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Who pisses you off right bloody now?

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Adventurine · 30/05/2022 08:03

And say it here, if you can't to them. I know I am not being unreasonable and I also know that if I don't say this somewhere I will say it when I shouldn't and create problems.

So, Jenny. You're right. I do not take our dog for four walks a day. I take our dog for a 45 mins walk/romp of chasing balls and sticks and finding treats on the woodland trail. Because I literally do not have the time to factor in four fucking walks. DH walks the dog while I make dinner. You're not Queen Dog because you take your fucking hound out that much. You just have far more leisure time than I do, and that's because you've no young children and no need to work. AND a little trundle around the estate so you can chat to all the passers by isn't even the same sort of walk! You're just bored. Fuck you, Jenny. Also, no I do not hoover three times a day. Again, see leisure time and boredom. You've no need to gasp when you hear that I don't even do it every day. GTFO if it's not good enough for you!

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Gardenproud · 03/06/2022 20:04

NDN
please take down the hideous plastic sheet you have strung up instead of building the fence you promised. At least you’re not staring into my house 24/7 like a scummy perv and at least I don’t have to endure you socialising on your nasty plastic deck which stands above my garden. Maybe now your cheap and tacky outdoor furniture might not blow into my garden any more.
If you can’t afford a fence you should have moved to a cheaper area: you obviously don’t belong in this village.

Notclosenow · 03/06/2022 20:26

The FB friend who is endlessly proud of herself, her DH, her DDog, her DS, her handiwork, her photos, her post pregnancy body ad infinitum

OldTinHat · 03/06/2022 21:55

To DS2, who I love unconditionally, who I did everything for, who I sent money and gifts to, set you up for uni, who came and stayed so you could practice driving in my car for a weekend just before your test. My DS2, whose gf I welcomed who absolutely detests me and is always rude, not just to me but your brother and your grandparents. You who passed your test, I lent money to so you could insure your car. You who I have never heard from or seen since, ignores my calls and texts, two and a half years on. You who have totally shattered my heart, I don't know where you live anymore. Not only am I clueless but so are your family who you have also decided to cut off. We are all mystified and terribly hurt. We're giving you what you want now, to be NC, and we're leaving you alone. We hope that maybe one day we'll hear from you again and that you're happy.

Alana1983 · 03/06/2022 22:05

OldTinHat · 03/06/2022 21:55

To DS2, who I love unconditionally, who I did everything for, who I sent money and gifts to, set you up for uni, who came and stayed so you could practice driving in my car for a weekend just before your test. My DS2, whose gf I welcomed who absolutely detests me and is always rude, not just to me but your brother and your grandparents. You who passed your test, I lent money to so you could insure your car. You who I have never heard from or seen since, ignores my calls and texts, two and a half years on. You who have totally shattered my heart, I don't know where you live anymore. Not only am I clueless but so are your family who you have also decided to cut off. We are all mystified and terribly hurt. We're giving you what you want now, to be NC, and we're leaving you alone. We hope that maybe one day we'll hear from you again and that you're happy.

This is so awful for you, I have two sons and I can't imagine.

if she's so awful she may be harming him and he may be isolated from you due to her actions.

don't give up on him, I pray that he'll come back to his mumma one day❤️

Thepossibility · 04/06/2022 00:11

OldTinHat · 03/06/2022 21:55

To DS2, who I love unconditionally, who I did everything for, who I sent money and gifts to, set you up for uni, who came and stayed so you could practice driving in my car for a weekend just before your test. My DS2, whose gf I welcomed who absolutely detests me and is always rude, not just to me but your brother and your grandparents. You who passed your test, I lent money to so you could insure your car. You who I have never heard from or seen since, ignores my calls and texts, two and a half years on. You who have totally shattered my heart, I don't know where you live anymore. Not only am I clueless but so are your family who you have also decided to cut off. We are all mystified and terribly hurt. We're giving you what you want now, to be NC, and we're leaving you alone. We hope that maybe one day we'll hear from you again and that you're happy.

This is my absolute fear with my two sons, meet someone awful and off they go.

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Adventurine · 04/06/2022 08:24

Thethreecs · 03/06/2022 18:51

You who moved onto the estate 3 years ago. With your big and mighty plans to make it better. Yes we know you downsized from a fucking mansion to your current house, yes we know you're retired and bored. Yes we know you have more energy than me, maybe that's because I have a neurological condition and 5 grown kids one who's severely disabled that has me tired.

No I don't want to join your residents committee, you've been hounding me for 3 years telling me how anti social I am. I'm not paying 20 quid a month so you can arrange kids activities on the estate, my 20 odd year olds are past the egg and spoon race and the sack race. My disabled dd can't join in, with any of your activities, well, because she's disabled and I can't push her wheelchair on the grass, I can't let her join in, for movie nights because the noise freaks her out, I can't bring her to your arts and crafts, your musical statues, your climbing obstacles that you put up every time the rain stops. No I won't climb the frames and go under nets, I did that as a child and I'm not interested as an adult. I can't put her on the bouncy castles that you hire every time they get a break from school, the other kids would flatten her and no I won't stand there watching with her, why would I torture my child by doing that.

Stop giving her bags of hard sweets when you see her, telling her she missed a great party because her mother wouldn't bring her, she's not deaf! She may not talk but she understands. I then have to take the sweets off her because she can't eat solid foods especially hard sweets, I've told you this over and over.

I keep my garden clean and tidy and grass cut, I'm not a stepford wife with perfect everything, if my grass does get a tiny bit long that's because dh was working or I've been busy or it's been raining. Don't tell me that my grass needs cutting, don't tell me to help neighbours to cut theirs because they couldn't be arsed to do their own.

What.
A.
Knob.

Your neighbour sounds insufferable. I too have a disabled dependent and have experienced similar "sorry that Adventurine wouldn't let you join in" speeches. Bastards

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LittleMissUnreasonable · 07/06/2022 12:52

JO/DO - You only contact me when you want something, and have pestered for inheritance money when I was a kid, despite having your own successful business. Stop fucking saying you're coming to visit me because we all know the 70 mile commute is too much to bother with. My family member who passed away would be utterly ashamed of you and would hate how shit and selfish you both are . I no longer consider you family.

CG/CA - stop boasting about how much money you have. It's pretty tasteless, and your pissing off a lot of mutual friends with your attitude. Stop banging on about your health condition that always seems to disappear when you're doing something you want to do. Get some proper help. Also CA you're not the do-gooder you think you are. You pick and choose things to preach about while doing the complete opposite. You're not the next Greta Thurnburg, you're a self important twat.

MB - starting to distance myself from you as it's apparent you don't care. I no longer reciprocate messages saying 'love/miss you' because I don't. I don't know you anymore because you never make an effort. I'm going to be polite, and ignore the empty promises you keep making.

ER - Your husband is a whiney, antisocial, angry little man. You can post all the Facebook status' about how wonderful he is. In reality we all think he's a personality lacking Pratt who seems cold and devoid of human emotions.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 07/06/2022 14:03

Dh. Please stop running away from conversations regarding our future. Please stop belittling my job. I know whatever I do you won’t be happy because you wanted me to get a job when I was at home, you said I didn’t look after your or my parents when that’s all I did 24/7 for several years and you didn’t want to help. You weren’t happy when I earnt the higher income nor when I earnt the least. Doing more or less hours doesn’t make you happy either.
I no longer care what you want out of me work wise - and you want to move, meaning I have to be the one to leave work again, but not you.
if we do move, I will get a job I want and things at home will change markedly, I’m starting my own life, so yes I’ll stay, but as cohabitees not as partners, as you’ll never see me as equal.

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