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What were you doing on November 13th 2020

666 replies

TeaAndChoccie · 23/05/2022 22:34

while the PM was partying.....?

OP posts:
seperatedmum · 24/05/2022 09:27

I have no photos and my rota Diane go backwards so probably a long shift in and out of full PPE assisting with and facilitating essential dental treatment. dark days

seperatedmum · 24/05/2022 09:28

seperatedmum · 24/05/2022 09:27

I have no photos and my rota Diane go backwards so probably a long shift in and out of full PPE assisting with and facilitating essential dental treatment. dark days

doesn't not Diane

Snaketime · 24/05/2022 09:28

I was working

itsgettingweird · 24/05/2022 09:29

Dependent on the day I was at work or at home with ds!

At work we are still in bubbles and still couldn't hold assemblies, staff meetings and still had limited numbers in staff room so most of us ate SD at tables in the school hall as students still ate in bubbles in classrooms.

Roussette · 24/05/2022 09:30

So in summary beer in Durham ok but wine in Downing Street absolutely not. Got it

The only defence.....

Laughable

itsgettingweird · 24/05/2022 09:32

moiraandthebebe · 23/05/2022 23:36

Planning my toddler daughter's funeral after she was sent home from A&E as a 'precautionary measure' due to how rude Covid was. She died from viral bronchiolitis in her sleep.

I am enraged. We couldn't have many people at her funeral. We broke rules technically to have family support around us at the time of her death. And they were fucking partying.

Oh my word I'm so so sorry.

Flowers
LoopyLube · 24/05/2022 09:35

Tryhard40 · 24/05/2022 08:14

I may have had people round - I've no idea - who cares?

Not everyone blindly "followed the rules". Some of us thought for ourselves and used our critical thinking.

Well aren't you clever. I should have insisted on having visitors then, when I was lying in the mental health ward feeling suicidal. Silly me.

itsgettingweird · 24/05/2022 09:35

Aaaabbbcccc · 24/05/2022 00:35

They were in close contact every day so parties would make zero difference?

They were in close contact with each other.

However they would have then had to go out and about and probably travelled on public transport, visited shops etc.

IIRC this was around the time BJ isolated as a close contact? So actually there was a risk by them doing this.

Roussette · 24/05/2022 09:36

Here we go... this was the message.

Well.... 126 broke the rules, didn't they? Including our Prime Minister and Chancellor.
And they wonder why we're not 'moving on'?

What were you doing on November 13th 2020
SueSaid · 24/05/2022 09:40

'The only defence.....'

'Laughable'

Inconvenient but true Grin. Why is beer indoors with 15 people (when it wasn't allowed) ok but a toast with 6 people isn't? The Met didn't fine BJ, it was at work. Get over it.

80sMum · 24/05/2022 09:40

According to my Google timeline I went out for a walk for an hour and a half in the middle of the day (I'm lucky to have countryside and footpaths just a few yards from my front door). Other than that, I was at home all day.

ancientgran · 24/05/2022 09:41

It was my son's birthday but we couldn't see him. It was just another day at home, caring for disabled DH, cooking, watching TV. The same old same old.

itsgettingweird · 24/05/2022 09:42

Aaaabbbcccc · 24/05/2022 02:17

@TooBigForMyBoots why only Tory apologists!? Kier did it too and Labour lied about who was there! I am a labour voter and I don’t care that any of them had a drink.

You're horrendously and scarily missing the point.

We were in national lockdown. It's isn't about the drink. It's about the fact their meeting wasn't a work meeting. They all met to have a drink and nibbles and then some had to isolate as contacts with covid.

Starmer had a dinner with people he was campaigning with whilst working. I have no idea why they lied about number of people that's just odd.

CorpusCallosum · 24/05/2022 09:44

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 23/05/2022 22:44

Well DD was having an online brownie meeting. The Monday the 9th had been my dad's funeral where people had to sit in their bubble and we couldn't have a wake. He also died alone in a care home where he could only have one visitor through a window. Fuck boris

I'm so, so sorry this happened to your family. Fuck Boris.

SueSaid · 24/05/2022 09:44

80sMum · 24/05/2022 09:40

According to my Google timeline I went out for a walk for an hour and a half in the middle of the day (I'm lucky to have countryside and footpaths just a few yards from my front door). Other than that, I was at home all day.

Yes many people didn't do much however many keyworkers went to work where they will have interacted with their colleagues in offices etc.

Again, the booze shouldn't have been there, that culture needs addressing. If it were sandwiches on the table <or a curry> would folk be so outraged?

Brillig · 24/05/2022 09:45

Sorry, Roussette, I missed your kind reply to me upthread. Thank you.

Apart from anything else, what are these ‘well, why did you follow the rules?' on about? What should I have done at the hospital where my desperately frail 97-year-old mother was kept away from me - broken into the ward screaming and shouting? Been thrown out by security?

It was heartbreaking but please tell me, what could we have done? There were laws and rules. They were there for a reason. Johnson rode roughshod over his own laws and rules, and to hell with everyone else.

itsgettingweird · 24/05/2022 09:45

SueSaid · 24/05/2022 09:40

'The only defence.....'

'Laughable'

Inconvenient but true Grin. Why is beer indoors with 15 people (when it wasn't allowed) ok but a toast with 6 people isn't? The Met didn't fine BJ, it was at work. Get over it.

At work meetings were fine. But they had to be reasonably necessary for work purposes. That's what your god stated over and over again.

Roussette · 24/05/2022 09:46

Why is beer indoors with 15 people (when it wasn't allowed) ok but a toast with 6 people isn't? The Met didn't fine BJ, it was at work. Get over it.

It was an illegal gathering. Deemed so by the Met. People were fined. It. Was. Not. Work.
Questions are being asked about why Johnson was not fined. As you well know.

By the way, it asn't just 6 people. Convenient to think so though.

Get your head round it. He lied. It. was. Not. Work.
Take it up with the Met if you think otherwise.

Roussette · 24/05/2022 09:49

@Brillig
Exactly. There was NO option. You couldn't just crash into a hospital.

My DD was moved on from a park bench for sitting down to catch her breath! People were being fined left right and centre.

Those cool people who didn't follow the rules because of criticial thinking, hahaha, you just come across as complete tits.

SueSaid · 24/05/2022 09:50

'That's what your god stated over and over again.'

My 'god'?! Hey, he isn't my 'god' <wtf> but in 2019 we had little choice on who to vote for as Labour had a blithering idiot in charge.

They were at work. Work meetings to say someone is leaving? Meh.

SueSaid · 24/05/2022 09:52

'Those cool people who didn't follow the rules because of criticial thinking, hahaha, you just come across as complete tits.'

Rousette! you are usually the most polite of debaters you shouldn't call people compete tits. Imagine if someone did the same to you Shock.

Roussette · 24/05/2022 09:57

Janiie

I have been called far far worse on MN than that. As you well know.

They were at work. Work meetings to say someone is leaving? Meh.

For the millionth time, it was not a work meeting. It was an illegal gathering. Hence the fines.

Interestingly, he orchestrated the event and encouraged those there to fill their glasses. Pretending these sort of dos were allowed then, is just rewriting history.

DeedIDo · 24/05/2022 10:00

I had just been told of the death of a good friend who I had been with only two days before. I was distraught, but couldn't go anywhere or see anyone because of the lockdown, so I just had to stay home alone. Awful. Now to know that Boris was partying, whether he knew it or not, is beyond comprehension.

Ohilovetorave · 24/05/2022 10:06

Such harrowing stories on here and how that original poster can say 'tedious' is beyond me.

My diary is just awash with previously made plans with cancelled scrolled through all of them

catscatscatseverywhere · 24/05/2022 10:11

I have no respect to politicians, so I didn't give a toss. I was probably out, driving somewhere (I actually traveled quite a lot during lockdown) or going to Tesco extra for non essential shopping.