She's 10. She really finds pe very difficult, she takes after me and just isn't particularly good at sports, isn't a fast runner etc etc.
She does however play for a girls football team. But being completely honest - she's by far the weakest player. She enjoys it though and I am unbelievably proud of her for sticking at it. I can guarantee that wouldn't of been me at that age.
She's had a tough couple of days, sports day is on Friday. Firstly, her football team played in a tournament on Saturday and she scored an own goal. She also passed the ball to the wrong player causing them to score on the opposite team. She was absolutely mortified and the girls on her team were (understandably to an extent) not the kindest to her.
Yesterday she had sports day practice. She came out of school very emotional because she came last in every race. She begged me to let her have sports day off school.
Now I won't lie, I do let my dc stay at home every now and then. If they seem a bit stressed, tired, run down, overwhelmed with school work etc. this doesn't happen often, it's not a regular thing but I have done it in the past and used it to spend quality one on one time with my dc.
I remember what it's like on sports day. I used to do the same thing to my mum every year and beg for the day off. I know exactly how my dd is feeling and I feel for her so much. Her confidence has really been knocked over the past couple of days.
What would you do?
Just to add - the last time she was off school was in January when she had covid. She hasn't had a day off since.
My gut is telling me to let her stay at home but equally I don't want to have this every year. And I don't want her to think she can always get out of things she doesn't want to do.
I've spent last night filling her with praise, telling her I am so proud of her regardless of sports day or anything else and making sure she's well aware of the many many positive and amazing qualities she has.
I just feel bad for her - I hate sports day even now! It's not always fun for kids or parents for that matter!
AIBU?
To let my dd miss school on sports day?
veralera · 14/06/2022 09:36
Quincythequince · 14/06/2022 11:25
They are pure exhibitionism at best, and a ritual of abject humiliation at worst
This is simply not true.
And as a nation our exercise is at an all time low. We should all being doing more and it starts young.
carefullycourageous · 14/06/2022 11:28
PE in school and sports day is a big part of why so many people hate sport. PE curriculum is awfully out of date and very offputting.
In short PE in school is shit.
I take my kids for loads of exercise, they were always very fit, they do sport outside of school - school PE is part of the problem, sadly not part of the solution.
PE teachers need to completely rethink, but sadly too many of them are fully indoctrinated in the old ways.
Quincythequince · 14/06/2022 11:25
They are pure exhibitionism at best, and a ritual of abject humiliation at worst
This is simply not true.
And as a nation our exercise is at an all time low. We should all being doing more and it starts young.
WouldBeGood · 14/06/2022 11:31
Being in teams is even worse if you’re rubbish at the activity
WouldBeGood · 14/06/2022 11:31
Being in teams is even worse if you’re rubbish at the activity
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