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Boyfriend won’t let me meet his friends…

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beccberry24 · 17/08/2022 14:57

So I’ve been with my boyfriend coming up a year now, he’s at my house every single day after work & we spend weekends together. He’s met my children, my family & my friends, overall things are good BUT he for some reason won’t let me meet his friends. I’ve taken him out with me when I’ve been out with my friends a few times now but I’m still get to meet his. I’ve mentioned it quite a few times now & he just says it’s ‘lads night’ & no girlfriends are going. I’ve met his family & daughter (we have her at the weekend) & it’s public knowledge we’re together even on social media but his friends it’s like they’ve got the plague & I’ve gotta stay away (that’s how I feel lol) … we’ve recently had an argument where he’s said he’s going out with his mates on Friday & I jokingly said ‘oh thanks for the invite’ he’s then took that as me saying he’s not going out & im being controlling like his ex?!!! Wtfff lol I just dont know why it’s such an issue for me to meet them, I wanna know more about him & what kinda people he surrounds himself with. I know I can trust him a million zillion percent that’s not an issue but the not meeting them is for me. I just find it so weird, am I being unreasonable?? Help lol

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Herejustforthisone · 17/08/2022 23:45

He sounds like an average juvenile 24 year old, albeit one with a two year old daughter. I don’t know what other posters think but a 24-year-old man and a 30-year-old woman would be world’s apart in maturity. Yikes.

No wonder he likes to go play houses (and PlayStation) at his older girlfriend’s at the weekend, she feeds him and irons his going out clothes...

PicketRingFenced · 18/08/2022 00:49

He's playing happy families with you then getting shitfaced at the weekends no doubt with his friends and living the single life meaning anything goes probably.

PicketRingFenced · 18/08/2022 00:50

It's really weird at both your ages not to being hanging out properly with mutual friends as a couple

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