Husband getting haircut from another woman

[Purplehair22]

Am I losing my mind over nothing or did he cross a line?
My husband spent the night at his brothers house and the next day came home with a new haircut (terrible buzz cut, one length all the way round, looks like a kiwi fruit).
I asked him who did it and he said it was his brothers girlfriend. She’s no hairdresser. The haircuts I’ve given him in the past were just as bad but at least I did them. I’ve always said she’s a little too friendly with my husband. A bit of a pick me girl. He’s never seen it and never shown any interest during family gatherings.
I feel betrayed. I feel embarrassed. Surely she thought that she’s better than me and that I’m a useless wife that can’t even cut my husbands hair?! She’s a nice girl and we get on but I feel like that kind of stuff should be done by me or the hairdresser. No one else. Maybe his mum if push comes to shove. Why not go to the barber or ask me? Why ask her? I’m so upset and he’s saying I’m overreacting.

It all seems rather silly.

Yes. You failed op. You are wifeing it up so wrong it's embarrassing.

Pick me girl spotted a vulnerable male whose wife had let him out for the day and cut his hair like a kiwi because she fruit is a turn on for her.

You dropped the kiwi ball op.

But this is MN, he's not allowed to choose his haircut, or anything else.

He forgot to take his note with him. 😂

Other woman? Turns out to be his brothers gf, OP in the kindest way possible you need to rein in the jealousy.

This has to be a troll

Sorry, another one that is firmly on the side of your husband. You are being utterly a bit ridiculous and this is a massive overreaction. It's his hair, he gets to choose who cuts it and there is absolutely no reason that should restricted to a hairdresser, you or his mum (??)

If you feel betrayed and embarrassed because some other woman held some clippers that touched his head, you probably need to take a look at your unhealthy expectations of a relationship

Only the first week aswell!

What on earth? If this is real you're being ridiculous. It's a hair cut.

Hahaha, this is bonkers!

well if it looks like a kiwi fruit, probably a good thing he didn't pay for the haircut.

Was Kiwi Fruit the look he was going for?

Omg, LTB

Overreacting it is his brother's girlfriend and not as if she shaved his balls.

Yup, this. Maybe ask yourself why you are so insecure?

Did he cook her an expensive steak and watch her eat it in silence? If not, all normal.

You are massively over reacting. My friends and I cut each others hair often, it would never occur to me I couldn't cut one of their boyfriends hair if they were there at the time.

Jesus Christ this cannot be real 😂😂😂😂😂

You sound more of a 'pick me' girl if your husband has to pick YOU to cut his hair wipe his arse pair his socks or whatever other bizarre things you think you must control.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Unless 'hair cut' is a new euphemism for blow job, I don't see a problem.

In the kindest way, you are overreacting . ☺️

it’s a buzz cut, it’s not a very sensual act, it’s a bit weird if she just randomly offered, but I wouldn’t think much of it. was she doing his brothers hair as well?

No he didn't. It wasn't a problem (I know, I'd been dealing with it for years) and it had nothing to do with the reason he was there. He actually told her that I dealt with it.

But, once she clapped eyes on that beauty, Little Nursey Sporny Mitts had to have it. And he let her.😡

Just wow

You're over reacting. If you think she thinks you're a bad wife because she cut his hair and you didn't then I must be terrible. DP goes to the barbers. I couldn't care less if it was a man or woman 🤣

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She cut his hair, not trimmed his pubes. Good grief, get a grip woman.

Why don’t you draw up an approved list of people from whom your DH can accept a hair cut? You, obviously. Trained barbers and hairdressers. Nuns.