Trans women aren't women.
Women are adult human females, not femininity or womanly "feelings", not "anyone who identifies as a woman".
Trans women are adult human males, aka men, with gender dysphoria. They want to be women, but they are not, that is actually what makes them trans.
How can you identify as something you cannot even define? Interestingly, some people say "I am not a woman, therefore I cannot define one". However, how do you know you aren't a woman if you don't know what one is?
If someone asked me if I am a "bobkin" and I don't know what that word even means, how can I conclude the word doesn't apply to me? If you define it for me, I can tell you. "A bobkin is anyone who says they are a bobkin" is clearly nonsense. Now, you might say "bobkin" means nothing, but "woman" does, so you cannot compare them. So, what is a woman? What does it mean?
Woman is a biological category defining species, maturity, and sex. That's it.
It makes zero sense. If they are dysphoric with their body, that is gender dysphoria, a mental disorder. If they are dysphoric about their assigned gender role (expectations of masculinity) then that is an issue with enforced stereotypes, it doesn't make them women, it makes them feminine men.