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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Elderflower14 · 01/11/2022 17:10

OP I have sent you a DM.... ☺ ♥

Purplebunnie · 01/11/2022 17:21

So happy for you

BCBird · 01/11/2022 17:32

Big hand hold and an all enveloping hug from.me. x

ParentallyUnprepared · 01/11/2022 17:44

This is one of my favourite thread ever.

Cw112 · 01/11/2022 18:20

That's wonderful op!! So pleased for you!! Enjoy every moment of your little bump you deserve to soak in all the joy in this! Xx

Dontjudgeme101 · 01/11/2022 18:23

Brilliant news op. 💐💐💐💐

greenisblack · 01/11/2022 18:38

❤️❤️

50plusandfabulous · 01/11/2022 18:46

Checking in and delighted to see your lovely update ! Hope you are feeling ok x

MyOnlyDays · 01/11/2022 20:45

That's lovely to hear that all is going well. 💐💐

kateandme · 01/11/2022 20:57

Yes.yes.yes.your doing a cracking job op.

SucksToBeYouHun · 01/11/2022 21:07

Late to the party but congratulations 🥰 you and the little one are doing so well 🤗

Americano75 · 01/11/2022 23:23

Eeeee look at your little baby!

Blue2021 · 02/11/2022 07:00

Aww just seen you updated.. so glad all is going well. Enjoy your pregnancy and look after yourself and bubs x

elm26 · 09/11/2022 17:16

Just an update! Baby measuring 3 days ahead and is very wriggly with long legs apparently! 🥰🥰🥰

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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CookPassBabtridge · 09/11/2022 17:25

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CoffeeLover90 · 09/11/2022 17:26

elm26 · 09/11/2022 17:16

Just an update! Baby measuring 3 days ahead and is very wriggly with long legs apparently! 🥰🥰🥰

Awww look at you now little baby. Amazing, they're actual miracles.
The long legs and quick growth are making me think boy
I've carried 2 and both with long legs and little growth spurts.
I'm going to guess blue 💙 but I'm over the moon for you and know you'll be happy regardless.

Cosmos123 · 09/11/2022 17:29

Yay. You keep going 👶.
Great news.

Purplebunnie · 09/11/2022 17:36

Aww brilliant, so happy for you

PeanutAnarchy · 09/11/2022 17:38

Just wanted to wish you all the very best Elm.
Reading this thread has made my day xx

itssquidstella · 09/11/2022 17:39

Fantastic news, @elm26! I had a healthy DS in May after three miscarriages and I remember the sheer terror before each scan. Fingers crossed that the rest of your pregnancy goes smoothly! Sending you lots of love and good wishes.

SeaGlassShining · 09/11/2022 17:48

Wonderful news, hope everything continues to go well for you both. Best wishes OP and baby 🥰

slowquickstep · 09/11/2022 17:51

Excellent news🍀

MarthasMum30 · 09/11/2022 17:53

yey! This is gorgeous ❤️

ghostyslovesheets · 09/11/2022 17:55

Lovely news OP just lovely

I have been there many times - your description of the waiting room, the leaflet and the 'sorry' made me cry - but I got my babies and I'm so happy to see yours x

Wildmamma · 09/11/2022 18:02

Wonderful news ❤️

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