Please help me find the cheapest Premier Inn for 3 weeks - sanity depends on this

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Hi,

I have learned something shocking about my fiancé. It has totally made me question whether we should even get married in, almost exactly, a month.

I think it would be beneficial to take some time apart to evaluate things.

I'm shaking literally from the unknown (also have a bad/weird feeling I may be pregnant).

Please advise where I should decamp for a couple/3 weeks.

Try EasyHotel (same as Easyjet)

Try OYO hotels

Could you even go on a last minute holiday somewhere for a couple of weeks with someone you trust?

How long were you together when he moved in. Twatty men are easier to dispose of if you give it a good few years before moving in.

Do you have all your important information so that you can decamp straight away?

If you are pregnant, I would terminate.

Days Inn Wyndham Durham
Any Durham other than city centre Travelodge
Random places in Newcastle

@Crumpet2 agreed

If you don’t want to give it the benefit of the doubt, then report it, don’t troll hunt all over the thread.

This! With knobs on.

OP you need to contact the police or a domestic abuse charity and ask them to help you apply for a “Claire’s Law” disclosure. This will be his criminal record relating to offences against women. You have a legal right to know.

www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/daa/domestic-abuse/alpha2/request-information-under-clares-law/

OP you need to take some sensible steps here but on the information you've given its hard to say what they should be.

Do you share a home? Are there things you should get out of that home, paperwork, passport etc. If you do and you're worried for your safety can you be accompanied to get them by someone, police if you feel its necessary.

Have you looked into verifying what he's been accused of? I'm assuming giving it was only mo t

Do a Preg test.
Does he own the house you live in?
What is your budget per night?
Can you talk to friends or family about this?
If it’s something really bad, don’t get married - cancel everything.

This place is insane. I reported poster who has been repeatedly vile to OP (who as per guidelines I am assuming is genuine and if not I will report). My post has been deleted and the other posts have stayed. Insanity.

Sorry hit post in error.

Months after you met him he wasn't charged or it was a minor charge/couldn't be proved. Is there anyone you can ask who was in his life then.

Why has nobody mentioned this before? Does nobody know and if not why not? If I was incorrectly accused of something I wouldn't be hiding it from the person I'm about to marry.

You have alot to consider but don't run before thinking things through logically and making sure you have what you need.

Hi try housesittersuk.co.Uk

If you need somewhere for a few weeks, I'd look for somewhere with a kitchenette, e.g. an Airbnb or maybe a youth hostel (many have private rooms). Otherwise you'll end up spending a lot on ready-to-eat food.

Absolutely.

OP, if someone hasn't mentioned it already (haven't rtwt just your posts) then its worth checking with the police under Clara's Law if he has any convictions that are violent etc. Hope you're OK.

You say he was arrested, was he charged? Mistakes have been made, might this be an error?

However, your reaction seems to suggest you know something might be wrong.

I wish you well and hope you find a safe place to think. Try some small independent B&Bs

Don't know why posts are being taken down that just state the obvious? Op has not updated in a while now

Troll hunting is not allowed. It’s really logical - if genuine people are here asking for help and others accuse them of being trolls they may be put off asking for help in the future. If you suspect a troll, report it to MNHQ; don’t put it on the thread.

Friend stayed in a Travelodge during the heatwave - no air con, was awful. I'd definitely choose Premier Inn.