Dick pic

[Glovesick]

I received a sexy pose dick pic, clearly by accident from a friend's husband. I have deleted it.

I am no prude, I can't imagine it was on purpose.

I can't unsee the pic, though. How do I style this out?

I sent an accidental msg to a male friend, one half of a couple that DH and I are friends with. It said something like can’t wait for Thursday I have my cowboy hat ready. I was going on a fancy dress pub crawl at work and he had a name similar to my workmate, think Alan and Alana. His wife rang me immediately, she had happened to pick up his phone when it pinged. All cleared up quickly thankfully. You just need to ring her, don’t msg.

Isn't it!
I just can't believe what a pickle the OP is in 😂

" Gosh, just like a penis, only.....smaller"

I must admit to start with I was torn between thinking "surely he just messaged the last person he spoke to" and "this is bollocks", but that post did nail it for me.

Oh the suspense!

I'd reply "I assume this was meant for Glovesick2?"

I'd want him to know that I suspected he meant to send it to my namesake.

If this is real, you need to highlight the fact that you were not happy to receive this. I would message his wife.

All these ' message back, tee hee tiny penis' responses are so lame.

Nice, Could you send it my way? Here's one of mine.

I know, I can hardly believe it myself

Doubt he sent it by accident. Call his behaviour out

text his missus

"Hi friend, your DH has just sent me an unsolicited full body naked picture. I hope this was meant for you and not me or someone else called my name. Hope you're having a great holiday"

Then leave it at that

Completely agree in all the time I’ve been married and in long-term serious relationships the man has never ever sent me a photograph of his penis ever. So even if it wasn’t meant for you it wasn’t meant for her (your friend) either

If it's real he's messaged the wrong Susan and not realised yet. When he realises there's no reply, he'll check and be mortified. I'd wait a bit longer and go from there....

I would have to reply something along the lines of:
“I’m in the middle of lunch with a bunch of girlfirends so I showed them and asked their advice, one is a surgeon, she said you could see someone about that and they might be able to correct it”….or similar.

(read something similar on here a while back….)

I’m always messaging my dh when we’re on hols, not sure why you’ve said couples don’t like it’s an absolute fact … he could be at the bar, I’m at table - I could be with kids in loo/park, he’s nipped to pick up something from bar or room - I’ve gone for a shower, he’s with kids somewhere - we want to say something without the kids hearing ….. there’s LOADS we might text, as do many other couples I imagine.

You could have been his last contact and he’s not realised - the fact he has a friend the same name as you is either coincidence or guilty as hell.

How old are you/they?

Do you want to tell them what happened or do you just wish you’d never seen it? If it’s the former, then you have to work out how to say something, if it’s the latter then just forget the whole thing.

Should should have forwarded it to your friend 'I think this was meant for you! God knows how he sent to to me instead'

I’d resend it to his wife and say I think your hubby sent me this by mistake 😩

I have the same first name as the wife of a male work colleague and once when he was away on a course, I received a saucy text from him. We always got on well together but there was certainly no mutual attraction, so it was a bit of a shock.

Tbf, I received a follow up, mortified and apologetic one within 1/2 hour explaining it was all a terrible mistake. When I next met him and his wife socially, she was the one who mentioned it and laughingly said she was more annoyed that my name was above hers on his numbers list. In his defence, he was a bit of a technophobe and had one of those old Nokia phones!

I accidentally sent a rude photo to a male friend once (not the kind of friend I would have wanted to see me half naked), it was accident, clicked on the wrong convo on WhatsApp and before I knew it I had sent. He was such a gent about it, we both promised we would never mention it again and he hasn’t 😬, I do wonder if he saved it on his phone for future use though.

I frequently get messages from DP just asking 'Wtf?'when I've sent some random comment meant for a friend!

thankfully not too much damage done!!

Though YEARS ago I sent a text message to my Dad that was intended for my BF 'Dave' (at the time). Now that was very embarrassing!!

Pics or it didn't happen. Er, oh.

Because it's not 1950. (Mobile phone is a bit of a giveaway)

she's friends with both of them, why shouldn't she have his number FFS

anywat, I agree with the 🦈

This is am easy one wait til you say her next and make out like he would have told her and it's all a mistake.

You: "Has X recovered from embarrassment yet?"
Her: "from what"
You: "the dick pic! I couldn't believe it when he sent it to me! I know it must have been meant for you but I dont think I'll be able to look him in the eye again!

You sound like you're absolutely basking in the drama 😆 very much giving Real Housewives

I have messaged him along the lines of "must have sent to wrong person, have deleted".

I am disappointed he hasn't apologised, but maybe he hasn't realised yet. I think it's possible they are travelling back from hols today, it's a longish flight.

I think I will see what he comes back with before I speak with the wife. Ideally, I want him to have already told her and its all cleared up.

I just want this to go away.

For those doubting me, I have a very common name, he 100% has a close friend with the same name, I have never met her, but he has mentioned her a few times and it stuck in my mind because she is called the same as me.

My friend's dh sent me one once. A birthday present apparently.. No idea why he thought I would appreciate it!! I backed away from my friend as I couldn't have told her. He never contacted me after that.