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Husband getting haircut from another woman

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Purplehair22 · 24/07/2022 16:02

Am I losing my mind over nothing or did he cross a line?
My husband spent the night at his brothers house and the next day came home with a new haircut (terrible buzz cut, one length all the way round, looks like a kiwi fruit).
I asked him who did it and he said it was his brothers girlfriend. She’s no hairdresser. The haircuts I’ve given him in the past were just as bad but at least I did them. I’ve always said she’s a little too friendly with my husband. A bit of a pick me girl. He’s never seen it and never shown any interest during family gatherings.
I feel betrayed. I feel embarrassed. Surely she thought that she’s better than me and that I’m a useless wife that can’t even cut my husbands hair?! She’s a nice girl and we get on but I feel like that kind of stuff should be done by me or the hairdresser. No one else. Maybe his mum if push comes to shove. Why not go to the barber or ask me? Why ask her? I’m so upset and he’s saying I’m overreacting.

OP posts:
wibblywobblybits · 24/07/2022 21:10

This cannot be for real

Belephant · 24/07/2022 21:17

LoveLimesoda · 24/07/2022 16:06

This wouldn't bother me, and I'm not being all 'cool wife'!

My husband would just think 'free haircut'. I'd think 'great, one less thing for me to do'.

Yep, same here. I'm the furthest thing from a cool wife, trust me, but this wouldn't even register with me.

acuteanxiety · 24/07/2022 21:18

Oh god

You are over reacting sorry to say

I think you are annoyed he went off without you but don't realise

IncompleteSenten · 26/07/2022 08:11

4 pages from a single post. Good result, eh OP? 👍

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