Yesterday our son fractured his knee and is having emergency surgery on Monday. DH was on the way to the airport when I found out surgery was happening. I called him to get our health insurance info and briefly explain the surgery. A hurried call as we were at the doctors office and they were waiting for the insurance policy info. DS ( 12) had a massive panic attack at the mention of surgery and it was a hugely stressful morning. The next comms I get from DH is a what’s app phots of a plate of nice food and a large glass of wine with the simple message ‘ ahh business class lounge is nice’. AIBU to feel utterly fucked off…. No enquiry after our son, so seeing if I was ok ( tearful mess), no offer to not go away and come home and be around for the surgery. He was flying off not on work but to see friends……
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
1212 votes. Final results.
POLLchilliesandspices · 03/09/2022 21:24
I'm going to be honest... I wouldn't see knee surgery as a big deal. Certainly not something to cancel a prior commitment for if there's another adult taking care of it.
DrawingdowntheMoon · 03/09/2022 17:04
OP,
I'm a bit puzzled by your post.
Was your DH going away on a business trip or was it a holiday?
I am also wondering why you had to ring him for the insurance details? Surely they should have been accessible in the house in case of emergency?
chilliesandspices · 03/09/2022 21:24
I'm going to be honest... I wouldn't see knee surgery as a big deal. Certainly not something to cancel a prior commitment for if there's another adult taking care of it.
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SleeplessInEngland · 05/09/2022 11:49
What was the food he had?
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