Women blocked on DH What's App

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Feel sick to my stomach writing this. Currently on holiday with DH and 3DC. DH went to the shop and left his phone on the table. I never go near his phone but I checked it.

No messages on what's app or text messages that were suspicious. Nothing on his email in the inbox sent or archived.

On his Whats App contacts there were three female contacts I don't know. One was a picture of a girl and her name the other two were saved under initials and they were in lingerie but couldn't see their faces with suggestive emoji after their name. He had them all blocked and no conversations.

I don't know what to do. I've never ever doubted him. He works really hard for our family. He's loving affectionate and attentive towards me.

Scams not smas

Sorry

if not one ounce of doubt.

A. Why are you checking his phone? I’ve never once checked my husbands phone and I don’t even know how to unlock it!

B. Why does you’re mind go straight to affair?!? Or escort?!?

My Instagram account is private but with a male profile photo (character from a film) and generic surname. I’m blocking scantily clad spam bots all day.

OP, gently, you've massively overreacted.

It'll just be spambots.

A person deleting conversations means nothing lol.
And I'm NOT saying he's cheating, I'm saying nobody really knows.

OP this is nothing and you should not be checking your DH’s phone and email: this is a massive violation of privacy and trust.

I get dozens of spam messages like this.....I block all of them. It sounds like this could be something similar.

The utter fucking hysteria on this thread, honestly. Why are so many of you desperate to prey on OP's insecurities?

There is very clearly nothing going on here, please stop gaslighting her. This website is meant to be about women supporting other women, not women being absolute fucking lunatics and trying to shred other marriages apart.

What the fuck is wrong with you all?

Get the numbers and message them a friend gave you their number

het number and so a Google reverse number search

Um if it was a spam/bot account why would they be saved under initials/names? Even on whatsapp it just comes up with a mobile number. You don't save bot accounts to your phone under names. Wtf.

Another idiot

You can set your WhatsApp to public and your picture and name are visible to unknown people you try to message

I've had two or three weird WhatsApp or text messages from strangers wanting to be friends. I think it's common, Husband had a spate of 'beautiful Russian ladies' contact him. We laughed it off.

I had one of these ( with half naked Asian lady photo) offering to cure my ‘sexual impotence and erectile difficulty!’

She’d have her work cut out curing an almost 60 year old lady!😆

I would say this is def. a scam OP!!

I blocked a number the other day which was a spam account with a picture of a scantily clad lady. So I’d give him the benefit of the doubt at least initially.

That’s how I caught my boyfriend cheating on me. He was meeting men for casual sex hook ups. I had a bad feeling hence the reason I went through his phone. I dumped him in the spot. Snooping through his phone saved me. I’m glad I did it.

I've never had a scam text on WhatsApp

I'd call his bluff and ring the number

They will be scams, I have some like this on my whatsapp.

I got this one…

I'm female and I have several women in lingerie blocked on WhatsApp who have contacted me out of the blue.

what you found sounds most likely to be totally fine OP

only thing that is raising more of a red flag for me is wondering why you felt the need to check - is your subconscious telling you something?

How is calling the number going to help exactly? There are plenty of scams like this, OP has already been told by multiple pp that it is very likely to be a scam, her DH has also told her its a scam. So she calls them anyway. Scammers now have confirmation of a number, and her DH knows she doesn't trust him. Does that leave her in a better position?

Unfortunately agree.
Watch and wait.
Once you raise your suspicions if anything is going on he'll never leave his phone around again and delete any evidence.

Well said.

Oh my god yes, it's the most insane untrustworthy thing anyone could ever do! You're so spot on!

If you felt the need to check his phone... it's time to talk.