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171 replies

Glovesick · 04/06/2022 11:43

I received a sexy pose dick pic, clearly by accident from a friend's husband. I have deleted it.

I am no prude, I can't imagine it was on purpose.

I can't unsee the pic, though. How do I style this out?

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Glovesick · 04/06/2022 12:14

It had his face on it. No doubt it was him.

I wouldn't say I am close friends with either of them. They are nice people, we have some things in common and that's how we met years ago.

If it wasn't for the wife, then all hell will break loose.

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IncompleteSenten · 04/06/2022 12:15

'accident'. Yeah.
Amazing how often that happens. They must think we're stupid.

If it was me I'd reply that was highly inappropriate. Do not send me pictures of your genitalia.

And yes, I really would. He needs to feel like he has REALLY screwed up here!

Needanotherholidayasap · 04/06/2022 12:15

I would certainly let your friend know as it may not have been for either of you.

IncompleteSenten · 04/06/2022 12:16

Or you could go with I assume that was meant for your wife. I'll forward it on for you.

Creepy bastard.

Rogue1001MNer · 04/06/2022 12:16

I just wonder if it was meant for the wife???

NerrSnerr · 04/06/2022 12:17

I'd reply and say you don't think he should have sent it to you.

The options are, he meant to send it to his wife- then he'd tell her he did it by accident and he/ they can easily apologise.
Or he tried to send it to another women- meaning he can't mention it to wide, or he meant to send it to you- trying his luck.

Knackeredmommy · 04/06/2022 12:18

Why are you assuming it was an accident? He might've been testing the waters

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Glovesick · 04/06/2022 12:19

They are away on holiday for half term. I am just hoping he was trying to entice her back to bed after she had got up early to go for a swim or something.

It was quite a pose. I don't think I can ever see him in the same light again.

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ElenaSt · 04/06/2022 12:19

I have several a day sent to me on fab and reply ' Why have you sent me a picture of a child's penis?'

Or you could say that whilst your not up on horticulture you are sure that's it's an acorn.

CJ1000 · 04/06/2022 12:20

I have had a friend sending me a dick pic before and mortified when i told them. i just styled it out by saying they looked good though and i didnt think they thought of me in that way! it defused the situation with comedy.

Babyvenusplant · 04/06/2022 12:21

ElenaSt · 04/06/2022 12:02

Was it definitely his dick?

😂😂

titchy · 04/06/2022 12:22

IncompleteSenten · 04/06/2022 12:16

Or you could go with I assume that was meant for your wife. I'll forward it on for you.

Creepy bastard.

Yep do this. 'Hi Sally - Dave just sent this. I assume he meant to send to you! Hope you're having a great holiday!'

DogsAndGin · 04/06/2022 12:22

I would go to my husband and tell him what’s happened. Tbf this kind of thing would really upset me and I wouldn’t find it funny in the slightest. I think the ‘friend’ needs to apologise, or else, it looks very much like he did this on purpose… which I think he did.

Kitten2 · 04/06/2022 12:23

How could it have been an accident though. On my phone the names of those I recently messaged come up first, surely his wife was in his top few. Way before it would get to you, unless you recently messaged?

I wouldn't be so sure it was accidental especially since no apology. Surely he would have realised the error by now if there was one.
Voyager / flasher alert.

Howshouldibehave · 04/06/2022 12:24

I would reply, ‘was that meant for someone else?’

Spidey66 · 04/06/2022 12:24

Glovesick · 04/06/2022 12:14

It had his face on it. No doubt it was him.

I wouldn't say I am close friends with either of them. They are nice people, we have some things in common and that's how we met years ago.

If it wasn't for the wife, then all hell will break loose.

I had a vision of a penis with a little face on it, before I realised you meant it was a picture of his whole body.

alwaysmovingforwards · 04/06/2022 12:24

Just reply "WTF?"

It's for him to style this out, not you.

NerrSnerr · 04/06/2022 12:24

ElenaSt · 04/06/2022 12:19

I have several a day sent to me on fab and reply ' Why have you sent me a picture of a child's penis?'

Or you could say that whilst your not up on horticulture you are sure that's it's an acorn.

If several people are sending you dick picks every single day you need to sort out your security settings. Are these random blokes or people you know repeatedly sending them?

PinkSyCo · 04/06/2022 12:26

titchy · 04/06/2022 12:22

Yep do this. 'Hi Sally - Dave just sent this. I assume he meant to send to you! Hope you're having a great holiday!'

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Please do this OP. 🙏

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Glovesick · 04/06/2022 12:27

I saw it 1.5h after her sent it. He could have deleted it before I saw it. It will have two blue ticks next to it for him.

I messaged him yesterday about something really mundane, so I could have been the top contact, bearing in mind couples don't usually message each other while on hols?

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Vikinga · 04/06/2022 12:27

Whilst I've occasionally sent stuff by accident, if it was an explicit picture I would make triple sure that I was sending it to the correct person.

It sounds like it was a mistake because it is weird to go from nothing for years to this. But maybe it wasn't meant for his wife but for someone else. The best thing to do is to tell his wife. If she regularly receives these kind of pics then it was probably a mistake but if he never sends her those pics then it was probably meant for someone else.

Does your name start with the same letter as his wife's?

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Glovesick · 04/06/2022 12:28

We have completely different names.

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BorisBooster · 04/06/2022 12:31

Bit who was the dick pic for ?

I'd mention it to his wife and say the pic meant for her was sent to you.

Then run away very quickly.......🤣 ' cause I'd doubt he meant to send it to his wife !

Iamnotamermaid · 04/06/2022 12:33

Reply 'haven't seen that side of you before 🫣. Hope this was meant for wife's name '

It could just be an accident-mistakes do happen

CJ1000 · 04/06/2022 12:35

might be weird to send a photo of someones dick to their wife... she might not believe it was sent in error. just reply to him with humour. you said it was sexy! lol