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Does anyone else think dragonflies are absolutely disgusting ?

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dragonflyhater · 26/07/2022 20:34

They're like bird sized insects to me that make me want to gag. Is that just me or does anyone else hate them and see them this way ?

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FarFarFarAndAway · 26/07/2022 20:43

I don't find them disgusting but I don't like them flying near me. Ok at a distance, lovely to look at. I see why they frighten you though.

dragonflyhater · 26/07/2022 20:44

HippeePrincess · 26/07/2022 20:41

I think they look magical, like fairies should ride on them!

I do understand that. I don't mind looking at them from a distance... I just don't like it when they fly at me like today.

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FabFitFifties · 26/07/2022 20:45

Are you talking about the awful daddy long legs (crane fly) variety, rather than the colourful ones you see at lakes? I hate daddy long legs but love the blue ones. In the days when children sat on parents knees in cars, without a belt, my mother travelled 12 miles with one sitting tickling her ear, because she knew I'd go berserk in the car if it started flying around 🤣

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 26/07/2022 20:46

They're wonderful and not harmful to humans in any way. How odd to have a loathing of these of all insects.

takeitandleaveit · 26/07/2022 20:47

Dragonflies are awesome.

Can't stand daddy-long-legs though. Ugh.

FictionalCharacter · 26/07/2022 20:47

Sounds like a phobia. “Make me want to gag” is an extreme reaction to harmless creatures.

dragonflyhater · 26/07/2022 20:49

FictionalCharacter · 26/07/2022 20:47

Sounds like a phobia. “Make me want to gag” is an extreme reaction to harmless creatures.

Definitely a phobia. The larger the insect the worse I get !

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FictionalCharacter · 26/07/2022 20:51

FabFitFifties · 26/07/2022 20:45

Are you talking about the awful daddy long legs (crane fly) variety, rather than the colourful ones you see at lakes? I hate daddy long legs but love the blue ones. In the days when children sat on parents knees in cars, without a belt, my mother travelled 12 miles with one sitting tickling her ear, because she knew I'd go berserk in the car if it started flying around 🤣

Oh yes do you mean craneflies? My parents used to call them dragonflies but they are nothing like them. I was puzzled by you saying they fly at you. I’ve never had a dragonfly fly at me but craneflies do it because they’re crap fliers.

Blackdiame · 26/07/2022 20:51

CalistoNoSolo · 26/07/2022 20:40

You do realise that without insects life on earth would cease? How utterly bizarre to hate the things that keep everything in the biosphere functioning.

So is manure but you don't have to like everything that is good for the planet.

midairchallenger · 26/07/2022 20:52

Where do you live that the dragonflies are as large as birds? Or that the birds are as tiny as dragonflies?

Are you posting on Mumsnet from the Carboniferous period?

ThePumpkinPatch · 26/07/2022 20:52

They're beautiful creatures 😵 I love them! I genuinely didn't think anyone disliked Dragonflies, wow. I thought they were universally loved. Kinda like Butterflies & Ladybirds! 🐞

Wasps & Flies on the other hand... HmmAngry
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AllThatAndMore · 26/07/2022 20:53

No way ! I love them and I normally hate insects ! They are beautiful!

WiddlinDiddlin · 26/07/2022 20:53

Love em, do not want to be startled by them - I made a ridiculous EEEARGHHHHHHH noise the other day when I realised a LARGE false widow spider was marching determinedly up my leg towards me (sat with feet up on the footstool... she was heading RIGHT AT ME)... and sort of swiped her off onto the floor. And then felt guilty.

I love dragonflies so much though, I got OH to drive me to the other side of our nearest city to collect one a friend had rescued that had subsequently died, so that I could preserve it and mount it - and thats a lotta love because I really do not like TOUCHING insects much at all.

He sits on my shelf above my desk now still with all his colours, waiting for me to find a hook to hang it on properly, and missing his id label cos im a proper half-a-job-harry!

RedWreck · 26/07/2022 20:54

I love them too, they're amazing.
Dnephew used to call them 'insect helicopters' when he was little, I thought that was a perfect description!

KosherDill · 26/07/2022 20:54

They're beautiful!

Please don't harm them.

LightDrizzle · 26/07/2022 20:54

They join hares and kingfishers in the magical creatures category for me!

Lovemusic33 · 26/07/2022 20:55

I love them but then I love all living things even spiders 😊

Brbreeze · 26/07/2022 20:56

I used to only see them rarely and think they were beautiful. However my office moved to a unit on a farm next to a lake and we get loads flying in and getting stuck in the summer. They aren't the easiest to catch and release. They freak me out to be honest.

That said, one evening I sat outside and saw tens of them darting around overhead and catching midges - definitely a new appreciation of them since then.

ThePumpkinPatch · 26/07/2022 20:56

Evening, Ladies! Don't mind me...

Does anyone else think dragonflies are absolutely disgusting ?
JudyGemstone · 26/07/2022 20:57

ThePumpkinPatch · 26/07/2022 20:52

They're beautiful creatures 😵 I love them! I genuinely didn't think anyone disliked Dragonflies, wow. I thought they were universally loved. Kinda like Butterflies & Ladybirds! 🐞

Wasps & Flies on the other hand... HmmAngry
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I’m not a fan of ladybirds. I swear one bit me!

dragonflyhater · 26/07/2022 20:57

@ThePumpkinPatch look at his face though. Freaks me out so much !!!

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TheDuck2018 · 26/07/2022 20:57

They're absolutely stunning, I love them. Not as much as I love bees though. Now bees really are special 🐝💖

IssaBaby · 26/07/2022 20:57

They are quite scary because they are so big.

However the scariest insect of all...literally covering my ears saying this and I feel like I need to hide so they don't find me...are flying ants

Those fuckers are vile, horrid, terrible things that belong in horror movies that should be banned.
I feel sick now

APurpleSquirrel · 26/07/2022 20:57

No! They're beautiful! Had a big one get stuck in the house last year; managed to rescue it. Found a gorgeous blue damselfly on our loganberries a few weeks ago too.
Love dragonflies, butterflies, moths & especially bees 🐝

MyMonkiesHerCircus · 26/07/2022 20:57

I'm imagining fairies flying around on daddy longlegs' now. As graceful as Bernie Clifton.

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