I have only been in this type of “relationship” once, when I tried online dating in between getting divorced and meeting my current DH.
I met a guy who wasn’t looking for a serious relationship, he was honest about it from the start before we even met. It was clear that he was a bit of a womaniser. He was very good looking and quite good fun though. I hadn’t fancied anyone for ages or felt desirable. It seemed a good idea to try the “FWB” thing I’d heard people talk about .
It didn’t suit me really though as I couldn’t help myself feeling upset at the thought of him going on dates with/possibly having sex with other women, even though I knew deep
down he wasn’t even my type in terms of a serious relationship. It just felt too weird and I did feel jealous, if I was honest with myself. It affected my self-esteem too .
We would go out for dinner together, cinema, chat on the phone, have nights together without sex and with just cuddling. I even met his mum. However, none of that meant he had serious feelings for me, and I knew that. He just enjoyed having female company I think, without the commitment. So, even if your guy means “do other things” in a non-sexual sense, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants something more.
When a man really likes you and wants a relationship, I find that they make it very obvious. They don’t mess around and risk you meeting someone else.
If you are trying to second guess someone and look for signs to see how they feel, then you already have your answer.