To wonder what this means-fwb?

[SunflowerEvie]

Hi all,

I am currently in a friends with benefits type of situation. I am due to go over to his house tonight but I started my period this morning. I have told him that it has started and his response is ‘it’s not all about the sex baby, we can do other stuff you know’

Does this mean he sees this more than a sexual relationship? I really was not expecting that response from him. I thought he would want to rearrange but I’m actually pleasantly surprised.

Good for you, enjoy!

He is not your friend and all the benefits seem to be skewed to him. A choice you're making, though.

Can I just ask why on Earth you’ve agreed to have a FWB relationship when what you are actually hoping for is more? Why are you letting him have this all his way?

And why are you meeting up with a man who calls you ‘baby’ in this condescending way?

Cigarette in the living room with his cock out.. he sounds appealing

Hopefully this has made you realise that he’s not worth you hoping he’ll want more. What a treat! Tell him you’re feeling unwell with your period pains and go to a girl friends house with chocolate instead!

Then leave.
Go home, have a bath, get your comfiest pyjamas on, get in the sofa with a hot water bottle, order a take away, eat some chocolate and watch what you want to watch on the tv.
Why waste your evening servicing this creep?

Hate to say I told you so but well we did warn you and all those pp who was saying he meant just spending time with the op and it wasn’t about sex 🙄 how naive

Oh shit. Fuck that. I would not want to see him again. I am not that desperate

Omg he would have to be extremely good looking with a perfect penis for me to accept him just having it out on the sofa when I came round 😳😳😳
That's so cringe, do guys actually do this 🤢

Higher your standards!

🤮🤮🤮

Thats not at all attractive. What do you see in him, what is it you like? He expects you to go around there and give him a service! If you really like this guy it seems its more one way and you could get hurt. I dont blame you for wanting to leave. I'd get out sharpish. Let us know what you decide

He already had his penis out in living room on sofa having a cig

What a catch 😂

I hope you walked straight back out the door 🤬

He would need to look like Tommy Shelby to pull that off. Does he look like Tommy Shelby OP?

Bloody Hell.

I'd have dumped him for calling me "baby" even without the penis being wild and free.

What a Prince! Well at least it won't take you long to get back home.

Eewww he sounds grim

well this is a FWB
what did you expect?

Last time I looked, a blow job was 'sex'. He said he wasn't looking for sex, so I would say he enjoys your company

Meh. I don't consider it the same for me personally. If anyone asked if I had sex with him I'd say "no, I just gave him a blow job". Like to me it's just not what sex is for me. Sex is anal or vaginal for me.

Sorry OP.

On one hand he sounds like a twat, but at the same time, it is a FWB situation so of course it’s just about sexual activity and so naturally that’s what he’d be expecting if you had gone round.

I hope you left.

FWB = Fellow wanting blowjob

That's so cringe, do guys actually do this 🤢?
exactly!

Fuck that.
If he does not look like Tom hardy or that Shelby fella he can't carry off sitting there with his cock hanging out and a fag in his mouth.

I've just got an image in my head of him needing to give the place a good hoover and the kitchen being like something from how clean is your house

@GrinAndVomit this is probably the best suggestion.

Go home and text your mates about it, have a laugh, watch a comedy and just chill out. Do not shag him.