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To think Kate/Catherine, Princess of Wales, is one of the luckiest and most admirable women alive?!

445 replies

KohinoorDiamond · 07/10/2022 12:57

She’s a Princess and future Queen Consort. She’s the wife of a Prince and future King. Mother to Princes and a Princess. Mother to a future King and the British royal family’s future bloodline.

She’s very good looking, wealthy, has a good figure and wears lovely clothes. She has mastered the art of ‘do not complain, do not explain’. So, she comes across very well (such as how she handled this yesterday: Princess of Wales challenged during royal visit to Northern Ireland).

Unlike a diamond, I can’t find any flaws in Catherine, Princess of Wales; she comes across as too perfect to fault! She has it all and more.

There’s a lot to admire because she seems to be the luckiest woman alive. What does everyone else think?

OP posts:
vera99 · 07/10/2022 17:42

derxa · 07/10/2022 17:39

Well that's the system we've got at the moment and Kate has chosen the role of future queen. That's it. I never said she was anything like the OP said (which was a bit of a piss take imo)

Agreed with the piss take - or it's an MNHQ intern thread starter to keep the boards humming. Either way, it's working...

derxa · 07/10/2022 17:43

I wouldn’t call what happened in Belfast being ‘harangued’, I’d call it someone expressing an opinion which has its merits. She has been hailed here for how she ‘handled’ the situation, but all she did was smile and continue on her way. Hardly the height of diplomacy or grace. Do you live on the island of Ireland? Do you understand the repercussions of careless words?

sammylady37 · 07/10/2022 17:43

You trained for a profession and do it well but you go home at the end of the day and it's over

Incorrect, btw. I have an onerous on-call commitment which means that outside regular working hours I am available to work, receiving phonecalls and going to the hospital to review patients. This could be at any hour of the night. And is preceded by a regular day at work and followed by one, irrespective of how busy the night on call has been. And when I’m on for a weekend, I work a regular day on Friday, then am on call round the clock til 9am Monday and then do a regular day at work on Monday.

Seeing as you were making comparisons between us, do you think Kate is often woken at night and expected to leave her bed and attend work for hours in the middle of the night, making critical decisions about people’s health and lives while tired and sleep-deprived?

ArcaneWireless · 07/10/2022 17:45

And the ubiquitous ‘oh you must be a Middleton/Meghan/Kate/her mam/a Tory/brown noser’ retort when someone dares to put forward a view that doesn’t comply with a lets bash a royal or whatever thread.

i agree with derxa

Only some on here aren’t happy unless they are pulling another mother apart. Be it Kate or Meghan or Camilla.

Because according to some posts on here that really
seems to be something to aspire to.

And as to the comment that said that this was ‘a failed PR attempt^ or similar?

We all know it was nothing of the sort. Just another goady bastard dog whistle thread to criticise someone folk don’t know from an egg.

Classy.

sammylady37 · 07/10/2022 17:45

derxa · 07/10/2022 17:43

I wouldn’t call what happened in Belfast being ‘harangued’, I’d call it someone expressing an opinion which has its merits. She has been hailed here for how she ‘handled’ the situation, but all she did was smile and continue on her way. Hardly the height of diplomacy or grace. Do you live on the island of Ireland? Do you understand the repercussions of careless words?

Yes to both.

But you’re the one claiming she knows ‘all about’ the people she meets and speaks ‘appropriately and knowledgeably at all times’ so why would a response of hers be ‘careless’?

derxa · 07/10/2022 17:47

You need to “see it to be it”. You don't. I don't hold with this 'poor wee women' thing.
On the other hand we have had three women PMs. But they're the wrong sort so we'll dismiss them

LadyEloise1 · 07/10/2022 17:48

@Hitatiks
It was Princess Anne as she is still alive and there is a thread on Mumsnet praising her and the real interest she takes in the places she visits, the charities involved and the people she meets at them.

Winterscomingagain · 07/10/2022 17:49

wackamole · 07/10/2022 13:05

I'm not sure what's especially great about how she handled the comments in NI? She basically said thanks to the "nice to meet you, better if it was in your own country" person and ignored the "Ireland belongs to the Irish" comment. Which is fine, nothing wrong with it, but pretty much what you'd expect from any royal, or any UK government representative for that matter.

To be fair her hand was also being held while this woman videoed the exchange and it could have become quite dangerous. King Charles would have been whisked through that crowd.

Thepeopleversuswork · 07/10/2022 17:52

@derxa

Nothing to do with “poor wee women” as you put it. It’s about strong women. Strong women need role models. There’s vast amounts of research on the importance of mentoring and support.

As for the PMs: I happen not to agree with their politics (particularly the present incumbent) but that in no way detracts from my respect for what they have achieved personally. Credit where it’s due and whether they are the “wrong sort” is irrelevant to this discussion.

LadyEloise1 · 07/10/2022 18:01

@PrincessScarlett
How do you know KM/PoW is a heavy smoker ?

LadyEloise1 · 07/10/2022 18:15

beneathhereyes · 07/10/2022 14:47

Oh fgs Carol, let us have one day this week where you aren't extolling the virtues of Catherine on MN and begging for agreement.

You are naughty @beneathhereyes.
But you know there are days when Kate's parents must be rightly proud of her and how she fulfils the role expected of her and be proud too of their grandchildren.
I would be, tbh. Blush

threecupsofteaminimum · 07/10/2022 18:21

I'd fucking love her waist measurement but the rest of it. No thank you.

EmeraldShamrock1 · 07/10/2022 18:25

She is a very nice person who has a lot of good qualities.

I wouldn't swap my boring life with her for any amount of wealth or fancy clothing.

Imagine if she does something wrong in the future, it'll be a hard fall from grace.

Croque · 07/10/2022 18:26

I think she’s brilliant at the role which she has voluntarily accepted to fulfil. Her role does not ask of her to save people from burning buildings or cure cancer. She fulfils the brief and is a great role model for values many of us still uphold in a world where there are so many acceptable choices that it is impossible to criticise any one of them for fear of reprisal. It
is hard to see how she could improve.

She does not seem to have an off day or let slip anything unprofessional or untruthful. She achieves that perfect balance between warmth and professionalism which her role demands. She had put in many years of service with grace and always looks fantastic.

threecupsofteaminimum · 07/10/2022 18:34

@sammylady37 not like I do she doesn't Wink

vera99 · 07/10/2022 18:34

LadyEloise1 · 07/10/2022 17:48

@Hitatiks
It was Princess Anne as she is still alive and there is a thread on Mumsnet praising her and the real interest she takes in the places she visits, the charities involved and the people she meets at them.

And if I remember barely a critical word was said about her - some sort of MN Royal Family record. There is the wisdom of crowds going on here and Kate is fair game as a publically funded figure in our free-speech democratic country.

NippyWoowoo · 07/10/2022 19:16

I think the women in Iran cutting off their hair and burning their hijabs are admirable, HTH.

LikeTearsInRain · 07/10/2022 19:30

She is beautiful. She has lovely teeth. Sometimes I really think I’d like to kiss her

MarshaBradyo · 07/10/2022 19:33

NippyWoowoo · 07/10/2022 19:16

I think the women in Iran cutting off their hair and burning their hijabs are admirable, HTH.

It’s odd as she just shows how to live with extreme privilege and people look up to it

I wouldn’t actually get rid of the monarchy as there is some value in the tradition to me, I get this means someone has to front it but I don’t go along with the fawning. Especially when people talk about the dc, but also just a seemingly pleasant person whom they don’t know much about.

jetadore · 07/10/2022 19:34

Ultimate “cool girl”, no wonder she’s admired on here, totally laissez faire with hubby getting his kicks elsewhere.

vera99 · 07/10/2022 20:37

LikeTearsInRain · 07/10/2022 19:30

She is beautiful. She has lovely teeth. Sometimes I really think I’d like to kiss her

Crikey Wills might be up for a threesome... if you bring your own peg bag... that said Meghan just does it for me - her beautifully understated Grace Kelly look at the funeral was probably the most elegant thing I've ever seen, contrived or not.

JaneJeffer · 07/10/2022 20:54

her beautifully understated Grace Kelly look at the funeral was probably the most elegant thing I've ever seen
Really? That hat was awful!

JenBenJevi · 07/10/2022 20:58

Completely agree, I thinks she’s lovely too although I don’t envy her life.

JenBenJevi · 07/10/2022 21:00

JaneJeffer · 07/10/2022 20:54

her beautifully understated Grace Kelly look at the funeral was probably the most elegant thing I've ever seen
Really? That hat was awful!

😂 I hardly noticed the hat I was watching the crocodile tears!….

vera99 · 07/10/2022 21:01

Yes really - we're not going to agree about hats !

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