DS 27 and his gf recently had a baby. As you’d expect they are being woken up during the night. DS has asked if he can move back in mon - fri so he can get a proper night’s sleep so he can concentrate on going to work and do his job effectively.
DH thinks the idea is outrageous and he should just ‘get on with it’ , I feel a bit confused as to why he is even asking. Surely other new parents don’t do this? I get sleep deprivation is hard, but I am not overly enamoured with this idea. But I don’t want to be unsupportive either - how would you respond?
AIBU?
Adult son wants to move back mon - fri to ‘get a night’s sleep’
HippPippy · 05/08/2022 13:58
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLcarefullycourageous · 05/08/2022 14:42
I think the job is very important here.
toomuchlaundry · 05/08/2022 15:02
If he says he does more than his fair share when he gets home from work, I'm not sure how his GF will be happy for him to not be there during the week. That doesn't seem to add up
HippPippy · 05/08/2022 14:04
Yeah I agree - he should be sharing the work load, but his argument is when he gets back from work he does ‘everything’ for the baby- feeding, bathing, cleaning all the bottles, laundry, cooking etc. it’s difficult because he’s really struggling and does seem to be doing more than his fair share when he can
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HippPippy · 05/08/2022 14:04
Yeah I agree - he should be sharing the work load, but his argument is when he gets back from work he does ‘everything’ for the baby- feeding, bathing, cleaning all the bottles, laundry, cooking etc. it’s difficult because he’s really struggling and does seem to be doing more than his fair share when he can
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