After 33 pages, that women are claiming still not to have understood
this really quite simple point, I can only now conclude is because they
are emotionally invested in some way in not understanding it. In some
way, it serves them emotionally and psychologically. And that
continuation of that cultural belief about women, and their
responsibility for men's sexual behaviour, damages all women and girls.
And has for millenia
So what are your demands, I understand you wish to be respected in society, I doubt that will ever happen. I think the last time these rules applied was in cave men times where males had sex at random with anyone. Monogamy came into play when divisions of land and wealth were kept in lineage, it was a patriarcal system to ensue the male sperm stayed with the same woman for inheritance purposes.
You wish now for anarchy to rule over this one particular subject to satify your own needs, do you also wish for their to be no contracts, marriage is a legal contract yet it is not illegal to sleep and love others, there is no moral contract.
Yet there are laws that do cover moral laws which have nothing to do with property.
Do you wish to lose these laws, do you wish to go backwards whereby gay people are persecuted, black people are abused for the colour of their skin, for the age of consent of children having sex to be lowered, these laws are placed because they are morally wrong, it would be abuse to continue not protecting them. We have advanced, not nearly enough, yet for some reason there seems to be a lack of understanding how married women can be abused, by men and ow and yes it's a double attack often resulting in the singular person ie" the wife being persecuted, bullied and attacked by both parties. They are often not innocent bystanders, they par take in the abuse FACT
Much abuse, physical and mental has a direct link to men cheating, do ow realise what monsters men can be when they have affairs, I don't think they do, they havn't a clue going by the women on this thread.
In my mind there should be more legal protection, more help and safe guarding when the abuse of affairs is present. Safe places and support for vunerable women because the abuse I've seen more or less always goes hand in hand with affairs. I wonder how many men have pummeled their wives when they found out about their affair, because this is the reality of the family home when people have affairs. Dreadful shit and you just wan't to write these women off and say, not my problem. Shame on you, and for being so ignorant if you think real abuse exists without there being affairs, affairs cause abuse.
It's not the women it's the men, they are cunts but you are helping them.
So you wish us to go back to us being an animalistic society, sounds lovely, do you honestly think that will help your cause, men believing there should be no restrictions, no boundaries, no respect. Do you think this will teach men to be civilised?
I think women throughout history have behaved better than men, we can be wonderful, we have helped shape men and children throughout the ages, if we adopt men's stances and desires without objection we will surely go backwards as a society, as humans, we need to progress.
It goes even deeper, our care for our fellow man is what is going to save mankind, our future generations, our moral responsiblity for future generations, our moral code speads into many spheres of life, we will never survive as a species if we have a world full of humans that don't give a shit about anybody.
Do as to others as you would unto yourself.