Husband getting haircut from another woman

[Purplehair22]

Am I losing my mind over nothing or did he cross a line?
My husband spent the night at his brothers house and the next day came home with a new haircut (terrible buzz cut, one length all the way round, looks like a kiwi fruit).
I asked him who did it and he said it was his brothers girlfriend. She’s no hairdresser. The haircuts I’ve given him in the past were just as bad but at least I did them. I’ve always said she’s a little too friendly with my husband. A bit of a pick me girl. He’s never seen it and never shown any interest during family gatherings.
I feel betrayed. I feel embarrassed. Surely she thought that she’s better than me and that I’m a useless wife that can’t even cut my husbands hair?! She’s a nice girl and we get on but I feel like that kind of stuff should be done by me or the hairdresser. No one else. Maybe his mum if push comes to shove. Why not go to the barber or ask me? Why ask her? I’m so upset and he’s saying I’m overreacting.

Woman who panders to men.
You know, yeah I drink beer with da boyz, ha hah ha porn is the best, touchy-feely, laughs at sexust jokes etc.

Yes that would be me as well.

Men get their hair cut by women all the time without having sex with them 😉. Sometimes I have a male cut my hair, I don’t have a orgasm when he touches my head.

Betrayed? Oh please. 😂

If it helps…he was probably thinking of you the whole time when she was doing it to him.

👀

What a weird thing to be upset about?!

I am a wife who can't 'even' cut my husband's hair. I did a shit job over lockdown. I don't see this as some sort of failure on my part. It wasn't in the wife handbook after all.

Same here.

is there something else going on op? Is there something really bothering/worrying you rather than your dh getting a haircut?

I'd be embarrassed by your reaction to the situation.

Are you a little bit jealous of your bil’s gf? When you say she’s a ‘pick me’ girl do you mean she’s confident and vivacious?
Seems a silly thing to be territorial over otherwise.

I refuse to believe anyone can be this ridiculous.

Totally over the top reaction

Wow. Ridiculous

Christ alive - I must be a right whore then cause I've cut loads of mens hair and I'm no hairdresser, I just happen to be ok with hair trimmers and scissors. Next time I cut hair - I must remember to get DWs written approval beforehand.

Complete over reaction on your behalf. You must know this.

As long as she didn't shave his pubes as the same time, this wouldn't worry me, but I would let him know that he looks like. Kiwi fruit 😀

Get your ducks in a row.
Photocopy the kids passport and birth certificates.
Book a free consultation with a solicitor
Hes definitely shagging her, starts with hair next it’ll be arse action

He asked a HCP to relieve him of a, presumably annoying/painful spot, whilst he was at an appointment and you think it was a huge issue?

I don't even know what to say to this because it's so batshit 😬 Well actually, my main thought is my DH shaves his own head. Guess I'm a bad wife for never having to help? 🤷😂

Just another term used by women to shit on other women. 🙄 Because its not possible for women to like masculine things. Therefore they must be doing it to steal all the men. It's mostly insecure women who use it.

Did she cut it with her fanjo?

I bet she did. Hussy

She gave him a haircut ffs not a blow-job.

Are you always so jealous?

If this is your reaction to a haircut I'm kinda curious to know how you'd react to something that's actually bad. God forbid she gives him a hug. You'll burst into flames!

You are overreacting massively.

Do you really think that she decided to style him like a kiwi fruit to make him unattractive to all other women, including his wife?

You really need to get your jealousy under control as if you are reacting like this to something so minor, it's going to cause massive issues in your marraige.

Is your self esteem that low? Why? How can you rebuild it? Focus on that rather than anything else.

Betrayed and embarrassed because someone else cut his hair, does he have to have permission from you for that, it’s not your hair, you don’t own it, I’ve heard some things but that takes the biscuit, do you wipe his bum as well?

If my partner was aware that I thought a woman was was a bit too friendly with him, he wouldn’t get a haircut from them out of respect for me and for him. He wouldn’t want to look shit either so won’t even let me cut his hair. 😂