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Websites not changing their banners to black.

144 replies

Snoozer11 · 09/09/2022 21:32

What are your thoughts on websites changing their colours to black and white in response to the Queen's death?

I'm not an ardent royalist, but I think it's a nice touch in amongst this significant event.

I've noticed some websites haven't and in a way I find it disrespectful. The Guardian hasn't bothered to do this, which isn't a surprise. But AIBU to think showing a little unity in this time wouldn't be amiss? Mumsnet hasn't done it either.

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ihatethecold · 09/09/2022 21:35

I couldn’t care less about a website changing colour!

NomeatNoveg · 09/09/2022 21:36

OMG....haven't you got anything else better to think about?

Etinoxaurus · 09/09/2022 21:36

Guardian has black borders on the real life ‘paper paper’ today.

XenoBitch · 09/09/2022 21:37

I don't care.
It is virtue signalling.

BigBearLittleBear · 09/09/2022 21:37

Completely a matter for them. If they do it, nice touch. If not, who cares?

Nothingbuttheglory · 09/09/2022 21:37

I can't imagine the Queen would have given a monkey's.

FinallyHere · 09/09/2022 21:37

IMHO, respect is not about the colour of ink on paper and/or the colour settings on a screen

KangarooKenny · 09/09/2022 21:37

I think it’s respectful. I thought MN might have followed the trend, but obviously not.

User148563 · 09/09/2022 21:38

It's only really websites like the BBC that should do that

dementedpixie · 09/09/2022 21:38

Don't care tbh
Virtue signalling

OhYouBadBadKitten · 09/09/2022 21:38

Respect isn't about judging whether others fit into your idea of mourning.

neverbeenskiing · 09/09/2022 21:38

I envy people who have the headspace to get worked up about things like this.

DontMakeMeShushYou · 09/09/2022 21:38

Virtue signalling nonsense. How does changing a logo convey respect?

rainbowmilk · 09/09/2022 21:39

omg I think it’s disrespectful that you can even on websites at a time like this. Shame on you!

PinkBuffalo · 09/09/2022 21:39

Our work has changed the intranet to all blacked out videos apart from a picture of the queen and all blacked out round the edges
it just looks like a really bad connection i thought there was something wrong with the internet when I logged on
It makes it really hard to look at

Snowiscold · 09/09/2022 21:40

I wouldn’t notice or care. I’m more likely to think it’s a bit odd to do it.

SheldontheWonderSchlong · 09/09/2022 21:40

Virtue-signalling nonsense generally. And I could also do without emails from companies telling me how sad they are.

HowManyWaysAreThereToSayThatEverythingSucks · 09/09/2022 21:40

They are obviously doing it to appeal to their customers / viewership. I think I have more respect for the ones who don't do it.

TabithaTittlemouse · 09/09/2022 21:40

It’s a stupid ‘gesture’. If I dyed my eyebrows black tonight would that be a kind gesture to mark my grief?
I am sad that she died but don’t need to check that websites have ‘paid respect’ by turning black.

Completelyovernonsense · 09/09/2022 21:40

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jewishmum · 09/09/2022 21:42

What a load of nonsense this all is.

TabithaTittlemouse · 09/09/2022 21:42

@Completelyovernonsense I will get on it tomorrow.

Tangled123 · 09/09/2022 21:43

People grieve differently. I think it makes it harder to deal with if reminders are everywhere. The radio in work was playing really sad music all day and even Next have a memorial up. Places to escape from it are a good thing imo.

LemonJuiceFromConcentrate · 09/09/2022 21:44

The entire front of the Guardian app is dark grey/black and all the visible stories are about the Queen until you scroll down really far — so, as annoying as the Guardian can sometimes be, I think you’re mistaken about it on this occasion