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Tories are NOT on the side of women

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RoomOfRequirement · 19/10/2022 14:35

I know the defence of Tories here often is 'at least they know what a woman is' - and they do.

But they use that knowledge of what a woman is to make our lives worse. Over 100 Tory MPs voted against a buffer zone on abortion clinics. They know we're adult human females, who can get pregnant, and they vote to allow us to be harassed because of that.

I'm also GC, and do not believe you can change sex. Gender - sure, I don't care how anyone wants to present or what they want to be called and am happy to oblige - but some things are separated on the basis of sex and should remain that way regardless of presentation.

That said, Tories are not on the side of women, and you need to he aware of that before voting for them based on this 1 issue.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 19/10/2022 20:26

The idea that "At least the Tories know what a woman is" was never true.🙄

It was dreamt up by a spin merchant at Conservstive HQ, spread by shills and believed by those who didn't bother checking facts.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

TooBigForMyBoots · 19/10/2022 20:28

And facilitated by the right wing press.

Sorry for leaving that group out.

ReneBumsWombats · 19/10/2022 20:29

lemondropmuffins · 19/10/2022 20:16

@ReneBumsWombats well that's that then. How rubbish

Yep.

I'm not loyal to any one party but I've voted LD in the past. Can't now, Dim Featherstone has explicitly told me not to. But like I said, she can't barter with no chips.

TooBigForMyBoots · 19/10/2022 22:32

Single issue posters might find this thread interesting. www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4652772-the-sdp-is-alive-and-thriving-and-it-doesnt-believe-twaw?page=2&reply=120837315

I'm not sure but the SWP might have the same stance.

HighlandPony · 19/10/2022 22:33

Anyone else come here to say NAE SHIT SHERLOCK!!! no? Just me??

FayeGovan · 19/10/2022 22:38

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ReneBumsWombats · 19/10/2022 22:42

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An excellent piece of discourse than will surely sway Tory voters to your way of thinking with its silver-tongued diplomacy.

However, it does miss the meteor-sized point that this is all about people who wouldn't normally vote Tory being driven to do so because they do, indeed, care what a woman is.

TooBigForMyBoots · 19/10/2022 23:03

The Tories don't give a shit about women. They created the trans shitshow.
They refused to make misogyny a Hate Crime.
They put through policies, like Austerity, that disproportionately hurt women.
They put male rapists and paedophiles into women's prisons.
Tory MPs reported women to the police for retweeting JKR.
They have practically decriminalised rape.
They've resisted calls to remove genderwoo that they've written into policy, including a Maternity Bill.

Where are you getting any sense that Tories care what a woman is?

entropynow · 19/10/2022 23:10

FourTeaFallOut · 19/10/2022 14:40

I don't think anyone thought that Tories were 'on the side of women'. They just aren't currently active in trying to unravel the category of woman as a distinct sex class. Some people will vote based on this issue alone - that's up to them.

And they're idiots to do so, not to mention prejudiced and willing to throw the whole country under a bus to back up their prejudices.
Nul points.

FourTeaFallOut · 20/10/2022 08:02

My prejudice for truth, logic, biology, free speech and women's rights? Yeah, I'm okay with that.

lifeturnsonadime · 20/10/2022 08:12

And they're idiots to do so, not to mention prejudiced and willing to throw the whole country under a bus to back up their prejudices.

What prejudice?

If wanting to keep males, some of whom are proving to be predatory, away from women and children and wanting to keep children safe from mutilation and sterilisation in the name of trans rights makes me a bigot in your eyes then so be it.

What I want to know is why YOU think women being raped in women's shelters is appropriate collateral damages to appease men who think they are women?

Why do YOU put the wishes of men above the safety and dignity of women?

Atmywitsend29 · 20/10/2022 08:20

At this point I feel the only options are to sacrifice some of my rights as a woman to a party consumed by genderwoo, or be pushed further and further into poverty and not to be able to afford to feed my child. Not fantastic options to be honest.
But at least if Labour get in the option to protest against their ridiculous TWAW rhetoric is always there.

ReneBumsWombats · 20/10/2022 09:03

entropynow · 19/10/2022 23:10

And they're idiots to do so, not to mention prejudiced and willing to throw the whole country under a bus to back up their prejudices.
Nul points.

When are you ever going to offer an actual reasoned argument, or any kind of substantiation, for anything you say?

lifeturnsonadime · 20/10/2022 09:05

sacrifice some of my rights as a woman to a party consumed by genderwoo

Change that to all of your rights.

If the word woman includes any man who says he is one the word woman is meaningless and we simply no longer have rights as a sex class independent from men.

Given that we need those rights, feminists have been fighting for them for years, it's pretty terrifying.

Let's not forget that in the US Roe v Wade was reversed under a Democratic Government.

The truth is that no one cares enough about women. There are certain people in the world who are very happy to see what is happening to women in the name of trans acceptance. Women 'be kind'. Women shut up and know your place. You no longer can have the words you had to describe yourselves you are now cis women, the real women being men. You are birthing parents, birthing bodies mere vessels through which to procreate. Abortion laws are hanging by a mere thread, look at what's happened in the US, it could so easily happen here.

It's so regressive I could weep.

MsMD · 20/10/2022 14:20

lifeturnsonadime · 20/10/2022 09:05

sacrifice some of my rights as a woman to a party consumed by genderwoo

Change that to all of your rights.

If the word woman includes any man who says he is one the word woman is meaningless and we simply no longer have rights as a sex class independent from men.

Given that we need those rights, feminists have been fighting for them for years, it's pretty terrifying.

Let's not forget that in the US Roe v Wade was reversed under a Democratic Government.

The truth is that no one cares enough about women. There are certain people in the world who are very happy to see what is happening to women in the name of trans acceptance. Women 'be kind'. Women shut up and know your place. You no longer can have the words you had to describe yourselves you are now cis women, the real women being men. You are birthing parents, birthing bodies mere vessels through which to procreate. Abortion laws are hanging by a mere thread, look at what's happened in the US, it could so easily happen here.

It's so regressive I could weep.

I know you know this but I just want to be clear for those who don't follow or understand US government.

Roe was overturned by a Republican Supreme Court by 3 Justices appointed by a Republican rapist president. The current occupier of the White House had nothing to do with it.

I'm clarifying because I'm seeing this posted as rhetoric in the US against democrats, hoping to trick those who don't understand politics.

Republicans and the right took away a women's right to autonomy.

lifeturnsonadime · 20/10/2022 14:37

I do know this , I also know that Mr Biden and his democrats were more interested in ensure the rights of men to be women than ensure that this couldn’t happen by enacting primary legislation. Same for Mr Obama before him. If the democrats care so much for women they could have enacted statue law to prevent this overturn.

TessTick1e · 20/10/2022 14:39

Tory views seen clear here ^^

Blossomtoes · 20/10/2022 14:40

Hate to tell you this but Mordaunt is 2/1 with the bookies to be the next PM.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 20/10/2022 14:42

The Tories don't give a shit about women. They created the trans shitshow.
They refused to make misogyny a Hate Crime.
They put through policies, like Austerity, that disproportionately hurt women.
They put male rapists and paedophiles into women's prisons.
Tory MPs reported women to the police for retweeting JKR.
They have practically decriminalised rape.
They've resisted calls to remove genderwoo that they've written into policy, including a Maternity Bill

yep

DdraigGoch · 20/10/2022 14:45

So who is on the side of women OP?

Spicycurry · 20/10/2022 14:47

When people feel the mainstream parties are not listening to them, things generally don’t go well. That’s not just applicable to us, to women, but as a general point.

DdraigGoch · 20/10/2022 14:47

walkingonsunshinekat · 19/10/2022 15:12

Really ?

Today we learn 45 babies died under their watch in East Kent NHS Trust, 45 women and families lives wrecked because of their and i quote Jeremy Hunt "we didn't fund maternity services" he said this when Chair of the Commons Health Committee.
This latest maternity scandal is after a long list of maternity scandals either started under the Tories or continued by them.

29 out of 30 newly trained midwives leave the profession, within a few years of starting their careers.

As Labour haven't been in power for 12 years, you don't know if they'd be worse, thats Belief vs Reality.

Trouble is the Govt act as if they ve only just got into power after 12 years of Labour and people like you believe this.

Where I live we've had 25 years of Labour governments. So yes, I do know what they're like.

RoomOfRequirement · 20/10/2022 15:00

DdraigGoch · 20/10/2022 14:45

So who is on the side of women OP?

We only have ourselves it seems.

Sadly a not insignificant proportion of women are happy to give up their rights, so nothing will be done.

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DdraigGoch · 20/10/2022 15:01

The Tories don't give a shit about women. They created the trans shitshow.
Pretty sure that the GRA was enacted in 2004, which was at the height of Blair's reign.

They refused to make misogyny a Hate Crime.
It would be completely unworkable (and would probably end up with "misogyny" meaning "asked a man in a dress to stop perving at girls in the changing rooms"). Frankly I'd like to see Hate Crimes abolished entirely.