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To wonder why men hate women so much?

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YouAreNotBatman · 07/08/2022 11:09

Violence againt women, sexual harrasment.

Controlling women bodies.

Women’s sexuality: frigid prude if you don’t want sex, slut if you.

Porn, sex ”work”.

All the MRA’s, mgtow, incels etc.

Even historically speaking they have no reason to be angry at women, women never had any power, mostly tried to accommodate to men’s demand/ wants, I think it still goes on.

Many women still tip toe the line to placate men.

What reason do they have to be so angry at women?

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brookstar · 10/08/2022 15:58

I’m sorry but I’ve proven my point and said all I have to say.

You've not proved anything. You've made things up and now you're flouncing because you've been called out on your lies.

Of course people with a vested interest in seeing men provide for them or other women in the working world aren’t inclined to take what I’ve said on board, I expect that.

This doesn't make sense.
It's a very warped way of seeing the world and it's completely incorrect

History and nature agrees with me and you all shouldn’t be so ashamed of what someone sneeringly called “womens work”. That’s just spitting on every other woman throughout history to big yourselves up (including me).

I'm not ashamed and I haven't sneered at what you refer to as women's work. Again, that's something you've made .

I’ll leave this here and not comment again as people are too emotionally invested in this subject to see what they’re doing for what it is and I can see I’ve upset some people and I don’t know how vulnerable people are to what I see as a disagreement and discussion so I’ll stop.

Probably for the best. You don't seem well, I hope you are getting some support in real life .

ldontWanna · 10/08/2022 17:07

Once again the language is very interesting. Several posts all mentioning women attaching themselves to men in one form or another,more than once.

Like leeches,or parasites. Not even an aggressive form like take over ,invade etc. ,just a passive attach because they can't do anything else.

For this posters men are aggressive,exploding volcanoes, doers and makers . Women are passive ,gold diggers ,that just attach themselves in one way or another. The irony that SAHM are doing the "attaching" too seems to be lost on her. Or maybe that one is worth putting up with and not erupting over,because the man gets childcare,cleaning,cooking etc on tap.

I can only hope that ALL of her children see through the bullshit and it can stop with her and her husband.

brookstar · 10/08/2022 17:13

ldontWanna · 10/08/2022 17:07

Once again the language is very interesting. Several posts all mentioning women attaching themselves to men in one form or another,more than once.

Like leeches,or parasites. Not even an aggressive form like take over ,invade etc. ,just a passive attach because they can't do anything else.

For this posters men are aggressive,exploding volcanoes, doers and makers . Women are passive ,gold diggers ,that just attach themselves in one way or another. The irony that SAHM are doing the "attaching" too seems to be lost on her. Or maybe that one is worth putting up with and not erupting over,because the man gets childcare,cleaning,cooking etc on tap.

I can only hope that ALL of her children see through the bullshit and it can stop with her and her husband.

It is odd language coming from a women to describe other women.

Beowulfa · 10/08/2022 17:30

I have a friend on Facebook who reposts shit like "the police came to this pub and ordered the landlord to remove Union Jacks as there racist!11!"

Sue's posts are in a similar vein; repeated claims that companies are "forced" to hire females with not a single named example (because it's never happened).

KettrickenSmiled · 10/08/2022 17:30

I’m sorry but I’ve proven my point
😂😂😂Only in your own odd universe. I haven't seen a single PP agree with you.

and said all I have to say.
Small mercies, hurrah.

Of course people with a vested interest in seeing men provide for them or other women in the working world aren’t inclined to take what I’ve said on board, I expect that.
Says the woman with no job whose husband ... provides for her. 👏

History and nature agrees with me
Eh?
History is happening now. Women go to work, nature doesn't give a toss. Get over it.

and you all shouldn’t be so ashamed of what someone sneeringly called “womens work”
Who is ashamed of having children & raising kids? Some of us simply want to also work outside of the home while we're doing it.

That’s just spitting on every other woman throughout history to big yourselves up
Codswallop. How is living a different life from historic women who could not work (spoiler - this is over-egged: most women have always worked in some capacity alongside childrearing, those who did not were generally of wealthy families), or from present-day women who choose not to, "spitting on"?

(including me).
Again - this is all in your head. Nobody has questioned your choice & freedom to to SAHM - just your batshit opinions about men apparently owning the concept of work.

people are too emotionally invested in this subject
Says one of the most prolific & invested PP on the entire thread ...

Sheepreallylikerichteabiscuits · 10/08/2022 18:44

It's like watching a daily mail reader in action. We can't blame the immigrants and the refugees for taking all our jobs any more, because brexit and the government stopped/got rid of most of them (except for Ukrainians but they are white so that's allowed)

So now we have to blame the women for taking the men's jobs.

Ignoring of course the fact that we are in an employee shortage at the moment. Not even just in hospitability and in care, but in tech and IT jobs (gasp men's work!)

Can you imagine if we took 50% of the workforce out at the moment and shoved them back in the kitchen. It would be utter chaos.

Sheepreallylikerichteabiscuits · 10/08/2022 18:45

I’m sorry but I’ve proven my point

Which point? You have made so many and the only 'facts' you have backed them up with is 'my husband'

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