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Jack Monroe off Twitter

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beammeuphottie · 28/09/2022 20:28

The latest in the ongoing saga is that JM has left Twitter after being 'hounded off'. The incident that seemed to provoke this...someone critiquing a photo of her mums roast potatoes. It just gets more and more bizarre.

To be clear, I don't like to see public pile ons and some of the abuse directed at Jack has been unpleasant. But a lot has also been reasonable, polite requests for information regarding her patreon which have largely been totally ignored. And her supporters have to be some of the most cruel people on Twitter. It seems like it's fine for JM to voice her opinion but as soon as others do the same they are called out for bullying. And ironically subjected to vile comments from her followers. Go figure.

Am I the only one who thinks she's probably best having a little Twitter break? But eventually if she's ever to redeem her reputation she needs to show some transparency regarding public donations.

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Emotionalsupportviper · 22/11/2022 14:12

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Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 22/11/2022 14:32

Jack Monroe is a fraud and that's all there is to it.

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I wondered why she was allowing people to reply to her like that. Parody account Grin

Gingerkittykat · 22/11/2022 20:48

The post I thought I had just posted has disappeared.

What started out as people asking genuine questions about her fundraiser and where the money has gone has turned into outright bullying with every single aspect of her life being mocked, even on here people are linking to the tweet of a parody account mocking her hairdo.

I just looked on Twitter to see if she was back and there was a tweet with the floorplan of her house. How obsessive must someone be to go and find that information and then post it publicly?

Applesandcarrots · 22/11/2022 20:54

While I may agree on the looks comments, I think the bungalow is fair game. It's a shitty little bungalow, isn't it.... Oh wait.

Gingerkittykat · 22/11/2022 21:21

It is not ok to post a floorplan of someone's house, it's a complete invasion of privacy and could potentially put her in danger by making that info publicly available.

If you want to point out her origin story, and current tales of poverty are bogus there are other ways to do it.

category12 · 22/11/2022 21:36

There's always the danger of going a bit too far, isn't there? 😕

I agree about the floorplan and anything that might be a security risk.

I don't think mocking her appearance is OK. Perhaps it's fair enough to point out obvious spends on hair dye or cuts if she's claiming she can't afford shampoo but otherwise no.

I think the parody said they were going to stop posting for a while after Jack did her MH post, so that's probably for the best. I think it's better to stick to the food & I was so poor jokes.

JubileeTrifle · 23/11/2022 15:02

The floor plan isn’t right. However she has spent years trying to downplay where she lives as ‘shitty’. When in fact she lives in a very nice area in a house worth £800k (her pricing). It doesn’t align with the still living in poverty.
She has also said at different points she was on a rolling contract and then says she’s in a fixed term 2 years contract because of her ex - who left 2.5 years ago. She also said she didn’t want to leave as it was the first permanent home her son has know (his dads doesn’t seem to count). As with all things, nothing adds up.
My understanding is you can get out of fixed term contracts as well.

AnonWeeMouse · 23/11/2022 15:22

Floor plans are available online for a lot of houses, more or less public info these days.

She was meant to be on Wales today, conference about Welsh Social housing... Which she knows what about? Who knows.
Seems she was uninvited / dropped out.

Applesandcarrots · 23/11/2022 16:14

JubileeTrifle · 23/11/2022 15:02

The floor plan isn’t right. However she has spent years trying to downplay where she lives as ‘shitty’. When in fact she lives in a very nice area in a house worth £800k (her pricing). It doesn’t align with the still living in poverty.
She has also said at different points she was on a rolling contract and then says she’s in a fixed term 2 years contract because of her ex - who left 2.5 years ago. She also said she didn’t want to leave as it was the first permanent home her son has know (his dads doesn’t seem to count). As with all things, nothing adds up.
My understanding is you can get out of fixed term contracts as well.

Yes. There is, especially in long ones, a break clause.

Many landlords would also allow early break if you for example cover some extra costs. There is in 99% a way

Gingerkittykat · 23/11/2022 17:10

As far as I know, Jack has never publicly revealed her address so whoever has gone and found her plans sounds like some kind of obsessed stalker.

Why do you care whether or not she has gone to a conference in Wales today?

PriamFarrl · 23/11/2022 17:48

I’ve not seen the floor plan post, but I do recall many years ago she posted a picture of her front door on social media. Someone then posted on here that they knew exactly where it was and then said the street name!

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Gingerkittykat · 23/11/2022 17:10

As far as I know, Jack has never publicly revealed her address so whoever has gone and found her plans sounds like some kind of obsessed stalker.

Why do you care whether or not she has gone to a conference in Wales today?

Because it's interesting if she pulled out, or if the venue cancelled her appearance.

JemimaTab · 23/11/2022 18:09

She’s always been quite flaky about keeping appointments - she’s often a no-show. She’s missed several radio interviews in the last couple of years, and she was supposed to be on a panel at Leftfield at Glastonbury this year too, but never showed up.

AnonWeeMouse · 23/11/2022 18:51

As far as I know, Jack has never publicly revealed her address so whoever has gone and found her plans sounds like some kind of obsessed stalker.

Hmm. If she posted on here half the crap she did on twitter she'd want it deleting for being 'Outing'
Southend, photos of garden and interior, not far from the Asda etc etc it doesn't take a genius or 5 minutes on Google to figure it out.

WaddleAway · 23/11/2022 19:39

Gingerkittykat · 23/11/2022 17:10

As far as I know, Jack has never publicly revealed her address so whoever has gone and found her plans sounds like some kind of obsessed stalker.

Why do you care whether or not she has gone to a conference in Wales today?

Same reason anyone is interested in anything people in the public I do, I guess. If no one was interested, they wouldn’t be famous, would they?

JubileeTrifle · 23/11/2022 20:03

She can’t help oversharing everything. Which is why everyone can see how much stuff she has bought. She gives lots of information about where she lives. I’m sure I saw something that showed the road she lived on and the big houses on it. She literally can’t help herself.

Applesandcarrots · 23/11/2022 20:13

JubileeTrifle · 23/11/2022 20:03

She can’t help oversharing everything. Which is why everyone can see how much stuff she has bought. She gives lots of information about where she lives. I’m sure I saw something that showed the road she lived on and the big houses on it. She literally can’t help herself.

On could think she can otherwise maybe just maybe the accounts with where has the money gone would be oversheared as well🤷🏻

Sometimes it feel like trolling tbh.
"I am one of the poors boiling soap. While I have 10k sideboard haha" (10k is made up, no idea how much her sideboard costs, exaggeration for a point)

Emotionalsupportviper · 23/11/2022 21:09

I don't think mocking her appearance is OK. Perhaps it's fair enough to point out obvious spends on hair dye or cuts if she's claiming she can't afford shampoo but otherwise no.

She effectively mocks her own appearance. She alters her own facial and body proportions (badly) to the extent that she often makes herself appear weird. One of the things that aided her promotion as the acceptable face of poverty was that fact that she was an attractive woman and very photogenic. It was easy to promote her and her appalling, untested recipes. She has repeatedly published photos of herself which are apparently doctored - to make herself look ill, or sexy, or studious, or professional- whatever suits her purpose at that moment.

Gingerkittykat · 23/11/2022 21:47

AnonWeeMouse · 23/11/2022 18:51

As far as I know, Jack has never publicly revealed her address so whoever has gone and found her plans sounds like some kind of obsessed stalker.

Hmm. If she posted on here half the crap she did on twitter she'd want it deleting for being 'Outing'
Southend, photos of garden and interior, not far from the Asda etc etc it doesn't take a genius or 5 minutes on Google to figure it out.

Why would you want to figure it out though? It seems stalkerish to be the one doing the googling and I can't see a single reason to do that. There are definitely people out there taking their JM obsession too far.

category12 · 23/11/2022 21:51

Emotionalsupportviper · 23/11/2022 21:09

I don't think mocking her appearance is OK. Perhaps it's fair enough to point out obvious spends on hair dye or cuts if she's claiming she can't afford shampoo but otherwise no.

She effectively mocks her own appearance. She alters her own facial and body proportions (badly) to the extent that she often makes herself appear weird. One of the things that aided her promotion as the acceptable face of poverty was that fact that she was an attractive woman and very photogenic. It was easy to promote her and her appalling, untested recipes. She has repeatedly published photos of herself which are apparently doctored - to make herself look ill, or sexy, or studious, or professional- whatever suits her purpose at that moment.

That's being an "influencer" or "content creator", isn't it? Part of what she's selling is her image. Playing with her look is part of that. Tons of people do bad filters or photoshopping to try to make themselves look better. Women shredding women for their appearance sits badly with me.

I don't think it's relevant or necessary, to what I see as the main criticisms about lack of transparency about fundraising or occupying platforms she may not truly represent.

We could rip everything about her, but I think it just makes it easier for the more serious criticisms to be discredited and disregarded.

Emotionalsupportviper · 23/11/2022 21:58

Gingerkittykat · 23/11/2022 21:47

Why would you want to figure it out though? It seems stalkerish to be the one doing the googling and I can't see a single reason to do that. There are definitely people out there taking their JM obsession too far.

Where is the dividing line between "stalkers" and "investigative"?

shrunkenhead · 23/11/2022 22:07

I can't believe this thread is still running, to 16 pages!?! Seriously, who is that invested in JM to care THIS much?! I worry about her health and the fact she might be reading this thread and it is v much bullying and if it was any other celeb MN would've deleted by now!
Why is this allowed when any other thread of a similar nature needs to be "looked into" etc for trolling issues?!

AnonWeeMouse · 23/11/2022 22:20

Gingerkittykat · 23/11/2022 21:47

Why would you want to figure it out though? It seems stalkerish to be the one doing the googling and I can't see a single reason to do that. There are definitely people out there taking their JM obsession too far.

omeone in the public eye who is known for lying and scamming, says they live in a holey tent in field and can scarcely afford to buy gas for their calor cooker... Please send cash to PayPal..

Some eyebrows get raised, it's fact checked, turns out that actually theyre living in a 800k+ house in a posh area of town where the council tax alone is likely more than the average monthly income.

If you don't get how someone might want to fact check every word a known liar says, well, I can't help you, I get it though.

WaddleAway · 23/11/2022 22:27

shrunkenhead · 23/11/2022 22:07

I can't believe this thread is still running, to 16 pages!?! Seriously, who is that invested in JM to care THIS much?! I worry about her health and the fact she might be reading this thread and it is v much bullying and if it was any other celeb MN would've deleted by now!
Why is this allowed when any other thread of a similar nature needs to be "looked into" etc for trolling issues?!

If she’s reading this thread then it’s because she’s sought it out. People discuss ‘celebrities’ all the time, it’s only bullying if people are aiming the comments at her.
Of course people are ‘invested’ in people who are in the public eye. If they weren’t, there would be no such thing as ‘celebrities’. They need people to be invested, it’s what their career is based on.

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