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To enjoy Love Island

287 replies

minutesturntohours · 31/05/2022 20:30

I've watched every series, I really enjoy it. It's a great hour each evening.

I know people generally look down on programmes like this but don't actually watch them. I can't be the only one?

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Waxonwaxoff0 · 01/06/2022 19:25

brookstar · 01/06/2022 19:21

It's not snobby. I know what snobby is, I am a young single mum on minimum wage getting benefits covered head to toe in tattoos so I've been on the receiving end of snobby many times.

It's snobby to call someone an idiot for watching something you don't like/agree with as another poster did.

Calling someone an idiot has nothing to do with snobbery. Rude maybe, not snobby.

If they had said pleb or chav or something like that, it would be snobbery.

katrizia127 · 01/06/2022 19:26

Yes, the poor exploited contestants are crying all the way to the bank. It's just a silly TV show! I'm willing to bet those that are vehemently against it have never watched it, have picked up their talking points from Piers Morgan and the like, and are just being blowhards.

brookstar · 01/06/2022 19:28

Calling someone an idiot has nothing to do with snobbery. Rude maybe, not snobby.

If they had said pleb or chav or something like that, it would be snobbery.

Calling someone an idiot is making assumptions about their intelligence. It feels pretty snobby to me 🤷🏼‍♀️

maturestudent74 · 01/06/2022 19:29

It was my mums guilty pleasure at 71!! Confused

brookstar · 01/06/2022 19:33

It was my mums guilty pleasure at 71!!

It got my DH through his PhD..... that and Ibiza weekender 😂😂

Waxonwaxoff0 · 01/06/2022 19:41

katrizia127 · 01/06/2022 19:26

Yes, the poor exploited contestants are crying all the way to the bank. It's just a silly TV show! I'm willing to bet those that are vehemently against it have never watched it, have picked up their talking points from Piers Morgan and the like, and are just being blowhards.

Piers Morgan? I can't stand the man.

I have never watched it admittedly but I watched Big Brother as a teen and I imagine it's the same thing, only with more attractive people.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 01/06/2022 19:42

Making lots of money doesn't mean you aren't exploited either, look at women in porn.

ForestFae · 01/06/2022 19:53

I can’t stand Piers Morgan either.

Disneyblueeyes · 01/06/2022 19:58

PurpleButterflyWings · 31/05/2022 20:50

It's a load of absolute fucking tripe. Cheap and nasty titillating bollocks made for people who have nothing better to do in their lives.

Shameful, shambolic, SHITE!

I LOVE IT! Grin Can't wait for it to start!!!

Yep I'd agree with this 100%!

I also love it!

minutesturntohours · 02/06/2022 00:59

Waxonwaxoff0 · 01/06/2022 17:05

I didn't say anyone "shouldn't be allowed" to watch it. I think it shouldn't be on the TV at all.

I don't know what the situation you mentioned is about. I do not think any show that only shows thin, pretty people and manipulates and twists scenarios to play with said people's emotions is a good thing.

Yet again proof you havent watched it. I assume you dont watch bgt, x factor, the voice ...?

@brookstar , thank you angel.

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Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/06/2022 08:23

minutesturntohours · 02/06/2022 00:59

Yet again proof you havent watched it. I assume you dont watch bgt, x factor, the voice ...?

@brookstar , thank you angel.

No, I don't watch those. I don't like shows like that, they don't interest me!

I don't watch much TV at all to be honest. The only thing I've watched recently is the Walking Dead. I listen to music and read forums on my phone mostly.

So are there overweight, unattractive people in Love Island then, is that what you are saying?

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:32

Yeah. There has been bigger people in Live Island actually

Attractive/unattractive...both.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/06/2022 09:37

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:32

Yeah. There has been bigger people in Live Island actually

Attractive/unattractive...both.

Have there? What are their names? I'll look it up.

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:40

Malin andersson
Anna Vakili

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:41

But why are you 'looking up' love island contestants , giving them the time and googling? What are you trying to even do??

How very odd

Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/06/2022 09:45

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:41

But why are you 'looking up' love island contestants , giving them the time and googling? What are you trying to even do??

How very odd

Because I said that there were no overweight contestants on Love Island. You said there were. So I want to see proof. Having googled those people I can see that neither of them look overweight, they just have "curvier" bodies.

brookstar · 02/06/2022 09:45

No, I don't watch those. I don't like shows like that, they don't interest me!

Yet you thought it appropriate to come on to thread about a tv programme you've never watched, that doesn't interest you, just to criticise other people for watching it! Bizarre!

I've never really watched it but I know people who do and I wouldn't dream of criticising them for it. Just like they don't criticise me for my MAFS obsession!

CornishPorsche · 02/06/2022 09:47

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:40

Malin andersson
Anna Vakili

Neither of those women are fat. Not even close to it. Maybe not a size zero but they are not fat.

Nor are they plain, ugly or anything other than the very bog standard look of woman they want on this show.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/06/2022 09:47

brookstar · 02/06/2022 09:45

No, I don't watch those. I don't like shows like that, they don't interest me!

Yet you thought it appropriate to come on to thread about a tv programme you've never watched, that doesn't interest you, just to criticise other people for watching it! Bizarre!

I've never really watched it but I know people who do and I wouldn't dream of criticising them for it. Just like they don't criticise me for my MAFS obsession!

Because I think the concept of reality TV is wrong. To be honest I'm criticizing the actual show more than the people who watch it. I'm perfectly entitled to criticise something I think is harmful. No one has to listen to me or care about my opinion of course!

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:49

None of you will know if they are overweight or not unless you have access to their BMI

Just because someone 'doesn't look fat' doesn't mean they aren't classed as overweight!

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:51

@CornishPorsche

Maybe watch the show and see the em first thing in the morning with no make up on, Hair everywhere with no stylist?

Nobody can look attractive (to you,by your standards) all the time

Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/06/2022 09:52

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:49

None of you will know if they are overweight or not unless you have access to their BMI

Just because someone 'doesn't look fat' doesn't mean they aren't classed as overweight!

That's true. However they still have the "acceptable" type of bodies for TV. They aren't thin women, but they have flat stomachs, boobs and curvier hips and thighs, much like the Kardashians. They don't have flabby bellies, stretch marks and bingo wings.

loomband · 02/06/2022 09:54

@CornishPorsche
As much as it would be nice to see normal people, putting ordinary folk on there is just opening them up to be criticised. The show itself appears to have strict rules (they never really talk about others appearance besides maybe 'he's a bit short for me').

I think they deliberately choose fairly attractive, insta types who already have a bit of a platform. And I fully sympathise with teenage girls feeling insecure because was that age not long ago, but as an adult, I think one needs to just switch off if it triggers self esteem issues.

The standard for slim/curvy existed before LI and it will after. There's no point torturing yourself by watching it as an adult - it's not like all your friends are and you're excluded if you don't. I could probably ramble on but I'll stop myself!

ForestFae · 02/06/2022 09:56

minutesturntohours · 02/06/2022 00:59

Yet again proof you havent watched it. I assume you dont watch bgt, x factor, the voice ...?

@brookstar , thank you angel.

I don’t watch those either. To be honest, I don’t watch much TV outside of documentaries or anime - which I’m sure plenty have opinions on. I just dislike the concept of reality TV.

GirlInACountrySong · 02/06/2022 09:56

Maybe check them out towards the end of the show, they are definitely bigger then! All that free food and drink and nothing much to do all day