Special Father's Day sex

[curlymam]

I think I've just offended DH. He asked if he was going to be getting "Father's Day sex" after DS has gone to bed. I thought he was joking, when I realised he wasn't I must have pulled a face.

I understand people talk about birthday sex, valentine's day sex etc but father's day is a day for children to celebrate and appreciate their dads. It's given me the ick but he has no idea what I'm talking about, so I was just interested to see what others think?

To be clear, I'm not adverse to having sex on father's day, just the thought of doing it specially to celebrate it!

So sex to celebrate your parents having sex is fine?

Jesus wept all the moaning minnies.

It's is something my hubby would joke about, in fact a lot of men I know would. Any chance to try their luck hahahah

I feel sick reading your post OP. Hope you didn’t.

Oh fuck that shit. Your body is not a reward for him being a (hopefully) decent parent. Sex isn’t a payment. And so many men wonder why they don’t get much sex, then they pull this kind of bullshit.

Sounds perfect xx

My DH wasn’t joking!
He thinks he should get a bj/sex and should be able to have a peaceful day and do whatever he wants to do.
I told him it doesn’t work like that, at least it doesn’t on Mothers Day so he best get used to it lol

Err, it's a joke, innit? Like when your OH asks for a 'birthday BJ'. Surely if you were seriously asking for sex because you could only get it on your 'special day', there would be something very wrong with intimacy in your relationship.

What's really gross is those of you who are associating this with children. That's sick. Father's Day is about celebrating the man and all he does for your family. Celebrate him the way he wants to be celebrated, and leave the kids out of it.

I can't tell if this is a joke.

Ha ha some really good answers and from the poster 😂 priceless.sorry. it's a serious post.

@Jott 🤣🤣well said.

It does in our house.

On Mothers' Day, Mum does absolutely fuck-all and gets waited on hand and foot.

On Fathers' Day, the same goes for Dad.

Also birthdays.

Just reading the title gave me the Ick too! Ewwww

How transactional.

Sounds like he tried to be ‘cute’ in the vein of birthday / Xmas as a ‘special day’ to be gifted sex.. of course the gifts being from his children on Father’s Day.. erm I’ll be kind and say he got the vibe very wrong 😂

Just tell him the face was the thought that he wanted you to have sex with your father!!!!! Then tell him to get a life as its n ot your day, its Father's Day. So do without sex, be with child day!

LOLOL brilliant

😂 brilliant

Just look at it as 'Sunday in the middle of June' sex 🥰

He was probably just being nostalgic about how he became a father! And why not?! I’m not sure how I would feel to be honest. Depends whether I was in the mood or not. 😆

Not necessarily true! My husband is a father and our daughter was made without sex 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lucky you.
I’ve never had a great Mother’s Day and part of me thinks why should I give him a great Father’s Day because he’s never gone out of his way for me; a lot of years I never even got any daffodils which cost 99p.
but o can’t help make a fuss of him because that’s how I am as a person but this year was different. I wasn’t going out of my way and I didn’t feel bad (much)

Erm.... are you saying if was your dad, you WOULD give him a bj?? 😮🤔

Wow I am getting old!! are we putting "a label on it" with Sex these days too 😀I shall put this on the 2023 Calendar together with the Cake Sales and Football Training for next Year !!!😂

Yuk. What a plonker.

You know what turns men into Fathers? It's quite often sex.

The two are intrinsically linked - it's definitely weird behaviour to recoil at the thought