Husband getting haircut from another woman

[Purplehair22]

Am I losing my mind over nothing or did he cross a line?
My husband spent the night at his brothers house and the next day came home with a new haircut (terrible buzz cut, one length all the way round, looks like a kiwi fruit).
I asked him who did it and he said it was his brothers girlfriend. She’s no hairdresser. The haircuts I’ve given him in the past were just as bad but at least I did them. I’ve always said she’s a little too friendly with my husband. A bit of a pick me girl. He’s never seen it and never shown any interest during family gatherings.
I feel betrayed. I feel embarrassed. Surely she thought that she’s better than me and that I’m a useless wife that can’t even cut my husbands hair?! She’s a nice girl and we get on but I feel like that kind of stuff should be done by me or the hairdresser. No one else. Maybe his mum if push comes to shove. Why not go to the barber or ask me? Why ask her? I’m so upset and he’s saying I’m overreacting.

A Kiwi 😂

🤣

It's the cool wife before she gets married

I think you're nuts OP, it's a haircut not a hand job.

🤣🤣🤣 Bloody hell, that's dramatic!
Massive over reaction OP, you sound like a teenager.

I don't really see a hair cut as an intimate act.

Do you have reason to not trust him in the company of women? Has he behaved inappropriately in the past?

Where's the threads that ask what your funniest MN quotes are? This needs to be added

A fucking kiwi fruit

Does sounds like a bit of an overreaction OP, to feel betrayed about this.

Unless she gave him a blow job as well as a buzz cut you're really overreacting.

Totally overreacting.

Why would it be if push comes to shove with his Mum as well? It's his Mum!

If it was his pubes maybe you'd have a point.

Wait, does not being able to cut your husbands hair make you a useless wife?

You are being a big dramatic but how did it come about and why did he think it was a good idea?

If you're not comfortable with their boundaries though that's something to resolve with him, not her.

You’re ‘so embarrassed’. He had a haircut. It’s not like he had an emergency shit round the back of Argos.

Kiwi fruit...pubes...Mumsnet gold. Needed this today thanks!

you sound crazy...

You’re being ridiculous

I feel betrayed. I feel embarrassed

Was it his pubic hair she cut?

Ha, oh dear.

Getting a haircut is intimate now ? Did she use her vulva to cut it ?

Jesus christ OP. Come on. You know you're being daft here.

She shaved his head. She never gave him head ffs.

I wouldn’t like my husband getting a haircut from a pick me girl that I’d already expressed concern about
so I do think he should’ve been more sensitive to that

but it’s his brothers gf? Surely that rules her out in all but the most dysfunctional families

I feel like your issues are with all the wrong things here. Somehow you’ve made it about your skill level as a hairdresser which makes this a really odd post

The only thing you should feel embarrassed about is your own reaction btw, his hair isn't your property, it isn't sacred to your marriage, it isn't the source of his strength, it's fucking hair.

Definitely over reacting

Kiwi fruit is brilliant. I know exactly what he looks like.

PMSL at kiwi fruit.

otherwise yep, over reaction