Just picked up my 8 year old DD from a sleepover at her friend from schools house and it turns out she and her friend were up until 4.30 am. The mum came into the room and said it was time to calm down and go to sleep...at 4.30 am!!
I'm really unhappy, in what world is letting 8 year old girls stay awake till that time unaccompanied may I add as the mum was in her bed, okay? 12 am - fair enough, maybe 1 am at a push if excited but 4.30 am is ridiculous and my DD is knackered.
I don't know whether to text the mum. She certainly won't be back there for a sleepover. AIBU?
AIBU?
8 year old up till 4.30 am is unreasonable?
keepsane · 26/06/2022 12:07
bendmeoverbackwards · 26/06/2022 17:02
And no, it’s not ‘normal’. It almost seems like the adults are accepting or even encouraging them to stay up all night. Lots of kids hate it being up that late, they might well WANT an adult to step in.
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ThinkAboutItTomorrow · 26/06/2022 18:15
I agree with you OP. It's out of order. I can't believe the responses that it's the kids fault & the mum could do nothing. There was one adult in the house and they should have laid down the law.
4.30 is way too late for 8 year olds.
I had a similar situation except my DD & friend stayed up all night. I couldn't believe the parents had gone to sleep with the girls still awake.
DD (she was 8 too) was beside herself the next day, kept bursting into tears and was so drowsy I was scared she'd fall asleep in the bath. It was horrible.
We didn't say anything to the other parents but did say no to the next few requests for sleepovers at theirs.
At ours we make sure they are asleep after midnight.
Still wake up at 5am but hey ho.
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