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Wedding on day of Queen’s funeral!!!

313 replies

RIPQueen · 08/09/2022 19:12

The Daily Mail are saying funeral is on day 10 of mourning. Assuming tomorrow is day 1, is that not Sunday 18th? What happens to a wedding on that day?!

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2manyopinions · 08/09/2022 22:08

I'm not a Royalist but let the woman go cold before you think about your own self serving interests..I get it weddings are important, but the World will still be turning in 10 days time so the Wedding will still go ahead unless the B&G decide otherwise...If you're the B (or G) maybe it would be a nice mark of respect to to make a subtle nod at your ceremony ?

Drunkencrow · 08/09/2022 22:08

It's not being a Bridezilla to want a wedding to go ahead !

Arnaquer · 08/09/2022 22:09

Minniemummy19 · 08/09/2022 21:35

We got married same day as Lady Diana's funeral, everywhere was closed so suits, flowers etc had to be collected earlier but apart from that it went ahead as planned, all guests came as intended too. Granted it wasn't the Queen though.

Happy Silver anniversary!

GhostFromTheOtherSide · 08/09/2022 22:10

Blimey, I've hear of Bridezillas but The Queen has just died and you want to make it all about you? Good luck with that. well, life does go on y’know?

From my perspective I bloody hope that if it’s the 19th there isn’t a bank holiday since I’m meant to start a new job on that day and it’s taken me years with serious illness etc thrown in to actually manage to get this job and I suspect that if they’re closed on the 19th then they’ll move my start date back a week because I need to take delivery of laptops etc. And from a financial perspective that is bad.

holdmytongue · 08/09/2022 22:16

freckles20 · 08/09/2022 21:31

Seriously? The clergy will refuse to marry people on that day? People who have been planning for months if not years, piled savings into getting married on that day in-front of their loved ones? I am flabbergasted.

I accept that things will be different, and businesses will close but I would heave exoected some things to go ahead regardless- weddings, funerals, flights, medical treatment,

I'll be working. I'm self employed. Customers rely on me and I won't be letting anyone down who needs me.

It's called a mark of respect

BrokenMatress · 08/09/2022 22:17

2manyopinions · 08/09/2022 22:08

I'm not a Royalist but let the woman go cold before you think about your own self serving interests..I get it weddings are important, but the World will still be turning in 10 days time so the Wedding will still go ahead unless the B&G decide otherwise...If you're the B (or G) maybe it would be a nice mark of respect to to make a subtle nod at your ceremony ?

What ?

It is not unreasonable to wonder if your wedding service will be cancelled
It will not be up to the bride and groom it will be up to the venue and officiate
Why would you have a nod in your ceremony?

FarmGirl78 · 08/09/2022 22:17

I don't think people are grasping that this isn't just a slightly bigger version of Diana's funeral. Its a state funeral. The last state funeral in the UK was Winston Churchill, nearly 60 years ago. It's going to be bigger than anything most of us have seen. To give you a clue what it'll entail....en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_and_state_funeral_of_George_VI#:~:text=The%20procession%20was%20broadcast%20on,treatment%2C%20and%20also%20by%20radio.

There's no point saying what will or won't happen because Britain was a very different place when we had the last Monarch's funeral, and each time things will change slightly anyway. George VI's funeral was D+9, and that wasn't affected by a weekend. No point speculating.

QuebecBagnet · 08/09/2022 22:17

NessLockwood · 08/09/2022 20:17

Because... why? Churches are shut?

You didn’t used to be allowed to get married either on a Sunday or after a certain time (maybe 5pm) any day. Those were certainly the rules when I got married, admittedly a few decades ago. I believe the rules have since changed but guess not everyone knows that.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 08/09/2022 22:19

Totally irrelevant but that's my anniversary!

Benjispruce4 · 08/09/2022 22:24

Oh @Slightlystressedbride enjoy your day. Most people who love you will be happy to celebrate your long awaited day. I’m pretty sure the Queen would want you to, too.

Fantasticfroliks · 08/09/2022 22:25

I read somewhere months back it will most likely be on the Saturday somewhere between 8 and 13 days after.
I think it will be the 17th

Slightlystressedbride · 08/09/2022 22:27

Ah thanks you @Benjispruce4 <waves>

I've opened the wine, there's no point stressing out I've concluded (after a glass of said wine) what will be will be!!!

Dimondsareforever · 08/09/2022 22:30

I think today is day zero. Or rather ‘D-Day’ as operation London Bridge calls it. So tomorrow would be day 1 …

Sicro · 08/09/2022 22:32

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AliTheMinx · 08/09/2022 22:33

My friend's funeral is scheduled for Monday 19 September :-(

Zippy1510 · 08/09/2022 22:34

Most news outlets seem to be suggesting 19th now

whynotwhatknot · 08/09/2022 22:34

i read somewher eit wil prob be on monday 19th and shops dont have to close banks will and the stock exchange but thats it

BrokenMatress · 08/09/2022 22:39

Zippy1510 · 08/09/2022 22:34

Most news outlets seem to be suggesting 19th now

Hope so
Wedding on the 17th has been cancelled twice already

eastegg · 08/09/2022 22:41

EmmaGrundyForPM · 08/09/2022 19:16

I didn't realise you could get married on a Sunday.

I don’t think you can in church no, but of course many weddings are not in a church. If you’re Jewish, for example, a traditional wedding would invariably be on a Sunday. And non religious weddings can be any time afaik.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 08/09/2022 22:45

Monday 19th is the first day of freshers week. I can't see it changing.

Mammyloveswine · 08/09/2022 22:46

EmmaGrundyForPM · 08/09/2022 19:16

I didn't realise you could get married on a Sunday.

Why would you not? I got married on a Sunday..In church..

Baravia · 08/09/2022 22:53

Same problem, my cousin is getting married on the 17th. Will just have to do 2 things in one day if they decide to have it on a day you're doing something on...

eastegg · 08/09/2022 22:55

Haudyourwheesht · 08/09/2022 20:03

I would want to watch it. Perhaps set up a TV like people do for the world Cup. A quiet zone for reflection

Nothing says 'happily ever after' like an elderly lady's funeral on a big screen in the next room.

Well why not? Liz was a great advert for a long happy marriage.

BrokenMatress · 08/09/2022 22:57

eastegg · 08/09/2022 22:55

Well why not? Liz was a great advert for a long happy marriage.

He was a serial adulterer and there were rumours about her as well

Cruisebabe1 · 08/09/2022 22:59

dottiedodah · 08/09/2022 19:18

Sorry when the king died I mean

King died????🧐🧐