AIBU to think when staying in hotel should not go down to breakfast in pyjamas

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Last night stayed overnight in a City Centre hotel and a family all came down to breakfast wearing their pyjamas,looking like they had all jumped out of bed , it was 9am so still had time to shower and dress before breakfast finished , AIBU to think this is not appropriate

I have never seen that and I would definitely assume the staff would send them back to put clothes on. I’m guessing it’s the same type of people who do school drop-offs and supermarket shopping in pyjamas who would do it, and they generally don’t react well to criticism.

I would think it a very odd way to behave, surely you get dressed??

They've been sweating and farting in those all night so YANBU!

Were they pyjamas or loungewear which is the thing?

I think if someone did that they had not learnt proper manners
It's not, in my opinion, acceptable unless you are under 3

I couldn't care less. Perhaps they prefer to get showers after breakfast.

I do feel weird when I see this. Even when it’s kids. It’s like they think the hotel is one big family home when it isn’t.

I think it would be great if this was a thing.

They are scummy chavs. I hate to think what they’ve done in the room if they have such little disregard for social norms and other people.

I wouldn't care.

It shows a complete lack of respect to other people. But that’s where we’re at isn’t it? Extreme individualism, no thought for anyone else but yourself. And it does impact everyone. What you do what you wear how you behave in public affects everyone. It sets the tone. Actually reminds me of a time when I went out to dinner, which was a massive treat for me and DH to an expensive restaurant. We saved for it, dressed for it and then had a woman next to us in pink hot pants and crop top with enormous (think inflatables) fake boobs falling out her top and a plastic face. You. Ours see the veins on the skin. So that was the tone lowered and made a mockery of the whole charade. Obviously it didn’t ruin the evening but it’s the same sort of thing. No, it doesn’t hurt anyone but the world is no better off for people just ‘doing their thing’.

and they generally don’t react well to criticism.

No, they don’t, do they. They expect to be able to be slovenly and have no-one think anything of it. But people do think something of it.

I was never bothered before but I was in Tesco yesterday and a man was in his Marvel fluffy pyjamas and flip flops and I found myself rolling my eyes.

So YANBU but we are probably both BU.

A definate no from me and never seen this in a hotel.

I doubt they care what other people think of them and good for them.

This would completely physically repulse me and I wouldn't be able to eat breakfast. Not sure why I'd have such a strong reaction but it seems so manky to me.

Yanbu Who wants to eat their breakfast close to a sweaty smelly stranger who hasn't washed or cleaned their teeth 🙁

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Were they pyjamas or loungewear which is the thing?
I don't think they are.
Isn't the point of loungewear that it has all the comfort of pyjamas but you can look presentable enough to answer the door or throw a coat and shoes on if you need to run a quick errand?

I'd say two of these photos are loungewear and one is pyjamas.

Awful, shows such a lack of respect for everyone else.

How do you know they haven't cleaned their teeth? You can clean your teeth wearing pyjamas.

Absolutely rank to go to breakfast in your PJs in a hotel.

I'm surprised the staff didn't challenge this.

Totally inappropriate.

Just bloody lazy.

They've been sweating and farting in those all night
Speak for yourself

Of course you can, but they probably haven’t.

If you’re the type to go out in public in pyjamas, unwashed, then you’re probably not going to attend to your dental hygiene.

At the very least, everyone will assume you haven’t - because of the way you’re presented. 🤷🏻‍♀️