Not to make BF this food anymore - Bacon

[olympicsrock]

My best friend loves to eat bacon sandwiches as do i and my family. The issue is that she always calls them ‘bacon butties’ and says this with great relish. “Ooh bacon butty!” She calls other sandwiches “sandwiches”.
I was brought up being told that people who said Butty rather than sandwich were incredibly common. Whenever she says this , it really irritates me. I haven’t said anything.
Am in being unreasonable just to not serve this when she comes over to minimise the irritation . Or do I tell her how much this bothers me and serve her something she loves.
Do others hate this too?

DOI grumpy old woman with Perimenopausal grump.
As a side Issue , it’s tomato ketchup not tomato sauce!

Ranchup sounds like an onomatopoeic slang term for vomiting.

There might be a good reason for that.

You can't be serious. Bacon butty is a standard saying where I'm from in the north. You can also have chip butties. We certainly aren't "common" and you sound extremely judgemental. I really hope this is a troll not an actual person that thinks this way. I'm going to get up now and make myself a bacon butty for brekkie.

I understand op, my son has start started say 'cuppa' with gusto rather than cup of tea. Is it an over reaction to throw him out?

Bonkers

The word ‘Butty’ isn’t common, however, tomato ketchup is.

Here they are bacon sarnies or sausage sarnies. White sliced bread loads of butter. Brown sauce!
I get your irritation

I don't think I've seen anyone here speaking up for "sanger" yet — any better, OP?

Get a grip, most people say bacon butty

I've just realised — one salient aspect of this whole thing that we haven't yet discussed is the vital issue of whether friend is pronouncing "butty" with a glottal stop 😱😱😱

Bacon banjos, they're called around these here parts.

I hate the word 'butty'. I have no idea why. I've always hated it. See also: 'brew' for tea. Somebody talking about a bacon butty and a brew makes me want to rip my own head off.

So I do feel your pain, OP!

If it was in a roll I would call it a bacon roll, if it is in bread than f course it is a bacon buttie. No other sandwich is called a buttie and nobody says bacon sandwich, surely?

I much prefer butty to sarnie. Sarnie makes me cringe. And it's red or brown sauce.

I think you should all stop messing about with just bacon, butties or sarmies. Make a Dagwood instead.

It's regional slang, as opposed to common

Sarnie, butty, etc
See also chip butty!

If you ask people what they call a bread roll you will find the same divergence of etymology....roll, bam, bap, barm etc.

I think it would be much easier to simply never speak to her again.

So the choice is common like me or a thundering arse of a snobby judgey cow like you?

Let me think about that …

Smoked bacon is pleasant bacon! I will die on this hill.

Your other descriptions are correct, though.

I enjoyed the level of judgement 👏🏻

This.

If you asked for a bacon sandwich or chip sandwich (wtf?!) in this house you're be laughed out the front door.

What about a Jam butty?

Are they "common" too?

Mushroom ketchup is great. I use this basically as you would use Worcestershire sauce.
Smoked bacon is the only bacon worth having.
Personally I say bacon sandwich but I have no issue with butties.

Heathen!

Though at least now I know who to call when I end up with a rogue packet of burnt-wood flavoured bacon due to somebody depositing a rogue packet of it in among the bacon-flavoured stuff. (I can only assume they came to their senses and swapped it.) (See also: accidental barbecue flavour baked beans, unintentional tuna in brine, and the two consecutive and very disappointing occasions when the supermarket delivered me fat free Greek yogurt by mistake, with no substitution alert, because the packaging is near identical to the full-fat version and the picker confused them.)

I agree with the earlier poster that it's a butty if the filling is bacon or chips. I would also accept "butty" for a sausage filling, but prefer the alliteration of "sandwich". I don't think it's down to the temperature of the filling, because a hot halloumi and roasted vegetable sandwich wouldn't be a butty, but a fried egg sandwich could. I think it comes to whether or not the sandwich could be served in a café-pronounced-caff. You can upgrade the ingredients and still have it be a butty, but you can't mess around with it too much - eggs Benedict made with bacon is NOT a butty.

And brown sauce is far better than ketchup.

How did I end up typing rogue packet twice without noticing? 😂 I'm obviously as inattentive a typist as I am a shopper.