Our small area took in more than 100 Ukrainians. So there is a community here. There are a lot of relationships turning sour - between hosts and guest and between Ukrainians.
In terms of the local high school, no kids have taken places of British kids. The school was technically full but they have to offer a certain number of bulge places for any child regarded as vulnerable, which they all qualify for. It no spaces have gone to Ukrainians over British kids because those places didn't exist to begin with and it was always unlikely that new spaces would become available as you get very few movers out because of the good school.
There is a very clear split here though. Some are desperate to work. Others not. And this really upsets the ones who have got jobs. I know of one Ukrainian woman who makes a point of avoiding some of the others for this reason. She has been here 2 months now and is moving out of my friends house soon.
Others Ukrainians are complaining about the cost of renting. Ironically we live in an area of availability and relatively cheap rents. It is doable on full time minimum wage here. One family I know have told their host they intend to take a one bed flat though. That's simply not going to wash with a landlord around here. They may struggle to get a landlord to accept them in a 2 bed. They have two incomes so they should manage to afford it here but in intending to only look at 1 beds they are going to make the process more difficult. It's a cultural difference that host is struggling to convey.
Hosts are growing frustrated by the lack of any sign of guests getting jobs and not attempting whatsoever to find somewhere else to go. It's not even the cost that the problem - its the attitude. Many felt that guests would actively seek to become independent but unfortunately that's not the case for many.
The cost is far exceeding £350 for many once you consider how much they spent on preparing rooms as well as increased bills. Its sundry expenses that have built up considerably. Its completely unsurprising that many want to end hosting in that context.
Some people have had a really positive experience with hosting but it's a really mixed bag.
Council and government ineptitude really hasn't helped. One of the key issues on that was the expectation that the war would last no longer than 6 months and then most Ukrainians would return when the scheme was set up. That's gone out the window.
Its a mess for everyone caught up in it.