AIBU to think when staying in hotel should not go down to breakfast in pyjamas

[waltty]

Last night stayed overnight in a City Centre hotel and a family all came down to breakfast wearing their pyjamas,looking like they had all jumped out of bed , it was 9am so still had time to shower and dress before breakfast finished , AIBU to think this is not appropriate

You must frequent a different part of mumsnet because all I ever see are horrible judgemental people on here 🤣

I've done this many times. Getting dressed is quite painful due to my disabilities and I need to take my medication before I do so to make it bearable. I also have to take my medication with food so I need to eat before getting dressed.

Luckily I've never run into anyone as judgemental as you in real life.

Depends on the venue really

You do realise in real life you can’t read / see / hear people’s thoughts.

Whereas on here, people tell you what they’re actually thinking.

And what people actually think can be quite a revelation.

Absolutely grim. I'm not particularly precious but wearing pyjamas in public is inappropriate. Unless it absolutely cannot be helped, for example, if someone is a patient in hospital. I don't understand the lack of shame. So embarrassing. You should be washed and dressed for public meals.

I think it's really skanky to do that. Just get dressed you scruffs.

I would judge. Do people not have any standards anymore? Surely wearing clothes in public isn't too much to ask.

Literally no one in real life cares about stuff like this

Yeah, they do. I think its rude to the other guests. You should waer appropriate clothing in respect of other people. I feel the,same about people going in their pj's to the supermarket. Have some self respect and put your clothes on.

I'd think it was weird and lazy, tbh. It's one of those things that shouldn't really matter and makes no actual difference in my life, but it's still odd.

Some of us need breakfast clothes as well as rest of the day clothes. A full English can get messy.

So grim

Not if you have basic knife and fork skills and have heard of napkins.

I wouldn’t do it, I’d silently judge, but I wouldn’t actually care. How is it “inappropriate”? Doesn’t affect anyone.

I don’t think I’d be overly bothered these days. There was a time when the social norms were clearer. I’d still mentally downgrade the hotel though.

Totally inappropriate. People have no respect or manners anymore. I would think they're quite chavvy.

People sweat and fart in all clothes so.....

Ive never done it but i would if i had to.

You wouldn’t see anyone of normal intelligence wearing their pyjamas in public. Only chavs do that.

Children in pj ok. Adults no it’s minging. Attention seeking and oh we are so relaxed and casual that we wear our PJ to breakfast. Look at is being all relaxed

YANBU!

You need Breakfast clothes?Why?Is eating a splashy endeavour requiring different attire

Only if they wear a dressing gown as well.

Totally inappropriate and grim.

But it’s not the norm, that’s why people are being judgemental, as am I.
Put clothes on in public spaces, it pretty fucking basic.

Why is it “grim” though? They’re not rubbing their sweaty night bodies on the omelette station?

But it does affect others; it makes for a slovenly and low-class ambience in the restaurant.

If you think clothing does not matter: Would you attend a job interview in your wedding dress, or wear your swimming costume to church, or go to a restaurant clad only in your pants and bra? If not, why not, if clothing doesn't affect anything?

There still is a thing as proper public decorum, and wearing street clothes rather than lounging attire and sleepwear in public is part of that.