AIBU to think when staying in hotel should not go down to breakfast in pyjamas

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Last night stayed overnight in a City Centre hotel and a family all came down to breakfast wearing their pyjamas,looking like they had all jumped out of bed , it was 9am so still had time to shower and dress before breakfast finished , AIBU to think this is not appropriate

As long as they're covered, I genuinely couldn't care. I draw the line at nips in the cornflakes though.

I think it's awful

Yanbu

Did you trave lhome in your PJs?

YANBU. It's inappropriate and I would assume they were either badly brought up or just hugely lacking in awareness.

Literally no one in real life cares about stuff like this

You could say the same about people wearing clothes to dinner 🤣

For what it's worth, it wouldn't bother me. What someone else wears has no effect on my day.

Except they do.

I don't get the overreaction on this thread. I personally have never gone to breakfast in my pjs but I would if it was the norm! Also, the posters commenting about how gross because they won't have showered or brushed their teeth etc. Well I get dressed for the hotel breakfast but I never shower in the morning, always at night, and I brush my teeth after breakfast!

We stayed in a 5 star hotel in Singapore and a lot of Chinese guests came down in pyjama/lingerie sets (satin shorts, camisole tops and matching dressing gown) it was odd. I’ve never seen anyone else do it. I do think it is inappropriate.

I agree, inappropriate behaviour. I wouldn’t dream of my family doing so.

I wouldn't do it myself, but I couldn't care less if other people do. I'm surprised at the strength of so many posters reactions.

People think anything goes. A hotel in we stayed in pre COVID had a sign outside the dining room stating the requirement to be dressed for breakfast.

The fact that people actually have to be told is boggling.

I'm surprised people think it's OK. I think it's grim

No only the mumsnet precious brigade.

That's scuzzy and yes, I would judge. I'd be surprised that the hotel didn't challenge them.

You tell yourself that, if it reassures you.

This. Proper scummy and lazy

I am clutching my pearls so tight my hand hurts.

I cant believe people went and had breakfast in pyjamas at a hotel. Talk about being uncouth.

I'd rather sit near a relaxed family in PJs than some of the uptight people on here.

I don't wash in the morning (except my face). Shower at night. Teeth cleaned of course
Don't ever brush my hair

Hard no. Keep your bed clothes for the privacy of your own dining room. I'd hate to see this.

So if you were staying at a hotel type place that doesn't have its own restaurant so you had to go to the nearest restaurant down the street for breakfast, would that be okay to go to in your pyjamas?

If you don't want to get dressed for breakfast have it in your room

I wouldn't do it myself, but I couldn't care less if other people do. I'm surprised at the strength of so many posters reactions
I'm not surprised. It's the sort of thing where most people would think it's a bit unusual to show up to a communal eating area in your nightwear.
I'd imagine it's something people notice but keep their thoughts to themselves, much like nightwear in the supermarkets, men going round Tesco half naked when the sun is out, and parents doing the school run in their slippers and dressing gowns.

I find this weird because I have been to VERY posh spa hotels where it is normal for people to have meals in robes and flip flops with swimming cossies on. How is this different?!