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To be annoyed about the Jubilee

648 replies

thegreenlight · 30/05/2022 12:34

I know I’m being miserable but I’m bloody pissed off about the sodding Jubilee! I went to sainsburys this morning, paid £1.68 a litre for petrol and then popped in to be confronted by bottles of champagne! The last thing I feel like doing is celebrating! I spent all morning cancelling non-essential DDs as things are really tight with the rise in energy prices and the increased NI contribution.
funny how this ‘magic money tree’ can be harvested to pay for this event when people are genuinely struggling and are told to ‘get a better paid job’! I have a bloody well paid job, thankyou, but am still feeling the pinch. I know people are going to say that the economy will benefit - but how? If people spend more then inflation will rise and the BOE will put up the mortgage rates! I despair!

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Antarcticant · 30/05/2022 15:47

I would love to be able to afford a nice meal, bottle of something to celebrate an historic milestone.. BUT..... yet again feeling very left out

Are there no free events where you are? I realise if you live rurally there might not be. I won't be spending anything; just going to trot along to listen to local bands, have a look at the art exhibition and that sort of thing. If the weather is up for it I might go along to the local 'picnic' event but I'll make up sandwiches from things we normally have at home and take a bottle of orange juice or something. And the concert being shown on TV might be worth a watch.

Dinotour · 30/05/2022 15:50

Mammma91 · 30/05/2022 15:45

Driving me crazy too Op. I don’t mind those who do celebrate - but after forking out £87 to fill the car up I don’t think I want to splash anymore on a bottle of champagne to toast the queen.

Good job no one is forcing you to buy any then.

Vegeetas · 30/05/2022 15:53

If I read one more person talking about how "she has always cared for her subjects and has never let them down" I might actually scream.

If they wanted to serve the country they would have turfed out the goverment many times over but they didn't. Instead they've used the current shower to claim winter heating allowance and to get herself a tax exemption.

TarpaulinEyes · 30/05/2022 15:54

I rather like seeing all the bunting everywhere. I haven't put any out and don't intend to but it does look cheerful and isn't doing anyone any harm. I understand there are local free events this weekend including live music so might wander down to have a look. I'm a sucker for a bit of live music

EmeraldShamrock1 · 30/05/2022 15:55

I think during this miserable time it's nice to have something to celebrate, getting the community together for a historic moment.

Some buntings and a few treats would do the job.

If it's any consolation Ireland is suffering from everything in your OP, people can't manage the price increases, housing prices have rocketed if you can find one, people are using food banks.

A weekend of celebrations would be a welcomed difference in the miserable inflation busting times.

gumballbarry · 30/05/2022 15:57

YABU. It's a historic event and a great many people wish to celebrate it. In a couple of weeks you'll have forgotten all about it.

I'm no royalist, but on the scale of the countries finances they cost virtually nothing, and do serve the country by meeting foreign leaders, opening public buildings, visiting good causes etc. Yes they are pampered, but they are also in a prison and it's not a life many would really want.

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 15:57

Jeez @EmeraldShamrock1 unless your in the north I can’t imagine many Jubilee parties in Ireland.

goodbyestranger · 30/05/2022 15:57

Historic significance doesn’t have to bring change. You’re conflating two completely different things. It’s a unique event - unprecedented and unlikely to be repeated

It's an empty event in that case which is exactly my point. Of no value historically.

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 15:58

*you’re tut

Blossomtoes · 30/05/2022 16:00

goodbyestranger · 30/05/2022 15:57

Historic significance doesn’t have to bring change. You’re conflating two completely different things. It’s a unique event - unprecedented and unlikely to be repeated

It's an empty event in that case which is exactly my point. Of no value historically.

You clearly don’t understand what historic significance means.

TimBoothseyes · 30/05/2022 16:01

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TwentyOneTwentyTwo · 30/05/2022 16:02

Feels like a waste of time and energy to be miserable about it. It doesn't have to cost money to join in with some of the local events either. Just a bit of a knees up.

On the 'black/brown' issue, my family is from one of the countries the Queen invited people over from after the war. I don't see it as her fault that the likes of the NF made my family's life a nightmare. The Queen offered my family work, NF thugs beat up my dad. I feel alright to celebrate the jubilee from my perspective.

goodbyestranger · 30/05/2022 16:02

You're simply using the term in a very shallow way Blossomtoes, so as to make it meaningless.

emuloc · 30/05/2022 16:02

coffeecupsandfairylights · 30/05/2022 15:12

Do you really, genuinely think the NHS has ever been anywhere near as good as her private, on-demand healthcare?

This. It gave me a snort to think that anyone would actually believe that the Queen received the same level of care as Ernie, down the lane.

BenCoopersSupportWren · 30/05/2022 16:03

alfagirl73 · 30/05/2022 13:36

I get where you're coming from but ultimately, no one is forced to celebrate it.

People weren't exactly rolling in it at the time of the Coronation and the celebrations then certainly weren't elaborate. There were lots of street parties etc. at the end of WWII when everyone was still on rations and barely had two pennies to rub together. In fact, rationing did not end completely until after the Coronation. There was a pride in managing to come together and celebrate in spite of life's challenges - even if it was a very simple affair.

From what I understand, many people this week are having parties based on more simple ideas of 70 years ago - a few sandwiches and a cake type of thing.

If you're not into the monarchy etc... and don't want to celebrate the jubilee then that is your choice - simply enjoy the extra day off - or not. It's your choice what you do with the day or how much you join in with the jubilee festivities.

Personally I think it's quite lovely and with all the doom and gloom in the world, I see no harm in people enjoying an extra day off work and celebrating with a few sarnies & a bit of cake. If anyone's budget stretches to a bottle of bubbly - then I say crack on and enjoy it! Life is too bloody short and after the last few years, if people want to use the Jubilee as an excuse for a party and a reason to smile, then I'm certainly not going to judge them for it.

You won't get far here with this kind of reasonableness. Coming over here, bringing balance and understanding...what's your game?

Blossomtoes · 30/05/2022 16:03

goodbyestranger · 30/05/2022 16:02

You're simply using the term in a very shallow way Blossomtoes, so as to make it meaningless.

And you’re not only being rude, but also obtuse. 🤷‍♀️

Antarcticant · 30/05/2022 16:05

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At the time it was said the Queen was spending the day in quiet reflection - obviously this was the anniversary of her father's death.

Jubilees traditionally take place around the time of the Queen's official birthday, which is always in June (though usually slightly later in the month).

Aside from this, the obvious reason is that there's less chance of the weather being shit in June!

Blossomtoes · 30/05/2022 16:06

It’s so unrewarding disagreeing with someone old, isn’t it @emuloc? Ernie down the lane got excellent healthcare once. My parents’ was as good as it gets.

Snoopsnoggysnog · 30/05/2022 16:06

CreamyBruley · 30/05/2022 13:06

Same - I cannot understand why we are celebrating the jubilee of such an awful woman tbh.

I keep seeing a poster for a party at my local park and I'm just praying it absolutely pisses it down all day.

Wow - I can understand all the anti monarchy stuff but that’s just really bloody miserable.

There are loads of FREE events for kids around here with volunteers running them - I sincerely hope they get great weather and the kids have a lovely time

Antarcticant · 30/05/2022 16:08

From what I understand, many people this week are having parties based on more simple ideas of 70 years ago - a few sandwiches and a cake type of thing.

I'm old enough to remember the Silver Jubilee and that had a very similar street-party-and-bunting vibe. There's a photo of me as a child having a happy time at a street party.

The Royal Wedding of 1981 was also quite similar.

goodbyestranger · 30/05/2022 16:08

That wrong on both scores Blossomtoes.

Explain the significance of the anniversary, if you can. Instruct me.

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 30/05/2022 16:08

I don't think there's anything worth celebrating. Pampered woman and her useless offspring, who'll never struggle or want for anything, have been in place for 70 years? And? The quicker they go the better. More plastic bunting crap for landfill as well.

goodbyestranger · 30/05/2022 16:08

*That's wrong

Cornettoninja · 30/05/2022 16:08

Antarcticant · 30/05/2022 16:05

At the time it was said the Queen was spending the day in quiet reflection - obviously this was the anniversary of her father's death.

Jubilees traditionally take place around the time of the Queen's official birthday, which is always in June (though usually slightly later in the month).

Aside from this, the obvious reason is that there's less chance of the weather being shit in June!

To add, the queens coronation was in June after a period of mourning her father.

TimBoothseyes · 30/05/2022 16:11

Antarcticant · 30/05/2022 16:05

At the time it was said the Queen was spending the day in quiet reflection - obviously this was the anniversary of her father's death.

Jubilees traditionally take place around the time of the Queen's official birthday, which is always in June (though usually slightly later in the month).

Aside from this, the obvious reason is that there's less chance of the weather being shit in June!

Then maybe it would have been better to have it next year on the 70th anniversary of her coronation. As it is June 2nd-3rd is just random dates with no meaning.