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Meeting male colleague for coffee. Aibu

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monkeysox · 02/06/2022 19:36

Speaking to recently single DF today.
She mentions messaging former colleagues and arranging meeting for a coffee.
One of said colleagues is married with DC.
Aibu in thinking his DW may not be ok with it?

OP posts:
RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 18:29

monkeysox · 02/06/2022 19:36

Speaking to recently single DF today.
She mentions messaging former colleagues and arranging meeting for a coffee.
One of said colleagues is married with DC.
Aibu in thinking his DW may not be ok with it?

In relation to your OP, if it's a big group then I doubt there would be an issue but it's up to the wife. As has been evidenced on here, some are fine with it and some are not but all we can do is make sure our own relationships are happy and sound. Does it matter much what the other wife thinks? Issue would be between her and her husband really.

QuizzlyBears · 03/06/2022 19:11

I’m bisexual, who am I allowed to have coffee with?!

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 19:23

QuizzlyBears · 03/06/2022 19:11

I’m bisexual, who am I allowed to have coffee with?!

Whoever you want to meet up with. No one else's decision.

Rogue1001MNer · 03/06/2022 23:10

I thought you'd flounced @RosieRooster83

MelonsMelonsMelons · 04/06/2022 00:01

Why would this be an issue? I meet colleagues and contacts of the opposite sex for coffee all the time. We sometimes even go to a bar for an alcoholic drink (shock, horror!).

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