i developed early and i mean early
my very first bra was at 9 and i was a 34d, before that i was in bralettes/crop tops at 8{i was a big baby 8lb 10oz and 27 inches so i was always taller than everyone}
by 11 and in first year of comp(year 7 now) i was 6ft with a toned body as i did daily swimming and a size 8-10 bottom(36 leg though) and a 38 F/G bra(my mother used to have to go to Evans as big bras wasn't available in those days) with size 11 feet
i looked like a grown woman ,i was even taller that 3/4 of my male teachers.
i was a forward teenager and very mouth, never trouble just took no shit
i also had thick jet black hair down to my bum in a spiral perm(a early 90s thing)
ive had to put up with sexual comments since i was about 10.its a good think im very feisty and gave mouth back(hence my user name)other wise i think i would have been affected emotionally
my nickname at school and what i was knows as in my village
was jugs
i still get called it now and im 41 (im from a
little village in the valleys of south wales, what the tv/films portray old welsh villages as is what my local village is and to this day haven't changed)
this was early 90s so asking for ID wasn't common so i used to get in the local nightclub at 11/12(my parents through i was sleeping at my best friends, I was but we used to go clubbing)
we never drank as ive been teetotal my whole life so maybe if i tried to get it at the bar it would have been different but in those days it was getting past the door man and you were in.
ive only ever had the 1 sexual partner so i wasn't easy but i used to do a lot of kissing.
looking back now it was so wrong as i was 12-16 going with adult men(late teens early 20s)but they thought i was 18
by the time i was 16 i was a 42 G/H ,still 6ft and still a size 10
{the biggest i ever went was a 50MM after i had son 2 as i went absolutely enormous in pregnancy as he was 11 pound 10oz and 29 inches}
ive only ever gone as far as kissing and a bit of groping(top half) on their part.
a lot tried further but like i said ive always been very strong mentally and physically(at the time)so when i said no it was a no, ive never experienced a guy going to far or not stopping
but just walking down the street, in town i used to get so much from men in cars and vans and i was 11/12.
i meet my only partner then at 18(he was 17)ironically not at an night club
and we never went to pubs or nightclub since ,(obviously ive gone out for meals but never socialising to drink)
he left me in 2020 but that's a different story.
my 11 y old(y6 age so still in juniors) is now 5ft 5/5ft6 and 11 stone with size 9 feet.
so many people think hes way older than he is and since birth ive had to deal with so much shit of Randoms about he should be doing this or hes to big for that or to big to be here and when i said his real age i used to have to prove to people as they never believed me a like i said he was massive at birth and just went up and up.
hes also disabled(mentally) and years behind and was non verbal till he was 6 and half so ive got a child that looks 13/14 and acts 6/7 and educationally is on reception/y1 level
we also home educate so when playcentres, pools, splash parks are open in term time its mostly toddlers and under so ive had many run in with Prejudiced people over the years over his size matching his age, and personally opinions on home education. im not talking about my village where we are well known im talking about my nearest town which is a 40 min bus ride away.
my argument over the years have been no mater how big he is his age is ** so hes legally allowed to be here.
our playcentres dont have a height limit its just 11 and under so until the summer hes still 11
so ive had it all my life and as a parent ive had it all my adult life