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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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50plusandfabulous · 01/11/2022 06:33

Love and prayers xx ❤️

IndiaRose22 · 01/11/2022 07:04

Thinking if you today. Hope you and baby are just fine ❤️

CoffeeLover90 · 01/11/2022 07:44

Thinking of you OP, hope everything works OK Flowers

CuriousMama · 01/11/2022 07:44

Hope you're doing ok today ❤️

Dontjudgeme101 · 01/11/2022 08:11

Thinking you op. 💐💐💐

Southernbellas · 01/11/2022 09:28

With you from the beginning though not posted before. Just wanted to send my best most positive thoughts your way.

Elderflower14 · 01/11/2022 10:05

Sending huge hugs and prayers 💕 💕 💕

WifeMotherWorker · 01/11/2022 10:15

Best wishes OP, I hope your scan goes well, sending you positivity and love ❤️

octoberfarm · 01/11/2022 11:39

Thinking of you and sending you all the best OP. Hope the scan goes/went really well Flowers

elm26 · 01/11/2022 12:20

You're all amazing.

I have a wriggly baby, saw their hands and feet and even showed me their bum 😂

Thank you so much everyone ♥️

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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Anamechangeisasgoodasarest · 01/11/2022 12:52

That's lovely news OP.

FlissyPaps · 01/11/2022 13:01

Brilliant news 💐❤

Hope you enjoy your pregnancy and everything is smooth sailing from now on x

SeaGlassShining · 01/11/2022 13:08

Fantastic news OP, best wishes xxxx

thaegumathteth · 01/11/2022 13:38

Brilliant 💕

lunar1 · 01/11/2022 13:55

I'm so happy for you that all is well.

2018SoFarSoGreat · 01/11/2022 14:04

Great news! So great to see your update!

Silene · 01/11/2022 14:33

Aw lovely update! so glad, made my day 😊😊😊xxall us aunties on here are rooting for you! xx

Lwren · 01/11/2022 14:39

Get the fuck in mama!
Thats a gorgeous wriggly little lassie in there! (I think lassie, tell me if they're team peen when you find out!)
So happy for you 💙 💗💙💗

toomuchlaundry · 01/11/2022 14:47

Lovely update

elm26 · 01/11/2022 14:53

I just can't get over that this little wriggly bubs is in my tummy with arms and legs, I'm so lucky 🙏🏻🥹

@Lwren that made me giggle 😂 I'm not finding out but any guesses are welcome! I'll update in May when hopefully they make an appearance ♥️

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FayeGovan · 01/11/2022 15:00

Aww fantastic 💖

Bumpsadaisie · 01/11/2022 15:21

So pleased op!! 🤗

I think it's a little lad!

Blueeyedgirl21 · 01/11/2022 15:52

OMG OP I was sending good vibes to you also!! Things are looking amazing! I think it’s a boy! Not long til you can find out ?!! (If you want to 😁😁)

Y7drama · 01/11/2022 16:10

Amazing news, congratulations!

Elderflower14 · 01/11/2022 16:48

So glad all is well...