11/2022 11:43

I don't mind cuppa too much, or toastie.

I absolutely cannot stand 'pinta' as in pinta milk. Thankfully you don't see it much, but red top newspaper headlines about 'increases in the cost of your daily pinta' cause much teeth-grinding.

Round here a pint is definitely NOT milk

Paperthinspiders · 09/11/2022 12:26

@FrightfullyFreezy
Thanks. That's made me laugh!

Remaker · 09/11/2022 12:28

HoppingPavlova · 09/11/2022 11:07

I hate the word cuppa and most shortened forms of words. Telly, brolly, hollibobs, prezzy. Ugh. They're awful

Never, ever visit Australia. That’s our vernacular 🤣.

Can I just clarify that no Australian would EVER use the word ‘hollibobs’. In fact we also don’t say ‘hols’ because that belongs in an Enid Blyton novel. We just say holidays. Christmas might be called Chrissy but never Crimbo, shudder.

SadRicePudding · 09/11/2022 12:30

Rolypolyup · 09/11/2022 07:28

I hate these threads because these words are generally just from local areas or a regional thing and you're basically taking the mick about how someone speaks. I don't say cuppa but know people who do and it's just the way they speak.

Agree. As pp from Yorkshire, I'm in Lancashire and it would sound fancy to most folk in my town to say cup OF tea rather than cuppa tea.

Also use brew ALL the time

It's not certain people using it, everyone I know does. It's just the dialect in certain places

lovelilies · 09/11/2022 12:30

How can anyone be offended by a toastie?! It's a perfectly acceptable and widely accepted word for a toasted sandwich. You'd just sound a bit of a pillock asking for a cheese and tomato toasted sandwich 😁

PayPennies · 09/11/2022 12:34

You are all invited to mine for a cuppa and some picky bits, with my lovely hubby xx

(Dies vomiting at her own words)

ShaunaTheSheep · 09/11/2022 12:37

hot choc (or worse, snuggled up under a blanket with a hot choccy and a biccy)

Washed down with - makes me feel sick.

Preggers, prego etc. - vom

Actually don't mind toastie.

stuntbubbles · 09/11/2022 12:41

Want2beme · 09/11/2022 11:08

Both of these have a skin crawling effect on meGrin

So, how do you ask someone if they'd like a cup of tea? Saying "Would you like a cup of tea?", feels starchy. I've actually relented & now ask, "Would you like a cuppa tea?", or just "Cuppa tea?".

I am quite starchy, I think. My family would say, “Who would like a cup of tea?” We also say things like “I’m going to draw a bath” and we’re very much “May I have” not “Can I get” people; ditto “loo”, always, not “toilet” or heaven forfend, “lav”. My dad makes a cat’s bum face if someone suggests something is “tasty”, let alone a “tasty meal”. I’m not sure he’d know what a “brew” was.

That said I do like to troll DP by mentioning I’m off to Sainsbo’s or the ’Trose. Was sad to see Safeway go under as I could no longer say “Safey-dubs”.

OoooohMatron · 09/11/2022 12:50

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 09/11/2022 10:31

They do.

They really don't

Autumnnewname · 09/11/2022 13:19

ShaunaTheSheep · 09/11/2022 12:37

hot choc (or worse, snuggled up under a blanket with a hot choccy and a biccy)

Washed down with - makes me feel sick.

Preggers, prego etc. - vom

Actually don't mind toastie.

God yes

All snuggled up, comfy and cosy (or even worse, cozy) in our jammies with hot choc

Envy
Katypp · 09/11/2022 13:35

Mash potatoes. We are British. It's mashed potatoes or if you must, just mash. It is not, ever mash potatoes

CulturePigeon · 09/11/2022 13:41

Agree!

I also hate 'a brew'. It usually refers to tea, but for a reason I can't put my finger on it sets my teeth on edge. If anyone else hates this expression and can say why, I'd love to know!

I've also got an aversion to 'a coffee' - no need for the indefinite article. Just say 'Shall we have some coffee?' or '...a cup of coffee?' Again, I can't really explain why it winds me up - it just does.

I think it might be the implication that you will be choosing from a huge range of special coffees, which I admit you are in a coffee shop, but it still makes me irrationally cross, even so!

stuntbubbles · 09/11/2022 13:55

Katypp · 09/11/2022 13:35

Mash potatoes. We are British. It's mashed potatoes or if you must, just mash. It is not, ever mash potatoes

Sing it!! And see also iced coffee and soured cream, both of which I’ve seen suffer the removal of the d.

AutumnCrow · 09/11/2022 14:05

Sorry to go all Pedants' Corner but @CulturePigeon in your example 'some' is acting as an indefinate article, surely? I've underlined it.

I've also got an aversion to 'a coffee' - no need for the indefinite article. Just say 'Shall we have some coffee?' or '...a cup of coffee?' Again, I can't really explain why it winds me up - it just does.

bigshoutingday · 09/11/2022 14:40

I don't mind cuppa, as long as followed by tea. As in, I'm going to have a cuppa tea. Possibly more so because my 3yo loves making tea and often asks "mummy can I have some cuppa tea"