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To wonder why men hate women so much?

782 replies

YouAreNotBatman · 07/08/2022 11:09

Violence againt women, sexual harrasment.

Controlling women bodies.

Women’s sexuality: frigid prude if you don’t want sex, slut if you.

Porn, sex ”work”.

All the MRA’s, mgtow, incels etc.

Even historically speaking they have no reason to be angry at women, women never had any power, mostly tried to accommodate to men’s demand/ wants, I think it still goes on.

Many women still tip toe the line to placate men.

What reason do they have to be so angry at women?

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Mississipi71 · 08/08/2022 17:29

I wonder where the poster, who stalked me on the Gary Lineker apology thread is. If ever there was an example of her internalised misogyny, it is right now. All the ignorant text book anti feminist stuff is coming from @Suetodo2.

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:33

@Mississipi71

If your trying to imply I stalked you I haven’t a clue what your on about. Don’t really care enough about an individual poster to take much notice and don’t know who Gary Lineker is.

This is actually one of the bad things exemplified about all womens spaces. This kind of shit. Making weird accusations to try to get other people in trouble. Happens all the time on Mumsnet. “Your someone else I fought with” (even though you aren’t and barely notice the posters usernames). It’s the petty way disagreements about things turn personal and the bizzare sniping starts. Real girls school bullshit.

brookstar · 08/08/2022 17:36

Suetodo2
Are you ever going to answer the questions people have asked about the things you've written in your posts?

Topgub · 08/08/2022 17:37

@Suetodo2

Do you have any female friends?

Topgub · 08/08/2022 17:37

@brookstar

I'm not sure they can without asking their oh first

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:38

@brookstar

I already have. My answers didn’t satisfy you but if you scroll back through the posts you will find that I directly answered your questions.

We disagree. No biggie. I’m not all mad about it or taking it personally.

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:39

Unlike some 🙄

Topgub · 08/08/2022 17:40

@Suetodo2

You haven't answered mine

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:42

@Topgub

Your sniping at my family and relationship with my husband because I didn’t agree with you online. Why the hell would I bother?

ldontWanna · 08/08/2022 17:42

@Suetodo2 what are these changes(that are so very upsetting for men we risk a volcanic eruption) to workplaces just because they're hiring women?

brookstar · 08/08/2022 17:42

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:38

@brookstar

I already have. My answers didn’t satisfy you but if you scroll back through the posts you will find that I directly answered your questions.

We disagree. No biggie. I’m not all mad about it or taking it personally.

You haven't answered my questions

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:50

@brookstar

Did too. Scroll back and find it. I’m not typing it out again. Wish you well hun. You just have to realise men and women are different and have a little more respect for Mothers.

Topgub · 08/08/2022 17:52

@Suetodo2

I wouldnt call it sniping.

Its the logic conclusion of your posts.

You see women as inferior to men who should do only as men tell them or allow them to do

You posted earlier your beliefs were based on what your oh studied

Every comment has been derogatory about women and their abilities in some way even though you have no way to back up what you're saying

Topgub · 08/08/2022 17:53

@Suetodo2

Respecting mothers has nothing to do with working

KettrickenSmiled · 08/08/2022 17:55

Wish you well hun. You just have to realise men and women are different and have a little more respect for Mothers.

No. You need to have more respect for women.
Or can you only find it within yourself to validate women who have achieved parturition?

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:56

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brookstar · 08/08/2022 17:59

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:50

@brookstar

Did too. Scroll back and find it. I’m not typing it out again. Wish you well hun. You just have to realise men and women are different and have a little more respect for Mothers.

What make you think I don't have respect for mothers.
I am a mother. My own mother was killed as a result of domestic violence.... this topic is important to me.

And you didn't answer my questions....

You've not responded to me asking you to give specific examples of organisations being forced to hire women or of organisations been forced to hand over control to women.

You've also not responded to my questions about women wanting to work in existing organisations or sectors- are you really expecting women to set up their own hospitals and universities for example?

So, over to you hun......

Topgub · 08/08/2022 18:00

@Suetodo2

I havent treated anyone like trash, dont be ridiculous.

Although, of course its easier to tone police than it is to back up your nonsensical mysoginy

SweetSenorita · 08/08/2022 18:00

entropynow · 07/08/2022 13:01

Also to all the people attacking transwomen on this thread, bog off. Transwomen are at least as much in danger from cis men as we are.
They are not the problem.

I can't see anyone attacking transwomen on here.

However I disagree that they are in 'as least as much danger from cis (please .... DON'T) men as we are'. Transwomen are male; they do NOT face the same danger as women do.

brookstar · 08/08/2022 18:01

Oh and on the topic of sniping ..... you weren't too bothered about that when you were telling me my academic subject wasn't a real subject.

That was a pretty low blow tbh.

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 18:04

@Topgub

And yet Ive managed to disagree with you without making little personal remarks about your family. You were unable to contain yourself from doing that when you got angry about something I wrote. That’s the reality and you did it with another poster too.

But perhaps your one of those people who really can’t see it about yourself. Your rude and even others who disagree with me haven’t made personal remarks and hoped to get others joining in in the way you have.

Topgub · 08/08/2022 18:09

@Suetodo2

Ummm you just made personal remarks about me?

Any way, I'm not getting into a back and forth with you about who is most rude.

Youve consistently failed to back up your horrible views or answer any question reasonably.

Women deserve equality with men.

KettrickenSmiled · 08/08/2022 18:09

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 18:04

@Topgub

And yet Ive managed to disagree with you without making little personal remarks about your family. You were unable to contain yourself from doing that when you got angry about something I wrote. That’s the reality and you did it with another poster too.

But perhaps your one of those people who really can’t see it about yourself. Your rude and even others who disagree with me haven’t made personal remarks and hoped to get others joining in in the way you have.

That's right @topgub.

You made a personal observation, & that's unladylike.
It's far, far, worse than writing off 51% of the population as subhuman.
Settle down now, & go & dust some skirting boards or something. And make sure you put on some nice lipstick for when your Man Of The House comes home.

If you don't have a MOTH, I'm not sure where you are getting all your vociferous opinions from. Have you ... fallen in with some sort of fast set?

Mississipi71 · 08/08/2022 18:10

Suetodo2 · 08/08/2022 17:33

@Mississipi71

If your trying to imply I stalked you I haven’t a clue what your on about. Don’t really care enough about an individual poster to take much notice and don’t know who Gary Lineker is.

This is actually one of the bad things exemplified about all womens spaces. This kind of shit. Making weird accusations to try to get other people in trouble. Happens all the time on Mumsnet. “Your someone else I fought with” (even though you aren’t and barely notice the posters usernames). It’s the petty way disagreements about things turn personal and the bizzare sniping starts. Real girls school bullshit.

I didn't say it was you who stalked me.

Topgub · 08/08/2022 18:11

@KettrickenSmiled

🤣

I'll be expecting dh to look after his own kids next

The horror of it all

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