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To wonder what this means-fwb?

386 replies

SunflowerEvie · 03/06/2022 11:20

Hi all,

I am currently in a friends with benefits type of situation. I am due to go over to his house tonight but I started my period this morning. I have told him that it has started and his response is ‘it’s not all about the sex baby, we can do other stuff you know’

Does this mean he sees this more than a sexual relationship? I really was not expecting that response from him. I thought he would want to rearrange but I’m actually pleasantly surprised.

OP posts:
WizardOfAus · 03/06/2022 20:55

SunflowerEvie · 03/06/2022 20:12

Oh god. Here and he told me to come in as door was unlocked. He already had his penis out in living room on sofa having a cig. Feel to leave.

Bet you were all over that.

DickeryDock · 03/06/2022 20:59

I’m so sorry Op but your latest update did make me laugh. Men are so bloody predictable.

I really hope you have left. He doesn’t care about you, you are just something to shag. You deserve so much more.

daisychain01 · 03/06/2022 21:14

decayingmatter · 03/06/2022 20:15

When any man says this, in this context, it is unfailingly something shit.

And always something for them, and they're delusional enough to think you'll be massively grateful for.

Honestly OP, dent his overinflated ego and tell him to shove it where the sun doesn't shine!

Perplexed0522 · 03/06/2022 21:15

Honestly OP, dent his overinflated ego and tell him to shove it where the sun doesn't shine!

I think that’s what he was planning on doing to be honest…….

daisychain01 · 03/06/2022 21:18

Hopefully not what he was planning then, if the OP headed off in the opposite direction!

Perplexed0522 · 03/06/2022 21:27

daisychain01 · 03/06/2022 21:18

Hopefully not what he was planning then, if the OP headed off in the opposite direction!

I imagine he just shoved it in his own hand once OP turned and ran 😂

Or shoved it in his inflatable doll perhaps?

Onwards22 · 03/06/2022 21:27

Honestly OP, dent his overinflated ego and tell him to shove it where the sun doesn't shine!

I think that’s what he was planning on doing to be honest…….

😂😂😂

GetThatHelmetOn · 03/06/2022 21:31

cottagegardenflower · 03/06/2022 11:43

Last time I looked, a blow job was 'sex'. He said he wasn't looking for sex, so I would say he enjoys your company

This^

Blow jobs are sex, I try to think we live in a world where men tend to see women mostly with respect (or at least that is my experience).

Don’t over think it, enjoy the company and see how it goes, but let him sort the garden while he is at it.

BiscoffSundae · 03/06/2022 21:39

GetThatHelmetOn · 03/06/2022 21:31

This^

Blow jobs are sex, I try to think we live in a world where men tend to see women mostly with respect (or at least that is my experience).

Don’t over think it, enjoy the company and see how it goes, but let him sort the garden while he is at it.

Maybe read the update 😅

Solonge · 03/06/2022 21:47

er...as for penetrative sex....that is still possible...but Im not drawing a diagram...

GetThatHelmetOn · 03/06/2022 21:50

BiscoffSundae · 03/06/2022 21:39

Maybe read the update 😅

Christ on a bike! Where do people find these creeps and why oh why sleep with them???

Squiff70 · 03/06/2022 21:50

Sounds like that cigarette was a bit pre-emptive on his part 🤣

daisychain01 · 03/06/2022 21:56

Perplexed0522 · 03/06/2022 21:27

I imagine he just shoved it in his own hand once OP turned and ran 😂

Or shoved it in his inflatable doll perhaps?

Grin

or

Envy
Itsmyturn2222 · 03/06/2022 22:07

Op, please say you turned and left!!

BiscoffSundae · 03/06/2022 22:08

Silence from the op. I’m hoping she didn’t stay 😬

RaspberryChouxBuns · 03/06/2022 22:13

Ugh. Hopefully the OP has thrown her phone in the sea after this and ran far, far away.

HRTQueen · 03/06/2022 22:18

Oh god

im glad I’m not young and wanting to date I couldn’t be bothered with all this nonsense not knowing whats going on and surprise is a smoking cock (he is one)

I think some men use the fwb until they find someone they want more with but in the mean time keep you guessing

ArchieStar · 03/06/2022 22:21

Oh what a charmer 🙄

ArchieStar · 03/06/2022 22:22

Seriously though OP, I hope you managed to leave and you are at home safe and well.

SueDeNeem · 03/06/2022 22:23

SunflowerEvie · 03/06/2022 16:53

i am pretty open minded but I believe the benefits are all for him really

But this is exactly what FWB means surely🤷‍♀️
Sex without strings. If you want more it's not FWB

Bournetilly · 03/06/2022 22:23

He sounds lovely! Hope you managed to leave quickly

Rubysmama77 · 03/06/2022 22:28

JanePanface · 03/06/2022 20:38

Bloody Hell.

I'd have dumped him for calling me "baby" even without the penis being wild and free.

I laughed so much at this comment 😂😂😂😂

HappyCup · 03/06/2022 22:35

SunflowerEvie · 03/06/2022 20:12

Oh god. Here and he told me to come in as door was unlocked. He already had his penis out in living room on sofa having a cig. Feel to leave.

🤢 Please say you didn’t.

Femalewoman · 03/06/2022 22:51

Probably means you can get yourself over and sort his needs out, or he ain't bothered by a period and if it bothers you he can do other things with you to get off.

Femalewoman · 03/06/2022 22:52

He calls you 'baby'...... puke time

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